My sister thinks I stole money from her?
So my sister is home (she asked one about not having a period) from college and she put $1200 in one of the drawers of her dresser last night and this morning it wasn't there. She knew it was my job to clean that room (since she is barely ever home) and she thinks that while I was dusting I stole the money. I tried telling her I didn't, but the problem is I was the only one in the room (at least i think I was) so she says that I had to have stolen the money! I am really scared that I will get into trouble even though I didn't steal it. What should I do, Please Help! thank you
My sister steals from me?
Okay here a list of SOME of the stuff my sister stole from me... •makeup bag •face powder •Victoria secret spary (two of them) •Victoria secret lotions(two of them) •my music off my computer •she will take my new 4th gen iPod touch without asking and return it after she takes it •eye lash curler •mascara •eye liner •5shirts •necklace I got from my grandma •nail polish •jeans •a bottle of perfume •phone chargers •iPod chargers ____________________ And the lust keeps on going, I have to share a room with her and I hate it, she's always taking credit for the stuff I do and she whipped a pillow across the room and knocked over a bottle of water over onto my dead grandmas and grandpas stuff they gave me. She's horrible to me and I dont know what to do, thanks:)
I STOLE MONEY FROM MY SISTER?
I think stealing the money was wrong, you could have asked someone to loan you $15 and offer to pay it back by doing chores or paying back money in the future. However, it's happened now, so my own question for you is: did you already spend it? If you have then there is not much you can do other than either own up to your sister and apologise, or somehow figure out how to replace the money. If you haven't, I would suggest putting the money back and asking someone for $15 instead, it's not fair to let others take the blame, it may be a small thing you've done in your eyes but it can cause a whole lot of guilt and regret in the future. Stealing is definitely not a good thing to get into, it can have dire consequences - trust me.
Sister stole $70 from room?
John, your parents are not parenting. It is easier not to deal with it. If my 11 year old had $80 in a month's time and I knew it wasn't birthday or some other gift money, I would want to know how she got it. I would be questioning her like Judge Judy. Trip her up in her lies. Of course, she is going to deny she took it. But can she explain how she got it. Can it be confirmed by asking someone else about it. As a parent, I would not let an eleven year old have $400 - $500 in cash. I would also be worried that she is so obsessed with having money she is going to steal it from other people. I suspect your parents have had money missing. too and they don't know it is gone. You can set a trap. Mark some bills with some lines she won't notice- trace them maybe, and leave them out. It might not work since she might sense you and your parents are on to her. So you might have to wait a week or two. However, if your parents do not want to parent, it too will be ignored or turned against you because you exposed the elephant in the room ( the problem no one wants acknowledged or discussed).
Little Sister stealing Should i Tell My Mom?
needless to say transforming into up without a mom could be very complicated for all of you, my heart somewhat is going out to you. I think of that your sister is getting to that age the place issues are changing and he or she's making the transition from a woman to a women. as a replace of occurring on your father you need to bypass into your sisters room and tell her which you be attentive to that she took a number of your underclothes, that it incredibly is okay and your in simple terms curious of why she did it. If she nonetheless refuses to speak or deny it you need to assert for you to take it up at the same time with your father. i'm no longer able to think of that's going to be something horribly severe, consistent with danger in basic terms a stupid prank. in simple terms refer to her approximately it, because of the fact now you have evidence. bypass ordinary on her nevertheless, and attempt to no longer make her sense awkward :)
As you read all the post in response to your question, remember that everyone has a filter that they see life through that is base upon their own personal experiences. DO NOT take heed of the ones that try to minimize how you feel. What some people do not realize is that when you are talking about how she is much prettier than you, it is representative of your personal insecurities (which you do not control).My advice is:Talk this over with your husband, include your insecurities (so if you both decide to let her move in, he is aware of how you feel).If you both decide to let her move in, make it for an agreed upon amount of time and stick to that time.If you decide not to let her move in, do not feel guilty about it. Although family is important, your husband is your family too—your relationship with him is more important because you took a vow stating that, and because you live with him. You may be able to offer some advice on other alternatives for her if you do some research and/or ask friends or other family members for help/advice.If you feel fairly certain that you will be able to look back on your decision and know that it was the best decision for you at the time, you do not need to feel guilty about it.Get counseling for yourself. Your insecurities are not good for you or your marriage.Remember, looks are not everything. Although looks are not everything, you are probably more attractive than think (your insecurities probably get in the way of your thinking that).Good luck!
Is to an iPhone? Log into you iCloud account from a computer and chose the find my iPhone app. Click the option to make it ring. If it is anywhere but your sister’s room you should be able to find it. If it is in her room then start ringing it in the middle of the night while she sleeps. Ring it every 10 minutes so she can’t get back to sleep.Is it android? do the same thing from your google account.
I am more concerned about the mother who knows and doesn't say anything. I can't imagine that a mother would ignore this type of behavior. No wonder your sister is stealing your money; she can do it without punishment. Of course you could hide your money but I don't think this is the best solution. When I was teaching, I left my purse in the closet of my classroom and went down to the main office to do some work. I was rather naïve and it took me a while to figure out that a student in a classroom near my room was watching me leave. Then she asked for a bathroom pass, found my purse and took a few dollars. At first I noticed that some money was missing but I was very busy and thought that I was mistaken. However, after a few more visits to the office and finding larger amounts of money gone, I realized that someone was stealing. But I needed proof. I pretended that I was leaving the classroom and then instead of going down to the office, I ran down a hallway and ran up another set of stairs. I decided to watch for her in a bathroom near my room.. I opened the door slightly and in a few minutes she walked by and went into my room. I immediately confronted her as she was opening the closet. I was furious and I immediately took her back to the classroom and spoke to her teacher about the incident and the need to take her to the principal's office. I was so upset that I didn't even find out what happened when the principal confronted her. All I know is that she was very angry.My money was never missing again because I took my purse with me. The lesson is to catch someone in the act and in your case you will have to think of a way to "punish" your sister. And, of course, you will also learn never to leave your money where your sister can find it. How about a bank account?
Why does my sister steal my stuff?
Sweetie, clearly your younger sister has you as her role model. Maybe you don't believe it, but I think she looks up to you and wants to be just like you. Do you have really good friends and she doesn't? Do you have better grades, or do your parents seem to appreciate you a little more? Most probably she thinks that your prettier than her and wants to look like you. Maybe she is dealing with her own issues and she is too afraid to tell you. Ask her directly if she is doing ok and if she would like to talk about it. Tell her that you will always be there for her no matter what. Look for signs in her behaviour, talking, the way she dresses herself, everything. Pay attention to her. If nothing of this works, try finding her soft spot, her weakness and use it against her (but in a good way, always). Hope I helped a little!
What do you do when your sister is stealing money from you?
You could possibly hint alittle about it by talking to her about the things she buys with the stolen money and then confront her after a while of doing this. Or you could just confront her altogether, make sure that you two are in a room where there's a lock and lock the door so that no one walks in or neither of you two walk out in the middle of the discussion. In the end you should both learn something... You: you will learn that even though she's got issues, you will have to get a more secure purse and hide it somewhere that she wouldn't look. You Sister: She will learn that while you're confronting her that she cannot just simply walk out and ignore you and that she knows that you're aware of the situation of her stealing from the family and that it is wrong. If it all doesn't work then you'd have to use special precautions of telling the whole family and telling them to make sure that their money is well secure in moneysafes.