I fell in love with my friend, but she doesn't feel the same way. She wants me in her life but being there as just her friend hurts too much. I’ve tried distancing myself, but we both miss each other. What can I do?
Hi.I can tell you what to do because I'm in exactly the same condition.LITERALLY.So what I did.I took a day and explained my complete mental state to her and told her that I need her more than a relationship.I explained to her what she means to me.I told her that my feelings are on one hand and they can never come between me and her because she was scared to lose me as a friend.I try to distant myself, it hurts even more.I have learned to live with it now, you know why?Because, if I am honest with her about my feelings and If I am strong enough to stay focused in my own life even after being in love with her and still not being WITH her, only then she'll see me as someone worthy enough.Maybe she never accepts you as anything more as a friend, but you won't regret not trying.Just tell her once and if she tells you NO, back off.. stay normal and be a good and supportive gentleman.I joined the gym now, I train myself hard there and leave it all there.. Life goes on right?I'm waiting for her even now and a lot more.Hope for the best.
What does a girl mean when she says we should be friends for now?
Some background. I met this girl at college during the summer where we were in the same program. After a few weeks I asked her out but it turned out she just got out of a three year relationship. So I waited about a month during which time I made an effort to hang out with her. Whenever we went out to a party she would flirt with me and the night would usually end with us dancing pretty explicitly. I took this as a good sign and asked her to have coffee with me. She asked if I wanted to take her out and when I said yes she said "I think we should just be friends for now, but I would still like to get coffee with you." So is this is a polite no or a let's see where things go?
Husband's friend wants more....?
My husband's friend is having trouble in her marriage. She has 3 kids and has been married for 5 years. When I see them together when we hang out - I see the way she looks at him. She has even gone as far as to tell him that if she does get a divorce, she has to wrap her mind around the fact that she can't have my husband the way she wants him. My husband tells me that they are just friends and I believe that - but he says that he feels bad that he can't give her what she wants because he loves me. I think he has a "crush" on her and he says that it is definately not love, but just some "kids dating" feelings sometimes. I think personally that because she has such strong feelings for him and that she goes to him for alot of advice, he feels needed and he just reacts to her feelings for him. He has assured me that he will not leave me for her and that he wants to be with me forever, but why is it that they are hanging out today (kids are there too) and I'm crawling the walls?
My girlfriend says she loves me as a friend ?
you want to let her go or you want to make it work. constant communication is key. She just likes someone else and wants to bang them without getting you down, pretty sure thats whats going on. youd better start putting out.
We started off as friends, dated, got intimate, but now she wants to just wants to stay friends.?
So like the title. We started off as friends. Come to find out, she has had a thing for me for a couple months now and she was wondering why I haven't been paying attention to her. I finally ask her out and go on a date. After maybe 2 dates we end of sleeping together. This goes on for a while and then I finally ask her what is the situation between me and her. She says she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now and I let her know that I want to be more than a friend. I also asked if there were chance of her feelings ever changing and she said yes there was. So we continue seeing each other, then she brings up that she doesnt want me seeing anyone else and that she would do the same, but still we are not in a relationship. This continues for a couple more months and I finally ask her again if this is going anywhere. She says that she can't give me what I wanted and that she didnt want to hurt me like she did her ex because she didnt want to lose the friendship that we had. Then she says you know what I want to just be friends. I still like her more than a friend, is there still a chance of this happening? Thanks!