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Sleeping With My Second Cousin

Is it wrong to sleep with your cousin?

Someone asked: “Is it wrong to sleep with your cousin?”Sleep? No. Procreate? That’s a different issue. Does the fate of all humanity depend upon your repopulating with consanguineous offspring? If the answer to this question is “no,” chances are you’re better off seeking a greater diversity / deeper end of the gene pool.Rabid followers of Muhammad have been inbreeding like this for 1400-ish years, and the devolution of the human genome as a result is nothing less than demon-spawn. Scan through some of these photos as evidence, and be sure to click through to accompanying links:http://tinyurl.com/inbreeds0Sex with your cousin may be hot, but so is hell. Enjoy!

Sleeping with my second cousin?

So, basically a few weeks ago I went to this "family reunion" thing that's on every year for our enormous extended clan. I haven't been since I was a little kid, and different relations show up each time. This time I met a fair few for the first time, as per usual. Two of these were my second cousins, who are twins.
The only relation between us is 4 generations back or something, and I definitely don't consider them family. We haven't grown up around each other or anything and have only just met for the first time. Immediately I could see they were both good-looking but that I was particularly attracted to one of them. We chatted, and the one I was attracted to seemed more interested and stayed around talking to me and playfully teasing me. I knew I was flirting with him at a family reunion and how awkward it would be if we ever got together and people asked us where we met... But I couldn't help wanting him. After he left, I kept hoping for him to come back. I wanted him to find me attractive. The next day, I spent a few hours searching for him and his brother on facebook etc. because they mentioned they had it. I eventually found both of them. The one I'm attracted to and I started talking again and then we talked on MSN.. many times. After a long process of flirting and coy sexual innuendos I confessed my attraction to him, which he took full advantage of, finally having something to hold over me in our many arguments (we have a lot of very different opinions), but eventually admitted he was into me too. A lot of things transcribed and then I found out he was actually kidding around.. but he was then quick to admit that he thought I was beautiful.. and was very tempted. We've discussed doing things, and he says he really wants to, but the cousin thing is a turnoff. I explained that its not like we're closely related, and I definitely don't see him as family etc so that doesnt make sense and he agreed but he's very afraid of what other people think of him. He said it also kinda excited him too though, the risk, and knowing that what we were doing was naughty. I still fantasise about doing things to him that will make him really really want me and I do plan to do it next time I'm up the way where he lives (3 hours away but I go there often).

In your personal opinion, based on this information: is it really that wrong for me to sleep with my second cousin?

Sleeping with your second cousin?

Technically, as long as they're not first cousins it's okay. Actually, I think I read somewhere that, genetically speaking, as long as they're not an immediate relative (brother, sister, parent) it's safe. Of course, I live in Kentucky so maybe I see more of this than most people do....

Is it wrong to sleep with a second cousin?

Lord, I hope not...

Is it wrong to be in love with your second cousin?

For those who aren’t clear, second cousins (also called “kissing cousins”) are far enough apart in the family that they could marry. Their grandparents are siblings.As far as the “serious relationship” goes, I have no idea what you mean. You don’t mention your age, and that would be part of figuring out if it’s serious. If you both aren’t ready to set up your own household, you aren’t eligible, and therefore you’re not serious. If nobody knows you have a “relationship”, I doubt it’s serious.Sleeping together doesn’t mean you have a serious relationship, or even a relationship, unless the two of you have discussed and agreed that you are planning to marry and have a bunch of kids together. Sometimes people are sleeping together and one of them thinks they have a serious relationship and the other thinks it’s a friends with benefits situation. You can’t assume anything.

Is sex with your second cousin ok in NZ?

Are you asking if it's OK or are you asking if it's legal? And by 'sex' do you mean sexual intercourse (what the law refers to as 'sexual connection')?

OK is for you and he/she to answer.

As far as legal is concerned, sexual connection is incest (and therefore illegal) if (a) it is between 2 people whose relationship is that of parent and child, siblings, half-siblings, or grandparent and grandchild; and (b) the person charged knows of the relationship.

So, providing you are both of legal age, then not only is it legal to have sexual connection with a second cousin, it is legal to have sexual connection with a first cousin.

Note: Sexual connection includes anal and genital penetration of one person by any part of another or by an object held or manipulated. It also includes oral sex, which is the touching of the lips to the genitals (either giving or receiving).

Is sex with your second cousin wrong?

Me and my cousin's daughter Alicia have always been very close; we went to the playground together as kids, played ball, and did pretty much everything together. Don't ask how it happened, but one evening last summer we started kissing, then making out, then before we knew what happened we were going at it on the floor. We've hooked up a couple of times since then. I know it's kinda gross, and am a little ashamed of myself, but on the other hand, the sex is pretty awesome. We protect ourselves using the "Pull Out" method.

Should i have sex with my second cousin?

Well, based on the tone of your question, no I don't think you should have sex with her. Like you said, she's 'begging' and you didn't mention feelings or anything like that coming into play.

But if your issue is incest, idk, I don't see the problem. You're second cousins. Hell, I have family that are married to and have (healthy) kids with their first cousins.

Is it wrong to have sex with your 2nd cousin?

If you two are the type of cousins that don't see one another as "family related", then it's fine. Though I might add that they are times when if two relatives have sex and get pregnant, there can be a higher chance of having a child with mental or physical problems. You can always ask the doctor about it. My friend who was having sex with her cousin, there was only about a 0.01% more of them having a child with problems.

I have an open mind, so I don't think it's wrong at all. Just be safe =)

~Danny

My second cousin died unexpectedly in his sleep. He complained about being hot before he went to bed. He had no drugs in his body. What could it have been?

I don't know why your cousin died but this is much more common than you think. Years ago my cousin died unexpectedly in his sleep.He had come home from college for the holidays. That night he began complaining about not feeling well. He was running a low grade fever and had chills and body aches. He never woke up. He was 19 years old, playing college basketball, and physically fit. It was devastating and incomprehensible to his family.In cases of unexplained death, autopsies are mandatory. It took them 3 months to release the results. It seems that the virus he contracted attacked his heart and it simply stopped beating. Something that we, at the time, had never heard of before. Today statistics show that between 3,000 to 49,000 people die annually from flu related illnesses. Most of these happen in people with preexisting complications but a small percentage are young healthy people.I'm so sorry you lost your cousin. While you don't know right now what happened, you will eventually have answers.

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