I am in love with my friend. Should I tell her?
I was once in love with one of my school mates since 7th standard (at-least i thought so ) , but never had the courage to tell her since she was the most sought after girl in my school and i was one of the most notorious and hated guy (by girls only) so i thought i stand no chance of impressing her hence slowly i changed my attitude and became more sensible. Years passed and i wrote something about her in somebodies slam book. Then one fine day to my surprise i received a text from her , we started chatting and became friends. On Dipawali 2010 i sent her a normal forwarded text about sharing an unknown secret about yourself. She took it seriously and told me that she liked a guy in our class and waited for him to approach her with a proposal for 3 years but he never said anything (by this time she was in a relationship with one of our seniors who was once my friend), after listening to this i thought "who might be that lucky guy?? people were fighting over her for years and this guy just had to say those magic words to beat them all" then she asked me about my secret. I told her that i had a crush on one of our class mates but since she was out of my league i never had the courage to say something to her. listening to this she started asking me who that girl was , i said it doesn't matter anymore she's with some one else now and she's happy but she kept pushing hard to listen to her own name. After an hour of her probing i finally yielded and said that it was YOU (which i guess she knew already) then i asked her who was that guy u liked????? to my horror she said its was ME. She said she knew from 7th standard that i liked her and she was waiting for me to say something which i never did.....Fast-forward to 2016 she's my best friend ( and i am her's) she knows that i am in love with her and i never deny it she's fine with it and we both are comfortable with the situation.So the answer is you should tell her....!!! Hope this helps you
How do I tell my best friend I'm in love with her?
My best friend proposed to me two years back. I was a nerdy-type of a girl belonging to a conservative family. I had no idea how to respond. He mailed me a love letter and I freaked out after reading it. My mum read it too (it was unexpected and my mum was sitting right next to me while I opened my mail). I ignored him and deleted the mail.I pretended like nothing had happened, so did he. But it had. The barrier surrounding our uncomplicated but hidden friendship had been shattered. And the worst part was, while I was unaware of his feelings, the girls I used to hang out with used to tease me about him. They knew that he liked me, I don't know how.Needless to say, it was awkward. We didn't talk for almost a year, until the school farewell. I was starting to miss him and I wanted to talk to him. We had gone from being best friends to strangers and it was upsetting.After school finished, but before starting college, I took matters into my own hands and messaged him, apologized and requested to continue the friendship. I felt cruel and selfish for doing that but when he told me he wanted us to remain friends, all my doubts went away.College started and our friendship resumed. Some time later, he told me about this girl in his class that he had a crush on. He's a happy boyfriend now!The thing about falling in love with your best friend is that if the other person doesn't share the exact same feelings, it becomes the biggest what if of your life. I love him, but it isn't a romantic kind of love.The positive aspect is that your best friend knows you better than your other friends, so the relationship doesn't feel much of a strain. I don't claim to be an expert on relationships, or dating for that matter, but I think you should go ahead and tell your best friend how you feel about her. Talk directly. A phone call, or a face-to-face chat. Start it as a question. Ask her how she feels about dating. Take her out to a place special to her. Don't be afraid to lay it on thick. Tell her how much she means to you. If she doesn't feel ready, go slow and let her know that she will always be special for you.PS: I had to go anonymous because the said friend is on quora and I don't want to hurt his feelings. Don't hate me please!!!!!
How do i tell my best friend i love her?
Maybe you should try taking a walk with her and tell her that there is something that you have to tell her and that you are afraid to tell her and that you don't know how to put it to her. And than tell her that you love her and that you don't want to hurt her by saying that but you just want her to know and you want to know if she feels the same about you. Now I know it's easier to say it than actually do it but I have done that before and it worked out just fine. I wish you luck with it, dude!
How to tell my best friend that I am in love with him?
I am gay and I dated my now best friend about a year and a half ago. He broke up with me because he was newly out and wanted to have his fun. We did not talk for many months but then started to become friends again. And now are BEST friends. We hang out everyday and many of the things we do together emulate a relationship. We have dated other people since then and I can tell that we both got jelluous.. Several times when we were drunk we have kind of professed "that we really really love" eachother and started to make out heavily.. I am not sure taht he wants to be in a realtionship but I am hopelessly in love with him .. everything we do together we have fun and he is the first person whereI think of his best interest before I think of mine... What do I do ? I am so inlove but dont want to ruin anything.. do i just let it play out? or do i say something?
How do you tell your best friend that you love her?
There is a new twist... she is going out with this one guy who is "gorgeous" vervedum from her own lips. I have to say he is not the best looking fellow. He looks like a vinve yaughn and the other guy looks like hugh jackman... She looks like a younger jessica alba.
I'm in love with my best friend... should i tell him?
We've been friends for years now. He doesn't know that I'm slowly but surely falling in love with him. He doesn't have a girlfriend nor he is courting anybody. I am afraid that if i tell him how he feels he might reject me or worse he might go away. I really love him. I am not sure if his being sweet and thoughtful is part of our friendship. I don't want to lose him. Help me! I cannot go on like this. Should i tell him or should i just keep it to myself?
How to tell your girl best friend you love her?
Ever since i can remember i knew this girl. We were always best friends, now im 15, i had some times when i liked her and she liked me but somehow now i'm different. I'm not striving to date her, i just want to her to know i care for her. i always make her laugh, no matter what i say. we can basically talk about anything. Her little siblings always run around saying that she likes me or that i like her. I asked her friend if she likes me and she said that she likes me a little. Is there a chance she likes me back. I would die for her. she regards me as her Best friend and that whenever she was in trouble she could always rely on me. a year ago she said that she liked me like a brother but now i can sense something there in between us and if her friend tells me she has some feelings then maybe she starting to fall in love. IM SO CONFUSED. girls can sure mess with a guys heart and mind. P.S if you have any good best friend relationship sories. please tell them so i can relate better. thank you and God bless.
How do I tell my female best friend that I’m in love with her?
I would say that you do not, under any circumstances, tell her that you already love her.Instead, I would suggest that you tell her that you don’t want her to get upset of freak out but as her good friend, there’s something that she needs to know. Tell her you don’t know why, but something has changed recently. Then tell her that you THINK you’re falling in love with her, like it’s not a done deal yet. Tell her you don’t know why and that you’ve been resisting it, but it’s no use. Then ask if this is a one-way thing, or if there’s any chance that she’s feeling any more-than-friends attraction to you.If she shoots you down, then tell her that things will probably be difficult for you for a while, tell her it might get a little awkward, but to just be her normal self and you’ll get through this on your own. Tell her you might you have to avoid her for a while until you get your head straight, and hopefully it won’t take too long. Tell her it’s too bad, because she would have liked being your girlfriend.Now, if she seems receptive, then you haven’t scared her off by already being in love. People, for whatever reason, recoil against love when they aren’t in love. So that’s what you want to avoid, scaring her off even though she might entertain the idea.