My boyfriend is going on a guys trip......?
I totally understand! Sometimes I get freaked out when my boyfriend hung out with his friends because they are kinda....CRAZY. i just try to trust him and to put my mind on something else
Boyfriend has only single guy friends, should I be worried?
My boyfriend's last guy friend that had a girlfriend JUST broke up with her. I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and trust him 100%. His friends have gone through many girlfriends here and there but as of today everyone of his friends is single. I feel this is an issue because then when these guys all go out together, with my boyfriend, they will be going out to look for girls and I of course don't want my boyfriend in that atmosphere. Am I overreacting or should I really be worried? I obviously can't ask him to get new friends, these guys have all been friends for over 15 years, but I feel that they will put him in a situation that will be deathly for OUR relationship. Help! Advice!
Boyfriend going to Vegas with a bunch of guy friends?
I've been with my bf for 6 months. He went to Vegas with a bunch of his guy friends in March and they are planning another trip. I was not invited to their trip in March and it KILLED me inside because I know what goes down in Vegas. I went for my 21st birthday and I did some stupid things, so I know what can happen. Anyway, he is going with the same group of guys again. All his friends talk about is how they are going to "get and meet girls." When they went in March, a whole group of girls went to their suite (I saw pictures). That is the reason they are going - it disgusts me. My boyfriend is the only one in a relationship out of all of them. I trust him, but I've been cheated on several times by some of my ex-boyfriends so I do have pretty bad trust issues. And because I know what can happen in Vegas based on my experience and my a lot of my friends experiences, I get nervous. Just the fact he's going with guys who are purposely going to meet girls is tearing me up inside. I don't want to be a controlling, dramatic girlfriend and tell him I don't feel comfortable with him going. Do I suck it up and just deal/not be able to sleep? Or do I speak my mind? It's a guys trip, too, so I am not invited.
Is it right for my boyfriend to go camping with his female friend?
My boyfriend is going to go on a camping trip with a long-time female friend and another couple. She didn't even invite me, which seems very rude. I have kids and I know she probably doesn't want kids along, but I still don't agree with this situation.
Should I bail on my friends to hang out with my boyfriend?
I just started dating this guy less than a week ago. The two of us were last minute invited to go camping at a park tonight. However, I had previous plans to go out for drinks with a girlfriend tonight and I would feel bad ditching her.. because I know she doesn't get out much and really wants me to go. I will be going out of town for a week tomorrow morning and I am so tempted to just go camping for the night. Anyway, what do you think?
My boyfriend (from the UK) is going on a boys trip to Thailand. He said they are going for the nature, scenery and sun, but I fear he might be going for other reasons. Am I being paranoid, or is this a legitimate reason for concern?
Don't paranoid.Never untrust him.What happened in Bangkok stayed in Bangkok.Your heart will asking for more Truth even he already told you. You'll say you believe, but..They surly will go wild, I mean that. There will have plenty of chances that bad things will happen. No matter how much they take care of themselves, bad things will come looking for them all the time. Bad things here is looking as foreigners as walking ATM, some quoran said that and I agreed.Don't take Thailand as a substitute word for ‘that'. As much as I know, men genes from the creator of the earth time taught us, we Men can find the same thing ‘that things’ in Japan, Laos, Vietnam, Malaysia, USA, your neighbor city probably have one (No offend, metaphor) any where on earth you name it. I knew Thailand has a reputation on that, but that should not be the main point prevent anyone to travel here.Anyway, my point is you don't have to paranoid. It's like you know that there'll be 50% chances that heavy rain is coming to your place any minute now, you should go out prepared - take umbrella with you all the time right? I suggest you use your way to remind him of the diseases, how to prevent that. That will be more useful than bad thinking.i'm Thai BTW. Lots and lots of great things to see and do here. It also safe travel here if you don't put yourself in a middle of the night in dark street, don't wear any valuables. Use the same precaution as any other countries.
My boyfriend wants to travel with his best female friend. I can't because of constraints. Should I be okay with this?
I beg to differ from Franklin. All that talk about being confident in the face of insecurity is all great, but come on, everyone is insecure about different things in their life. Some about money, some about love, some about something else. Your question says it all. You are uncomfortable. Ask yourself why. There can be any number of reasons. a. Your boyfriend might be a perfect gentleman, and you are suspiciousb. Your boyfriend is an ok guy and you are suspicious.c. Your boyfriend is an ass and you are suspicious.d. Your boyfriend is a perfect gentleman and you are not suspicious, yet you are uncomfortable.e. Your boyfriend is an ok guy, and he cannot postpone his trip to fit you in.etc.. Even if your boyfriend is an a perfect gentleman, he should be respecting how you feel and you should be comfortable telling him. And he should come around hugging you and tell you, 'i didn't know you felt like this, don't worry, i will not do anything that can make you uncomfortable'. Or if it is still important to him, he will talk you through it and make you comfortable, maybe he will bring his female friend and talk to you too. Maybe he will postpone his trip so you can be fit in too. It is clear that you are not as friendly with his female friend. Now, if he is not respecting how you feel, then there's a problem. If you guys are in love, whatever be the scenario, you will respect how each other feels. If not, you should reevaluate the relationship.