My boyfriend spends way too much money on me?
I have a boy who is my best friend and he spoils me too. He buys me food though. He always pays even if i say i want to pay. my situation is a bit different as he doesnt spend more than $20 usuaully but i still feel really bad accepting and not giving anything in return (especially since i have no job, no money to buy him anything.) the best thing to do is to let him know you appreciate it all and maybe ask him to stop because your feeling guilty. as long as you let him know, he'll know you arent that type of girl who leeches onto the guy for his money and uses him. keep complimenting him and telling him nice things. it'll be okay and just appreciate what you have. your a lucky girl. :) Good luck & hope i helped.
How much money should i spend on my boyfriend for his birthday?
Spend however much you feel like spending on him. There is no set amount that anyone should spend. If it's a fifty dollar gift that you want to get him, then if you can afford it go ahead. For me, I tend to just appreciate that my girlfriend thought of me on my birthday. But that's me. What you get for your guy is up to you. :)
Should I spend money on my boyfriend?
Spending money isn't an issue.I'm not telling you that you should spend money, but you can if you want to.If you have money, it’s okay to spend money sometimes by buying him gifts or paying bills when you go out together. But make sure that he does not get used to getting free food.Sometimes you spend, when you don’t have money, let him spend on you. Sometimes spilt the bill.
Is it ok to spend money to your boyfriend?
Why wouldn’t it be OK to spend money on a guy you’re dating. Truth be told, if we go on 5 dates, I expect you as the woman to opt to in the least split the bill at least one out of those five times. Eventually as time goes on I expect you to treat me from time to time. Why? Well I go out of my way to do things for you and show you I can help support you and have fun with you, it’s HUGE that you can return the notion at least once in a while.There’s nothing at all wrong with spending money on the guy you’re dating and into. I’m not sure where the notion that the guy has to fully pay for every date and support you came from. In all honesty, if we go on 5 dates and you don’t opt to at least split one of the outings, I’ll see you as mooching off of me and that your intentions in this relationship aren’t in line with mine. Now of course if you’re young, are struggling with money in general, or have other monetary problems, that’s a valid excuse and I completely understand. But if you have a stable job, then that’s a totally different situation.Show you’re appreciative and give every once in a while. Though it’s one-sided, I believe that in most relationships, the male is going to pay for about 75% of the expenses when going out. Help the guy out and contribute or give back every once in a while. It’s give you huge brownie points. Plus, just like girls, guys like to receive things from their significant other as well.
If my boyfriend doesn't want to spend any money on me, can I believe he really loves me? He is penurious, in general.
To me when aomeone loves you... regardless if is a man or a woman will definitely share their money with their couple. Specially suring struggling times. I had a fiancée who would not give me cash or help me pay for the bills when living together after 6 monthS. I paid it all, now I'm broke, he is with his family making tons of money, but he will not buy a flight for me, even though im unemployed and trying to stretch what I saved after the last work.. I just have ebough left for flying and maybe keep 500 in my acct to pay monthly bills that are around 300. Still he will not pay for my ticket. after year and a half of me supporting him, and paying for his tickets. When I left him overseas I didn't because I not longer had money and he was unemploye. Now after getting plenty of money from his family who owns a company. And me showing him that I was there for him for good and bad. The guy expect me to pay for the ticket and met him.. What I think that when they start being stingy not matter what they will not change..so if this is a turn off for you, better to leave than being trapped like me. I lost my vehicle all my savings and the best part is the guy says that I'm lying when I told his family in a email what I was doing..and he expects me to denied everything as well.
My boyfriend hates it when i spend money on him so what do i do thats cute and shows him i love him?
Money is very cliche in relationships and it's also an easy way to express just about anything. People expect a little more by their own personal gestures such as a homemade card or fresh baked cookies because it's a touch of their own individuality and shows that they take time to express how they feel. Anyone can run to the store and purchase a rose and then leave it somewhere. It takes time and thought during the day to sit and make a giant poster and for you to stay outside where he is to show you care. And trust me, it's a great sign that your boyfriend doesn't like it when you spend money on him because it shows he's a simple guy, concerned about the little things and in the long run it may show that he'll know what to do for you in terms of expressing his own feelings. A cute of letting him know is just simply facing him. Nothing says it better when you're personally looking into the person and saying what you feel because they can see the expression on your face, the tone of your voice, your body language when you say it, and you can see how they feel. It seems a little rash to some people to do this because it's hard for people to face confrontation but it's better to do it that way. Why? Because you're not hiding behind a little gesture that you aren't sure exactly how they'll react to.
How much money should I spend for my boyfriend’s birthday?
None of us knows your budget or your boyfriends preferences.All I can say is:If you are going to spend money, be sensible and spend within your meansSpending time with someone and doing things that don’t necessarily cost money (like cooking a homemade meal or giving a certificate for a special massage from you) mean so much more and have more value than material things.
MY Boyfriend Spends too much MONEY ON ME, HELP?
Does my boyfriend spend too much money on me? We've dated for a little over 3 months now and in that period he said that he's spent $1,500 at least on me. I feel so bad I haven't even really noticed he's spent that much, what are some things I can do to decrease spending?? It's just that, HE ALWAYS! offers to pay for things and does ..... all the time! So how can I convince him to let me get the bill or something? I complain about how he spends the money on me but he always tells me that I'm worth it and for me to not worry about it. He's a complete gentlemen, opens doors for me and everything. I'm just concerned because we are both college students, he is 20 and I am 19 years old. I want himt o use this money on school and stuff =
Should my boyfriend give me money?
If he offers to give you money, then yes! Why not?! You should gracefully accept his offer. Same goes for him taking you out for dinner and he pays , accept it and say thank you, simple! However, don't pressure him to give you money though, let him do it on his own.There's nothing wrong with your boyfriend taking care of you! (It does NOT make you a prostitute!). From my experience, when a man really wants a particular woman he's very willing to spend money on her (VERY VERY WILLING). And, just because he gave you money does NOT mean you must have sex with him! Never allow him to pressure u for sex, only do it if you want to. Don't even apologise for not having sex with him.