How do u talk to a goth girl?
i want to be frendly with this goth girl who is REALLY freaking hot, and i try to make conversation, but she doesn't talk much and i dont want to randomly start talking about music, so how can i get her to talk??
Is it weird if I don't talk to girls?
It's on you how you take it personally it varies with person to person as actually there is nothing like weird or anything it's the human psychology which creates all this thoughts.If you are not interested in girls and talking with them then for you their is nothing like weird because it's your choice.And also if you are studios one and focused then there is no problem.But for sure yes if you are kind of freebie and you are frank but then you are not talking with girls it creates a negative impact on girls and they think that you are weird and attitude kinda personality.So I think whatever kind of person you are just break all the barriers and start taking initiative for small- small talks.So this will not give any weird mentality on girls.Always try to think out of the box :)
Why would an outgoing guy not talk to a girl?
Usually, this guy is really friendly. He has so many friends, he's really outgoing, but when he's around me, he doesnt really say much, which surprises me because he's usually friendly to strangers. The only time we talk is when a mutual friend is with us, and that's not very often. I often find him looking at me, but looking away when our eyes meet. Then sometimes If I look back, he'll be looking again. But today, he didnt look at me much, I was looking at him and he caught me for the first time. I haven't seen him look at me since. Does he just really not like me or does he like me (more than a friend) and just not want to show it? Please help, I'm starting to like him but I don't wanna waste my time. Thanks for answering and have a great night!
Why can i text girls but not talk in real life?
I am in currently the same boat as you sometimes. Its easier on facebook and texting because you dont have that physical element to your communication. Even medically its easier as well. I watched a special on tv once and they say when you have the physical element as well,, face to face,, it adds alot of stress to your body because the hormones are racing at this point. For example: when you walk up to a girl and you try to talk to them and then you freeze, we call that moment a "brain fart" because your so worried about messing it up your brain temporarily loses its ability to think clearly. Ever notice how easy it is to walk up and talk to a girl you dont like or i should say your not attracted too? Well thats because you dont fear rejection from that individual so you think clearly. You have to have the mindset that you "dont want that girl at all" and it has helped me sometimes. But i noticed recently in my own experiences your body language is everything, even more then words. When u go out make sure you wear something nice, something you feel very positive in. O and smell good too!!! Women love when you smell good and usuallly they will come in closer to have a sniff and right there you have broken the distance barrier. In return you can respond by saying she smells good too and you ccan move in for a sniff. Ask what it is? And LISTEN and RESPOND. lol. This was your "Ice Breaker." So already you have the distance part down and the icebreaker taken care of. Reflect confidence. Stand up straight dont slouch, smile, be flirty, and most of all just have fun and again remind yourself, its just another attractive girl but there are always plenty of others out there to try again. I hope i helped you out with your question. Again im in the same boat as you. Even last night it happened to me too so im still picking up as I go. Each day its getting easier. Practice makes perfect right. Ive been rejected plenty but its the only way to eventually have a comfort for talking to women in person.
How do I talk to a girl and NOT get friendzoned?
I love this question. I think its great that you want to know this. So, me being a girl, this is what I look for in conversations. Talking about your past is always good. But don't mention things like mean relatives, or crazy cousins. Say stuff like about a girl you had a crush on in 3rd grade. Or, what school you previously went to. Talk about your future. Like hopes and dreams. Where you want to go to college, or where you want to get a job. Girls love having someone they can talk to about with all thier future plans. Avoid talking about gross things. Or sports. Because if she hates sports, you just totally lost her in the conversation. If she loves sports, then she might just start seeing you as a friend who she can baseball with. So avoid that. Once your together, that's fine, but not before hand. Just have fun. Girls like a guy that teases her. Makes fun of her, but without going overboard. Keep the subjects light. Like, music, or vacation trips. When I'm talking to a guy, I automatically start liking them if they arent afraid to be themselves. The don't act like a player, or a perfect gentleman. They curse every so often, but don't go overboard. They are just fun to be around. And they have made it clear to me, that if I want, we could be more than friends.
Should I talk to a girl who rejected me?
Son....one simply does not tell a girl "You can text me only if you want to." It makes you look weak. And lame. If she doesn't want your company, then don't communicate with her. Communicate with girls who WANT to talk to you. The ones who actually enjoy your company. This girl isn't some Goddess from another world.She has placed you in the friend zone. Unfortunately, you're not getting out of it. I tell women all the time to have self-respect but males need to start demonstrating it as well. By accepting her terms, you're putting yourself out there as inferior. That's not what you want to do. Roll Miss Priss to the curb with the rest of the trash and find someone who is more deserving of your time. xo
How long should you talk to a girl before asking her to hang out?
Whenever you want to, it doesn't matter very much