What is the best way to answer the question: "What are your intentions with my daughter?"?
Okay. Consider this situation in your head.. you and your date …. Lets call her Marie.. are going to the movies. you are picking her up at 5Pm because the movie is at 7pm, you two wanna go have a quick meal and generally hang out. Nothing wrong with this.You knock on the door and you say why you are there. “Hi. Ummmm I’m here to pick up Marie.”He’s going to instantly wonder whats up. Its possible that Marie never told her dad whats going on, whats worse is that he will judge you by what you are wearing. he’ll judge you because he doesn’t know anything about you.So Marie comes into the room. “Oh, Hey… “ and awkward silence ensures. Because Marie did’t share with dad that she was going on a date so he wants to clear the air with the question because he wants to know in no uncertain terms what your intentions are towards his daughter and he’ls also sticking you on notice that he’s not going to tolerate any funny business whatsoever..Marie however think she can handle herself and she thinks her dad is being overprotective where as in fact he thinks that Marie is too young for this and it was only last week that she came home from the hospital after being born. So… What do you say to the man who’s just meeting you for the first time?.I know what I’d tell him. “My intentions are honorable. I’m going to take Marie out to dinner and a movie. I should have her home by midnight at the latest.”Marie will probably apologize for her father being overprotective once you two are back in your car, traveling and well outside of earshot.. the question you face here is… Is he a threat to my relationship with Marie?. or not?. only you can answer that.In my experience, fathers do tend to be a little more protective of their daughters then their sons but remember that he doesn’t know you and he has no idea whatsoever of your plans or intentions towards ‘his’ daughter…I recommend you treat this question the way you would take a drivers exam or a blood test, take it seriously… but like others have said, its all in context but no matter what, don’t take this question lightly. Its a provocative question and should be treated as such.Shep
How can I get custody of my cousin's baby? Please Answer!!!?
Okay, I just found out my cousin is in prison. His girlfriend recently had his baby which was taken by protective services and is now a ward of the state (Oklahoma). More than anything, I want custody of the baby. I was told a court date has been set for Feb. 27th, 2007. I live in Colorado. How do I go about letting the court know I would like custody? What is the first step? I don't know anything about the mothers situation. I would like to adopt the baby, but this is all new to me. If anyone knows ANYTHING about this subject, please let me now! Thanks!
My cousin lost a bet and know he has to dress as a girly girl for 7 days 24/7 what should i make him wear ?
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My name wasn't on the wedding invitation, but now my cousin is angry with me for not attending. How should I address this?
If the invite was addressed to your parents, and you weren't living at home, then technically, you WEREN'T invited. Your cousin should have realized that you weren't living there anymore, and did one of the following:Send separate invitations addressed specifically to you and your siblings at your places of residence, ORAddressed the invitation sent to your parents' home as "The Smith family". If she had done that it would have been clear that the entire family was invited, ORIncluded a note in your parent's invitation that her intention is that all of you attend but she doesn't have your addresses, ORSent all of the invites to your parents's house with all invites containing the names of the persons so that your parents could have informed you that you were all indeed invited.She didn't make her intentions clear, and that's her fault.You should tell her that since the invite your parents received didn't make it clear that everyone was invited, you were under the impression that you weren't invited, and since you know how expensive weddings are, you weren't about to crash her wedding and put her in a position of having to accommodate more guests than she was planning on. If you are close to her, send a gift along with your explanation.If that doesn't do it, then there's nothing else you really can do. But you didn't do anything wrong, it isn't cool to crash a wedding you weren't invited to, and it is your brother who did something he shouldn't have done.
I am in love with my cousin (female). What should I do?
I too have been attracted to my cousin. He also always flirted with me. He moved out and lived in the same city as I was living in. I frequently visited him and we had good and drinks many times together. Since we both seemed to like each other, we met often.One day when I was at his home, I wanted to get into his jacuzzi. So to avoid getting my clothes all wet, I asked if he minded if I got into it naked. He said, not at all and that he too always go into it naked. So after I got into it, he too undressed and go in naked. His dick was nice and big. He kept looking at my breasts and asked me if they were real. I said yes and he wanted to touch and feel it. I said it was ok for him to touch me. He then started caressing me and suddently started sucking on my nipples. I got real turn on and started moaning. He then made me stand and licked my pussy. I liked the way he did so much that I did not stop him. He then wanted me to return the favor, and stood in front of me and wanted me to suck his dick. He dick was already hard by now. I sucked him really well and stroked his dick. He then made me spread my legs on the jacuzzi and slowly put his dick inside of me. I was on birth control, so I really did not care for him to wear a condom. I enjoyed his thick dick deep inside me. We went at it for a while and then when he was ready to cum, I opened my mouth and let him cum in my mouth. He said that was the best experience he had. Since then, we have sex everytime we met.We did talk about no jus keeping it to sex and not take it to relationship or marriage because the society does not accept cousins and he was okay with it. We always have a great time together and have met with each other many times. I personally do not feel anything wrong with cousins loving each other and having sex, but I will suggest to use birth control and not have any babies.
