Should I talk to my friend again?
Sorry its long! I tried to make a long story as short as possible! Please read! A year ago was my graduation from high school and I havent talked to my best friend of 12 years since. Toward the end of our senior year we fought alot and our friendship was getting kinda of rocky. Most of it was my fault though because I was in a really bad place in my life and I took it out on her. I thought she was the problem and when high school ended I felt like I just needed a break from her, to see if I still wanted to be her friend. But mostly because I needed to sort out my life. I'm way better now, I'm happy and I love myself (I was severly depressed and was over weight and since graduation I've lost 65 pounds) so now I can see that it was my fault because I was jealous of her. And she was nothing but a great friend. It's going to be a year in June, since we talked. We didn't get in a fight or anything to make us stop talking, we just kind of both stopped communicating with each other. I haven't txt or call her and she hasn't txt or called me. Now I really miss her, I've sorted out all my bullsh!t and I want my best friend back. But it's been almost a year, like I said already. So what do I do? What do I say to her?
How can I get my good friend to talk to me again?
I think one of the better things to do at this point is to first clarify to yourself what this good friend means to you. Ask yourself what she actually means to you and vice versa.Once you have clarity on on that then you need to Write down what the misunderstanding actually was Write down both the sides of the argument.Write down her perception about the misunderstandingWrite down what would you have done if someone did that to you.After that if you still feel you deserve the chance to make this things right then you will have to wait.This wait can be rather agonizing if she feels you have wronged her to very large extent.Apologize to her once write her a mail or a text (not very long though) and then give her space and time. Do not try to persuade her perhaps its not the right time for that move.Once time has passed perhaps things will be better and you will get one more opportunity to be good friends again. If after time it doesnt happen best thing would be to move on. Its inappropriate to force yourself on to someone.If things are meant to be they will be if not then perhaps its not to try and have someone or something that doesnt want you
What should I do to make my friends talk to each other again?
Try to clear the misunderstanding between them, create a scenario where in they should miss each other. Remind them of wonderful moments in the past. Bring them together to confront each other and you enjoy as an audiance. Or you can stop talking with both of them till they make peace !
Should I talk to my old friend again?
Ok so less than a year ago there was a disagreement between me and my best friend. Basically she was an amazing person and she could always make me feel better and I've never been closer with anyone else. So after our little argument thing we just stopped talking and for the past couple weeks I've realized I made a huge mistake and that I was super rude to her and that I ruined our friendship for no reason. I can't stop thinking about how much I miss her so I want to text her to tell her how sorry I am but I'm scared she changed too much during this time and she won't want to talk. Should I give it a try? This has been bugging me for weeks.
What is the best way to get your friend to talk to you again?
Most people don’t end a friendship that had a lot going for it over one incident. They might be mad for a while and not talk, but they’ll usually get over it. That’s for a friendship that had a lot to offer them. In the case that the friendship wasn’t real valuable to them in the first place, a lot of people will walk away. That means that you have to argue for the friendship more than for you being a friend or being sorry.Time heals a lot of things. If you wait a while and then send a birthday card or one for some other event, you could write in it that you wish that your friendship meant as much to her as it did to you and that you miss it. After that, send a card occasionally, but not on every chance to do it and just sign your name. You may have to find new friends and acquaintances to fill your social calendar.As far as apologizing goes, you’ve done it. Stop there. Anything more appears really needy and you don’t want to be the needy one in any relationship.
Should I talk to my ex friend again after...?
he told me he didn't want to talk to me anymore and that I'm just some girl he met a long time ago. Those were more or less his words he said to me back about 6 months ago. I never met him in person but we talked on the phone a lot and he turned out to be a good friend to me as well as me to him. Til he started acting weird the last month we were in contact. He emailed me saying he would like to talk to me again and gave me his cell phone. I asked him why he would want to talk to me again after how we stopped talking. He just mentioned that we haven't talked in a long time and he just wants to talk to me. I don't know if I just be holding this grudge again him still or forgive him and be his friend. I don't know if he was going through something in his life or he was depressed but we ended the friendship badly. What would you do?
How do I start talking to my friend again?
During 6th grade, I had this guy friend that I really liked and loved talking to him. However next year in 7th grade, he had a misunderstanding that I spilled a secret so he didn't want to be friends with me anymore and we sort of became distant. This year in 8th grade, he started to talk to me again but only online on Facebook. We talk a lot now but when we see each other in real life, we sort of avoid eye contact and everything. I want to talk to him again in real life. How should I approach him?
What can I do to talk to my old best friend again?
Usually, if you want to reconcile with a friend whom you ended with bad terms, there should initially be no fault pointing on either side.You would need to accept the fact that even though you felt she was wrong, you want to put that past you and show that no matter whose fault it was, nothing could be more worthy than keeping and preserving a friendship.This means that you would not be willing to point out and resurface all their past flaws, but willing to forego and forgive them.This includes apologizing even though you feel that you were right and taking the initiative to extend your hand for truce-that you come in peace.Doing this requires a substantial amount of bravery and maturity. I hope your friend would feel the same and decide to put whatever happened past you too.
Should I start talking to my friend again?
I'm sorry to hear that. Losing a good friend hurts a lot.I've lost good friends as well, so I know how you feel. Losing a friend is not an uncommon experience. People change, you change, sometimes you outgrow people, sometimes you think you know a person, and then you find out they aren't who you thought they were. It happens.You need to accept that your friend is not the person that you knew. He is different now, and by now you know that you cannot be friends with the guy he is now, and he will not go back to being the guy you were friends with. So, you have to say goodbye. Unless you are willing to change into the person he is now, I don't think he will be the person you want or need as a friend. Don't compromise the person you are simply to chase a friendship-if you truly cannot deal with the person he is now, you have to let go, and find people who are more like yourself.
My ex best friend wants to talk again?
I don't know, it seems kind of like she feels bad for pushing you out of her life and wants to make it up to you. It sounds like the two of you used to be really close, so don't let this completely ruin your friendship forever. Don't you want to go back to the old times where she was your really good friend? However, you shouldn't let her do that to you again. So she had a bad year, you weren't the most sensitive you could have been, but she shouldn't have just completely dropped you like that. Tell her the truth- you're unsure if you should be friends with her again because you don't think it's worth it if she's gonna treat you like that. I think you should give her another chance, but make it clear that if anything like that happens again, you won't be so forgiving. Just make sure that you completely forgive her and talk it out with her before you become best friends again, because if you have any feelings of anger or hatred inside, it's just gonna keep building up until one day it'll explode. Seriously. Make sure there are no hard feelings between the two of you, or you'll never have a normal relationship because someone will always be getting angry. Best of luck (: -Sarah