How do I tell my mom I got my period?
When you first get your period it is never regular, but yours seems to be sort of regular. which is odd. you should probably tell her in a note and explain you were scared/embarrassed about talking about it. She will understand. she might be upset you waited, but you are young and you can just explain you are going through lots of emotions right now! it's important that she there for you because if there is something wrong with your period [ex: really bad cramps] you will need your mom to help you take the doctor. It is also important to tell your doctor anyway. if you can't write her a letter, just find a weird silly way to tell her. email her, text her, call her when you know her phone is off and leave a voicemail, make a fancy card being like I love you! I'm now a woman. and she'll ask why and you can explain. or while in the car with her listening to the radio, start singing the song that make up a song "mom i have to tell you somethingggg I got my periodd for the firsttt time..." do it when you're hyper so you have energy and are fearless. haha I know I'm lame, but it might help! you can also stick a post it somewhere she is usually around. be creative nd don't be scared! good luck!
How do i tell my mom that i think i have uti?
I'm very young andi think i have uti. Actually ive looked itup and i have a lot of the symptoms. I think ive had it 4 a long time and i don't want to have kidney failure because i've waited 2 long. Please what should i do?
How do I tell my mom that she has BO?
Thank you for asking. Your mother probably does not realize that she has this problem. It may be related to a medical issue. I would pay attention to her hygiene practices for about a week. If she does not bathe frequently that could also be the cause.I can understand why you need an answer to this question. Your discussion should be about helping your mom and not being critical in any way. You could begin by telling your mom that you read an article (my answer) about the importance of bathing every day to stay healthy. You could mention the following. There is a great deal of bacteria that collects on our bodies daily and some of this bacteria/germs can make someone very sick. I use this soap (show her the soap) and I scrub my entire body thoroughly in the shower or bathtub. I love feeling clean and by doing this before or after breakfast, I feel that I have more energy and feel refreshed. I also use this powder ( show her one) and people tell me that it smells wonderful. Would you like me to get some for you? Also, Mom, I use this type of deodorant and it works very well especially on hot days.If your mom has not interested in proper hygiene, this approach may not work. If she is very tired tell her that using a wash cloth is also a great way to feel refreshed. She can use one with soap and water and another with just water to wash off the soap. Then she can towel dry. It is simple and may be the best way to get her started. It is also important that she wears clean clothes. Does she have clean underwear that she changes daily? How often does she do the wash? Can you help her with this chore?Unfortunately, you can not force someone to change. But if you have this discussion try to sense whether she is offended. If she is, then you will need to stop the conversation.I am also wondering if you could enlist the help of someone in the family. It is definitely an uncomfortable subject and I sincerely hope that your mom understands that you are trying to help her.
How do I tell my mom I need more pads?
There is no reason to be scared of asking her - she understands and she has to go/or went through it too. Just tell her when you get to a store and say - "Oh, hey mom, I need pads." and walk over to the feminine hygiene aisle. Or if you are coming back home or going some where in the car, just say to her, "Mom can we get some pads? I'm almost out." Or maybe when you get your period and you walk out of the bathroom just tell her, "Mom, I got my period, could we pick up some more pads? I'm almost out."
How can I tell my mom i'm having sex?
I'm 16..going on 17 June 27 :) && Me and my boyfriend been having sex best way we can because my mom doesn't know i'm having sex.i don't want her to not trust me when i'm out with him or just out or i don't want her to yell at me when i let her know .. she unpredictable and i'm scared to ask her to put me on the pill or tell her that im ready or having sex.. I wanna talk to her and tell her but don't know how to start the conversation off and how to talk to her about it ! Help what should i say ?
How do I tell my mom that I’m bisexual? She doesn’t generally accept LGBTQ+, and what will I do if she doesn’t accept me?
Okay, so this is really important. Before you come out, make sure that it’s safe. A lot of LGBT+ youth are at risk of being disowned and even kicked out of their homes.If you’re not in a position where it’s safe to come out, wait until you are. Please.If you’re independent, though, either living on your own or in college dorms or something, and you want to tell her, then it’ll be much safer to come out.Before you come out as bi, you should probe for her opinions on gay rights, marriage equality, etc. See if she supports gay rights. If she does, it’ll be much easier! If not, again, make sure that you feel safe.In terms of how to actually tell her, the way you do it really depends on you, and what you’re comfortable with. One friend of mine came out by writing their parents a letter, and filling the envelope with rainbow glitter. Another just walked up to their mom and said, “Hey mom, what’s up? I’m gay!” I’ve also heard of people making a cake with rainbow layers, and surprising them by cutting it open to reveal the pride flag to their family.The way to come out to your mother really depends, on what you’re comfortable doing. For example, I just sort of casually brought it up in conversation because I didn’t really want to do anything more dramatic.TL;DR:There are two really important things when it comes to this:Make sure you’re safe!Do whatever you’re most comfortable with. Coming out can be hard, so make sure you know you want to come out before you actually do.Good luck!~Cass
How do I tell my mom I want to shave my legs?
Next time you go out with her to Target or Walgreens or whatever, go to the chick stuff department and get a bottle of Nair or VEET with the little plastic "Shaver" (but doesn't have any blades...) and ask her if you can try that. She can't be against it because there is no blade for her to worry about... If she has an objection, it will be because she is afraid you will cut yourself... Personally, I wouldn't do it... The sooner you start shaving, the thicker the stubble will get... But it is your body, do what you want to do... Don't be embarrased... 80% of women on EARTH shave their legs... Think about it this way... Your only asking about your legs... At least you are not asking about shaving anything "Higher Up". Good luck honey... WE HAVE ALL BEEN WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW! *HUG*
How do I tell my mom I don’t like the way she worries too much about me, because I can look after myself as an adult without offending her?
You’ve been telling her, I’m sure. She’s still worrying, I’m sure. Mine too. I’m 27 years old, I’ve been living on my own since I left for university at 17, but if I call my mom and tell her I’m sick, she won’t sleep well for the next two nights because she worries about me.If I’m at home visiting and I stay out past 2am with my friends from high school, she’ll wake up in the middle of the night and call me to say it’s time to come home, because she’s worried about me. This has slowed down substantially; she’s realizing that I stay out of bad trouble (though I’m often the source of what I call good trouble), but she’s being tasked with something that mothers all have different levels of trouble with:accepting that her baby has flown from the nest, and that I’ve got my own pair of wings I can use to get aroundMy mom will probably never stop worrying completely, and that’s the curse she’s brought upon herself by caring for two boys as a single mother. We became her world, and when we left, she had to reconcile the fact that her little birds have flown from the roost. She’s really worrying less these days, but the only way we encouraged that behaviour was by living our lives more independently, and showing her that we’re responsible adults.There is no way to tell your mom to stop worrying. Every single method I’ve attempted that relies on language fails, and it always will fail. If your mom is overbearing… find a way to savour it, because she won’t be around forever, and that love she feels for you, that protective and caring spirit, is something so special that you should just accept it and find ways to have fun with it. If you’re still living at home with her, then you haven’t flown from the nest yet, and your mom worrying is a reflection of the fact that her instinct begs her to keep you safe and comfortable.One way to approach this with words would be to explain to your mom how dangerous stress is, and that you’re worried about her because her worry can encourage health problems for her, and you want her to live to see you get married and stuff. That might encourage her to focus her energy on just loving and supporting you, focusing on her own happiness, and stressing/worrying less. I highly doubt it, though; my mom hasn’t stopped worrying, though she certainly worries less now that I’ve been living away from home for so long.