Should I text HIM first?
Yes I like him. But I am fine on being just friends. I always text him ''hey'' or something and he replies very quickly. But why doesn't he text me first? Today I decided not to text him and wait for him to text me but he's not. Should I just go ahead and text him? or not? And how long should I wait for Him to text me
Should I text him or continue to wait?
Guys like a chase? Thats complete bull ****, quite frankly dating is a game and whether you like it or not your playing it. If the guy asked for your number, and seemed interested in the first place then he either forgot about your text, or is busy ect... I personally hate when a girl tries to act like shes not desperate by waiting a day to respond to my text; the rules of engagement to me seem incredibly immature and if people were not so conscious and afraid about what the other people would think \ say then there would be 0 inhibitions and everyone would be a hell of a lot happier. Frankly, be the mature one and if you want to talk to him then text him again. Remember that texting is pretty much the most indirect form of communication being that you have to infer how the other person would say what your reading i.e tone, pronunciation etc.. so as long as your not sending him more than two texts a day with him either giving you a one word response, or no response at all, your more than likely not a bother to him.
Should I text him first or not?
Here’s a really simple solution to all such questions:If you have a question for him or something you want to say to him, text him. If you don’t, don’t.Successful relationships are built on a bedrock of communication, so communicate. Don’t build up a habit of guessing, tip-toeing, looking for signs, and innuendo. It’s very hard to train yourself out of that, and it will tarnish your chances of happiness in the future.Here are some common paths relationships tend to take:Start ——————— [months of innuendo] ——————-> HappinessStart ——————— [months of innuendo] ——————-> RejectionOr, when there’s clear communication from the start:Start —-> HappinessStart —-> RejectionEither way, the end results are the same. But with the second approach, you avoid all that wasted time in the middle.But that’s not the whole story, because relationships never end with happily-ever-after. Here’s the fuller picture, ignoring relationships that end in rejection:Start ——————— [months of innuendo] ——————-> Happiness ———————→ [Years of trouble because the participants never learned how to talk to each other] ———-> DeathOrStart —————���— [months of innuendo] ——————-> Happiness ———————→ [Years in which the couple gradually learns how to communicate] ———-> Happiness —-> DeathOrStart —-> Happiness —- [Continual good communication] → Happiness → Death.Pick one.
Why won't he text back? Should I text him again?
Wait until he texts you back...I know it's hard to resist texting him again, but trust me...You'll know if he's worth it or not if he texts you back...If he doesn't text you back within 5 days, he's a jerk...And unless he has a credible excuse as to why he didn't text back, and then with following up with proof, DON'T TEXT HIM AND FORGET ABOUT HIM Good luck girl :)
We're on a break.. should I text him?
My boyfriend and I decided to take a month apart because he said he's depressed and doesn't know if he can handle our long-distance relationship (on and off 4 years). I texted him a day after we stopped talking telling him I missed him and didn't know what to do. His exact words were "I still need a break. Maybe not a whole month, but I just need some time alone. And if you ever want to know how things are going or anything, you can always text me. I promise I'll reply." It's been 3 days since then (I know, not long) but I'm really confused about whether or not I should actually text him. Does he actually want to talk to me, or was he just saying that to not be a jerk? He hasn't texted me yet and by the looks of his facebook he seems to be doing well. The only thing I worry about is that if I wait too long to say something, he might decide that he doesn't want us to be together anymore. He has a tendency to be a little flighty and make decisions on a whim like that.
If he does not text me, how long should I wait before texting him? I want to text him every day.
If he does not text me, how long should I wait before texting him? I want to text him everyday.Patience. Patience. If he has not texted you in awhile, it may be for one of four reasons:He's hoping to hear from you to see if you're interested.He’s afraid that you might not be interested in him.Something is preventing him from texting you.He’s not interested in staying in touch.If it's been a week for example, don't be afraid to send him a short text asking him about something in particular. Make it more than just a “Hey, how are you?”A question is best because it puts him in a position of having to respond. The onus is on him.Give it a few days. If you don't hear from him, then follow up with a quick text asking him if he received your first.If you don't hear back in a couple of days, then let it go, relax and forget about him. Don't assume he's not interested in you, you don't know if he actually got your texts, which he probably did, or if there's something else that you're not aware of that has prevented him from responding. Always give someone the benefit of the doubt.If at sometime in the future you reconnect or run into him, then behave like you're happy to see him (if indeed you are) and don't make a big deal about it, but ask him if he ever got your texts. His reaction at that point will tell you all you need to know.The hardest part is having the patience to wait, and getting on with your own life normally.
Should I text the guy I like? I don’t know if he likes me back, and I feel like it will be super awkward if I just text him. The guy also just put his number in my phone. He didn’t say, call or text me, or anything at all. I don’t know what to do.
If the guy put his number in your phone he's at least interested in getting to know you better and definitely wants you to contact him. Idk that Id straight away ask him if he likes you but keep it light and casual. Asking that sorta question at first contact might scare him away. Instead ask him if he's seen some new movie that's playing at your local theatre. If he says no maybe hint about wanting to go see it. If he digs you he will jump on the opportunity to ask you if you want to go see it with him.
How often should I text the guy I like?
that sounds good. Whatever you do do not text him everyday,unless he texts you first. Text him probably every 2 or 3 days just to let him know your thinking of him. Send him something flirty like "so what kind of trouble are you getting into today?"
SHOULD I TEXT HIM I DON'T WANT TO SEEM ANNOYING OR CLINGY?
I asked my crush to the dance and he said yes so we are going together however we don't talk much... I had my friend ask my crush (she's friends with him) if he wants my # since we are going to the dance together and he said yes so she gave it to him... He didn't text me that day tho... The next day he told my friend he still needs to txt me but he doesnt know what to say & she told him to txt me during lunch saying "i see you"... So he did... Then i txted saying "who is this?" and he didnt reply all day... The next day my friend asked why he didnt txt me back & he said he didn't txt anyone back... He texted me that day saying "hey its (my crush's name) sorry i havent had the time to txt u back ive been so busy :(" then i txted him back at 10:00pm saying "ohhh haha its fine"... And he never txted bak its been a few days... Should i text him saying "hey :) whats up" I DONT WANNA SEEM CLINGY