How to make my Cousin my girlfriend?
Well there are plenty of pretty girls that are of your cousin standards. It would be quite a problem for her family and yours and other blood related people and you will get judged by other people outside and it will only break her heart and make her cry. <- that is if both of your families are against it. It will make her life miserable. So it's best to not narrow yourself feelings to just her. You have to consider her feelings though. This kind of stuff you have to talk to your parents insteAd of us. Things will be so much more clearer and straight forward.:) well if both families are fine with it then by all means. If things get tough, you both can seek help your your families comfortably too:)
Shoud my cousin be upset that I didn't invite her step son to my wedding?
A step son should be treated the same as the rest of the family. You should have written " Mr & Mrs ___ & family " or if you really meant just the kids still living at home " Mr & Mrs ___ & household ". But to specifically invite just some of her kids is pretty hurtful, even if that was not your intent. You should apologize and state that you recognize he is part of the family, but that you only invited her other children out of consideration of her needing to otherwise find a care solution. That you just were not thinking of it that way and then offer to send the step son his own invitation since he is an adult. I know you want to keep the list down, but is it really worth that relationship for one person?
A girl I know is cheating on her boyfriend. What do I do?
If her boyfriend is not close friends with you, stay away from other people's business. If he is a close friend, ask yourself if he's someone who considers friend's duty to let him know his girlfriend is unfaithful, or is he someone who prefers his friends to mind their own business. If you're not sure, he's not as close a friend as you though, so you better not say anything. Unless your personal integrity and/or well being is at stake in a situation, or the people involved are family or close friends you feel responsible for, DO NOT GET INVOLVED IN OTHER PEOPLE's INTIMATE BUSINESS. If they come to you asking you for an advice, try and give them an honest, objective and unbiased overview of the problem they are confronting and then let them make thieir decisions. Do not approach the cheating girl just because you know her. None of your business.
Is it okay/common if your boyfriend/husband throws or breaks things in anger in front of you with no intentions of physically hurting you?
As many have said, I also agree that that is a BIG no.I feel like much of this has already been well established, but hear me out —A person who throws or breaks things purposefully in front of you, particularly the latter, is threatening you. It’s not an uncommon threat display for YOUNG males to do when they feel like they aren’t having their way or when their sense of control/dominance is compromised. This is something teenagers and children do, just so we are clear. It is NOT something an adult should be doing. For an adult (over 20–25) to do these immature displays of strength and superiority (which is what it comes down to, anthropologically; he’s showing off how big and strong he is, showing you what could happen to you) demonstrates a compromised ego (as in the psyche) and failure to come to grips with his own emotions. Likely, he never learned how to properly deal with his feelings, be them of anger or otherwise.You can not change that.So many in this situation believe that if they continue on and set a “better example” of the way they want to be treated, that their partner will “learn” how to behave better.It doesn’t work.You can’t help the way he was raised or the reasons for his issues. But you also can not help him change.The only thing you can do in this situation is to get out of it. Leave him. Ignore his angry outbursts and whatever threat he might throw at you, and WALK AWAY. It might hurt, but the pain in your emotional heart will hurt a lot less than the pain of bruises and broken bones later on.
A crush on my girlfriend's cousin... what should I do?
Basically I have a crush on my girlfriends cousin... I know its wrong, but I just found out that she likes me too, I thought about leaving my current girlfriend because I'm not happy with her, its so bad that her and I talk maybe once a week, and see each other a few times a month. But I thought about being single for a while and still be friends with both of them. And if something were to happen later with her cousin, then so be it, otherwise I've got a good friend out of it. What do you think? I'm only getting out of one relationship because I'm not happy, I have more fun w/ her cousin, but then again, I know its wrong to date family, but if something were to happen later on, should I resist it?