Do men ever forget the first girl they truly loved? Would you look for her if you could? What would make you go back or want to give it another shot? Would you go back to them if you could, or are first loves just experiences and lessons?
No. We don't forget. We move on.A man's first love is always selfless and unconditional. He puts his lady above anything else, maybe above his family and friends too. But when things don't work out, he is lost.Many stay in that pit of depression for years, cause that's what a man is supposed to be, strong and emotionless. Many become jerks cause they want to avenge their heartbreak with the entire humanity. Many grieve, accept and move on.First love is always is the first lesson in life about having self respect. Men go beneath their self respect to for keeping their woman in their life, and that's probably is the main reason for her leaving him. It's a vicious circle.Do we seek her, no. Not at all.Do we hate her, absolutely not.Do we cherish the memories, yes we do. Sometimes, couple of tears slips by.Do we want to do it all over again, probably yes, but it won't be same. We lose that enthusiasm to go an extra mile for someone.Do we believe in love, yes, cause we have witnessed one ourselves.We forgive her and make ourselves better for the person who would love us the same way we did to her, or maybe more. It will be wrong to the girl who would be with us in future and good men don't want to deceive their lady.For we knew, we loved her truly so we forgive.Forgiveness is the final form of love.
Do guys forget their first love and first perso they lost their virginity to?
So me and my ex were together for a year. Then he dumped me for a dumb reason. I was also his first girlfriend, his first love, and the first he had sex with. As for me he wasn't my first boyfriend but he was my first love and the person I lost it too. Its almost been a year after we broke up. He's had many girlfriends during that time. Maybe even hit it and quit it types too. We don't talk at all. He basically threw me out of his life. It bothers me how he can talk to his other ex girlfriends like its nothing... But he can never talk to me.. I don't get it. It seems unfair because I miss him and would love to atleast say "hi" to him..
Should I keep trying to talk to him or just forget him?
My Dear, keep moving by all means. If you have to initiate the texting each time, he probably already has a girlfriend. Aha, you didn't think of that one, or you didn't mention it. Find someone else and give it all you've got. Throw him away, if he cares he will come back on his own. Then he'd better hope it isn't too late. Best of luck to you.
How do I forget a best friend whom I had a crush on?
It seriously depends on what your feelings are, if it was just a crush then just go and talk to him, he might have been just uncomfortable when he came to know that you have a crush on him. Make him believe that you are out of that phase now, because you seriously shouldn't be hanging in their like that.May be he doesn't hate you, its just he doesn't want to give you wrong intentions or any more ideas about the future that you might think.Even if you are in love with him, do the SAME!! because if you want him to like you, you HAVE to be his friend at first. Treat him like your other friends, so that he doesn't feel like you are doing something special for him, just to make him like you. Be there for him, but not all the time. Give him his SPACE.
I love this guy who I don't talk to anymore and I'm not able to forget him no matter how hard I try. Should I let it go and or do something about it?
OSHO said "If we try to avoid something then our all concentration sets up on that thing."You are trying to forget him, you couldn't and then you saw that "he is doing very well" it hurts you even more that "how can he move on so easily while I am still there".May be he doesn't know that you fell in love with him.Have you ever try to tell him? No. Then how would he know?First you must starts to talk to him as sometimes we lost our some good friends keep thinking that if he is not trying then why should I? Someone has to do this then why dont you?After that you have two options:First, If he is also interested in you then lead a happy life. No need to do anything. No worries. Second: If he don't have feelings for you then just let it go.Focus on your study/work, make new friends and always remind that everything happened just for a good reason. May be someone better than him, is waiting for you somewhere. Who know???All the best and God bless you.
How do I forget a guy whom I love very much but who doesnt love me?
first of all why would you want to love someone who don't love you.Love is a two way street. It takes time to truely love somebody. the things they do for you. the way they make you feel over the years.It sound like you are capitive by his man a fascination,infasuation but remember none a these words are the synonym for love.YOUR MAN IS ON THE WAY, be patient. good things come to those who wait. infasuation
Should I talk to my boyfriend first after a fight or should I wait for him to talk to me?
What do you think whose fault was it? Why did you end up fighting each other? What do you think who's hurt more?If you seriously believe it’s you who was at fault, then you'll do the right thing if you talk to him first. Let's say, it wasn't your fault, rather it was his. But if you carelessly spoke something to him which shouldn't have and he might've been hurt, then you shouldn't back yourself. Approach him, speak to him and express your guilt.It doesn't really matter who made the mistake or who started it. What matters is how sooner you both patch things up. The sooner you get it done, the more better is for your relation.Lack of communication is what kills a relation. Try to avoid any such thing that'll fill you with remorse. It's better to deal with things as long as they can be dealt with. Later, what only thing that you can do is ‘Regret'. This is only a small word yet it's such a drag, such a burden. You might end up in depression (I'd been through).Forget the past and look for the future. Past is past, it's gone. What comes next is future, save it. You could either save it or ruin it, that depends upon your next step - either talk to him and let your good times roll or wait for him to speak to you until you both feel sorry.I would say rather to go with option 1. It's for the sake of your future with your boyfriend.Good Luck and Good Day!
My girl friend lost virginity to her ex-boy friend, will she ever forget it?
Hi, My girl friend of 2 yrs, told me that her first time was with her ex- boy friend of 5 yrs. She left him after their engagement as she felt insecure as he never earned and lived in her cash. You can say she jumped on her friend's boy friend (me) when i broke with her friend (my ex-gf), i never had sex with anyone so didn't know if she was a virgin or not. But,one day when we were talking she told me how she lost her virginity to this guy. She is from a conservative catholic girl, but now i feel she seems to never forget him, even though she says otherwise. I have given her a good home, car, money and even bailed her out of her credit which she incurred for her ex-guy. So, what should i do? I am very attached to her,but everytime we have sex, it always hits me she has slept with someonelse or much worst thinking oh him or comparing him with me.. We are from Asia, down here women lose their virginity after marriage.. So, i need some advise to make my life better, pls help guys..
Do you remember your first time?
I remember my first time, who where and when, and I still remember fondly some of the PG details like the way the moonlight made his blue eyes glow almost magically that night. sigh.... memories... Man that sucks for you about the people banging on the wall. Maybe they didn't know what was going on inside, or didn't think it was *THAT* happening, or had no clue it was your first time if they had any inkling whatsoever. Oh well, it's a memory that you've got and will probably never forget.