Sick and tired of being criticized. Please help.?
My mother and sister are hurting my feelings just because I don't act "ladylike". I don't do my nails often cause it is such a hassle, I would rather learn how to do something awesome like fencing than do something intelligent, I would rather do criminal justice instead of nursing like they think I should do. I'm just not that type of person where looks are not my first priority. They always say things like you should have been born a boy so I could have at least one (all 4 kids are girls). It just hurts my feelings. I tried to explain to them that I don't need to have my nails done to be a typical "lady," but they don't listen. I don't know what to do. How can I make them understand that I am not a typical "lady".
Can lack of food make you tired and sick?
I know it might sound bad, but I eat one meal a day. I usually eat dinner when I come home, go to bed, wake up, skip breakfast to sleep in or get ready, go to school, skip lunch to do homework or talk to friends, and repeat. Please don't criticise me for being unheatlhy. I get sick almost every day. Whenever I eat anything, no matter what it is or how much, I use the bathroom right away and find myself hungry but unable to eat anything because breakfast/lunch/dinner time has already passed. I've also been completely exhausted lately. I go to bed anywhere from 10 - 11 pm every night, and wake up at 6:30 am. I should have no problem with sleep, but I'm wiped out all day long and don't feel like doing anything but sleeping. I sometimes skip my one meal a day to sleep, which my mom says isn't healthy. My mom is completely fine with me eating only once a day, and reccommends it to lose weight (she no longer lets me eat snacks when I come home from school), but I think it may be making me sick and exhausted. Is it just lack of sleep, or stress from school that's making me sick? I don't get that "hungry feeling" anymore, and I feel overly stuffed after eating or drinking anything, even something as small as a granola bar or a bottle of water. I never do. That's what leads me to believe it's just stress, but I just want to make sure. Thanks ^-^
Is anyone sick and tired of Brock Lesnar being criticize?
I am really sick of all the hatting. people are just mad because he keeps winning. I bet if he was losing no one would talk about him, but the fact that he is good pisses people off. People are so focoused on hatting him they dont see how good of an athlete he is. he is pretty dam quick for his size. and he is good and taking people down and getting in the dominate position.
Tired of my bowl cut! Help?
Here are a few low to very low maintenance styles that a good barber can design to fully suit almost any 17 year old guy's head shape, face and neck shape, frontal hairline and facial features. regular layer cut: http://i.imagehost.org/0679/regularlayer... regular taper cut: http://j.imagehost.org/0153/tapercutlaye... crew cut: http://www.gstatic.com/hostedimg/e490abf... ivy league(long crew cut): http://h.imagehost.org/0168/Kid_with_a_Coke_Zero_Large.jpg Some barbers describe an ivy league as a crew cut just long enough to be parted and combed to the side, if so desired. An ivy league can also be worn with the hair brushed up off the forehead to form the short pomp front, or with the short bangs brushed down on the forehead like a forward brush cut. flat top crew cut: http://www.gstatic.com/hostedimg/46f88d11c448c453_large Basic short cuts: http://i.imagehost.org/0254/fpssb1321332m803fef7jc6.jpg http://i.imagehost.org/0809/fpssb1341352m1aef5e4mt9.jpg http://i.imagehost.org/0627/70735ed866cf5qa3.jpg http://www.yalealumnimagazine.com/issues/02_04/old_yale.html Essential barbering knowledge: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Talk:Crew_cut#Clippers.2C_Blades_and_Guards Grooming any of the short pomp(pompadour) styles- crew cut, ivy league, flat top crew cut- is basically the same and takes about a minute or two. 1) Towel dry hair. 2) Barely dip fingertips in jar of wax. 3)Transfer wax to palms. 4) Smooth palms over hair. 5)Brush hair off forehead to form short pomp front. Whichever style you decide on, be sure to take a photo to help describe the desired haircut to the barber. If you need more photos of any of the styles discussed above, let me know. Good Luck!
I'm tired of my dad always criticising or insulting me. I've really had enough. College is my only true home now. I'm so confused. What do I do?
I can relate to the over controlling dad. Always barking orders and telling me that my opinion did not matter. I used to be very scared of him growing up. He is very successful in terms of business and ran a company out of fear for 50 years. I realized later in life that he was underneath it all a scared little boy that had been rejected at a young age. Like most of us we come from this place of feeling not “good enough”. Without awareness on your dads part we see the need for parents to control the outside environment as a way to feel safe, keep people under them in order to feel “better than”, etc. Little do they know that by controlling and squeezing to hard they recreate the same experience of rejection from others. No one wants to be around a tyrant.-However once I could see the hurt little boy I realized just how fragile he really was. Yes he would yell, bark, threaten but in the end he never didn’t come through. Helping me with college, always (during my rebellious teen years, still by my side). I realized what he didn't realize and that was this: Dads can be a lot of hot air, scary and controlling. But what is most scary is the fear of rejection from them.-My advice is to trust that your dad will never change but also that unconditional love (he does not see) runs there like a current. That gave me the ability to say to myself. “I am no longer afraid of this man. Others may be but I am not.” I started using my voice, having an opinion and stopped trying to please a person who found fault in everything just because he was always going to see it that way. Sure it ruffled his feathers but there was nothing he could say if I disagreed, or said, “I hear you but see it a different way. Thanks though for your advice dad.” Then move on.-Have fun in school. Shift your focus to some of the best years that lay ahead. All is well.