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Shy Even On The Internet What To Do

Are shy people brave on the internet? Such as in chat rooms?Please define shy in your own words.?

Yeah many people use to do that I think it's because nobody knows who they really are, For me Shy is someone who is a little insecure of himself.

Shy even on the internet , what to do ?

so most of people are shy in real life while they are outgoing online but what's wrong with me I'm shy on both of them ;-; .. when it comes to the internet I can't post/tweet anything I'm always afraid to be judged even though no one knows who am I ? but still , this is really bothering me cuz at least I want to be outgoing online but I just can't so what should I do ?

Do shy guys avoid you on the internet when they like you?

Some do, some don’t. But the majority don’t.They act the opposite of who they are, because they aren’t talking to someone face to face and have time to think their thoughts through before typing their message. Simply, when they talk to you in person, they completely clam up…because they don’t know how to talk to girls in person.I used to have a crush on a shy guy. He never had the guts to talk to me, even though he was giving all the hints. I tried talking to him 3 times, but to no avail. But, boy, was he the chatterbox when it came to the internet. -_-

Too shy to call my internet friend?

You have nothing to worry about sweetie obviously he likes you cause you guys talk all the time. Just call him I'm sure he's as nervous as you are hearing or seeing each other for the first time will make you shy but its nothing to worry over what are you scared he's gonna do dislike your voice so much he hangs up? If that was the case he wouldn't have been your friend for so long don't sell him short lol

Are the shy people shy on the internet too? In a chat room for examble...?

It is easier for shy people to communicate over the internet. For me, one of the reasons is that people can't see who I am so I'm not as afraid of being judged. So yes they'd be more open...but it's very unlikely that a shy person is gonna turn into a social butterfly in a chat room.

The internet ruined my life?

I used to be such an outgoing, happy girl. But once I got my first laptop I got all these ideas from stuff I read so I cut my hair and started putting on make-up, after a while I lost my confidence and now i'm a super shy and self-conscious. I'm awkward, quiet, weird, and shy. I barely go out anymore, i'm always in my room i'm even shy around my own family, except my mom. I miss my life before I even knew the internet existed, I miss how I used to be. The internet basically ruined my life. I have an extremely hard time talking to people when it's not on the internet. I am 13 btw. What can I do to help me become how I used to be again? Please help, thanks.

Can a person be shy on the Internet, in the sense of not getting involved in discussions or talking online in any way, due to shyness?

While I am not an expert on the psychology behind this, I will put my two pennies worth (with some online research - sources posted below).Some attributes to shyness are feeling self conscious and uncomfortable: feeling either you will be judged OR you are imposing on other. Both could be due to lower self esteem. For the first, one idea is that you evaluate yourself on other peoples' feedback (even if you are anonymous); for the second, you feel you are below the conversation, you are not qualified to be part of it.Consider arming your self with the knowledge needed, take time to thinking and simply putting the effort when you "get involved": Research, research more research and then spell check. One thing interacting online helps you with is that you have all information, knowledge and opinions under your fingertips.Forcing yourself to post around a little more will make it easier by time, you might still get anxious when you see replies, comments or any other interaction to yours, but take them as constructive criticism and understand that no one is able to judge you fully without knowing you fully :-)Sources:Are You Internet Shy?Shyness FAQand various Q&As on Yahoo Answers  &  Social Phobia World Wish you all the best

How do I overcome my extreme shyness on the internet?

I think it's great you posted this. You did something you were unsure and I think trying something you are not sure the outcome is one of the things that make life meaningful.Back to your question, let's start with why you might have this problem. You say in real life you have no problems speaking but on the internet it's harder for you. I think the main problem you face is that you are unsure who your audience is and how they would react. In most cases in real life, we are able to see who we are having a conversation with and their reactions while on the internet it could be anyone, including trolls. (hint:youtube comments) The worry you have is completely normal, it protects you as well, since there really is a risk when you don't know your audience. However, like many things in life there is a good side and a bad side and you have to learn to weigh the risks and decide the best for yourself.When I stared using quora, I didn’t answer any questions at all. I was worried that my English wasn't good enough (not a native speaker) I worried that noone wanted to read what I wrote. And I was lazy as well. I only started to answer after half an year using quora and the experience is great! Recently I started getting upvotes(haha now you get how bad a writer I am.)and even nice comments! I realized the worries I had before were a lot less then the satisfaction I get from writing. But of course, I wouldn't have known that if I didn't try at all in the first place.How do you overcome this shyness? I think you just have to be confident in yourself and try. Starting in quora is great because it's such a nice, cozy environment (compared to other similar sites). Good luck!!

Does the animosity of the internet make people show their TRUE colors?

Another great question, and of course its you Hope who is asking.

I will tell you my experience on this issue, I think I can show my feelings more online, I'm little bit shy in the real life, and maybe i act here different , but trust me hope, my heart is the same online and offline, I mean I hold towards you all pure love feelings, I consider you and many of our friends as my family and more I swear,

But I always think i will be little bit different when meeting u all face to face, but when I met my Lebanese friends and Egyptians too, I found myself first very shy, but after few seconds, its like we all lived together for years and as we know each other since long time,

You know what is one of my great dreams? Its when I got married , I wish to see you with N & N and kalooka with his family, pinka, farah, arabian dune, 7oda, ismaily, gigi, adhoma and sweety, zoser, OFCOURSE AA and her lovely family, shalfat, nada & noha, Egypty, Katie, crazy girl, moonrise (if she accept to come lol), balsam, 7ala, alisar, and all our friends (sorry if i forget someone), And ALL MY LEBANESE CATEGORY FRIENDS,

If this dream happens , I will leave my wife and come to sit with u all,

From my heart: I wish you all the best for you my friends and for your families, and to live with happiness and success and GOD BLESS YOU ALL

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