Need some advice to see if i am a bad person?
i have been taken care of my mom and dad mostly my mom even though she can take care of her self she is draining me emotionaly phichally and money wise. her and my dad would never help but every time they needed money or food i was always there now that my dad died i have her full time am i wrong for wanting her to move out on her own. she tells me she dont need my help but she is tapped out on all the check cashing places cant even help with rent or food and i have a child that i am raising own my own no help from any one and she still dont help hell my son isnt going to have christmas this year because i dont have the money. so am i wrong for help her move out on her own help
Please help me dog breeders!? I need advice ASAP!?
Just feed her a high quality food, as much as she wants. Do get good vet care for her. Because she is young and small, be sure to have her x-rayed in about 7-8 weeks to make sure she can pass these puppies. If you would rather wait, a quick trip to the vet can abort this litter with a hormone shot. Chances are, she will do fine. It's not the best choice to breed first heat cycle, but she will probably be just fine. Do take her to the vet for prenatal care though if you choose to have this litter. Good Luck.
Scorpio Men.. please help I need some SERIOUS advice .. I care so much and I've fallen hard, but am I wasting my time and feelings?
Oh my, not another Scorpio man question. Ok, so let me tell you how it is with the Scorpio bastard (and I say "Bastard" because about 70% are players and users - my experience). I hope you listen carefully and truly take into account what I say. A Scorpio man is not much of an enigma, regardless what websites say about their "loyality". I found from experience that this is far from the truth. You see the Scorpio man is the master of deception and manipulation. I met mine two years ago and I made a million and one excuses for his behaviour. I ran to the online forums for understanding and answers. What I found is the same story over and over again..."I don't understand my Scorio man, why does he do this, why does he disappear?.." The more I read, I found I was sharing similar experiences with thousands of other women! As Princess stated they are indeed moody but the main thing is, if he is unevolved (and it sounds like yours is) then he can use you to the ends of the earth and play you like a puppet and then discard you without a moments thought. They are heartless and I would bet you a million bucks that he indeed cheated on you! I'm so sorry, this is the last thing that you want to hear. But run now my dear, cause he is just using you for his own ego, and no other man has the alpha male complex, more than a Scorpio. He will continue to play these childish games and draw you back and then release you. It's all about his ego. He can't bare to lose you, but you are not the only one he is doing this **** too! I hope you really think long and hard. You may have given him your heart, but I urge you to keep your soul and walk. You desere better!
Please help me I just need help please....:(? ?
Well I can't really tell you what to do, other than be strong. When I was 12 I moved to a new school in a completely new country, so not only did I not have any friends, I didn't even speak the language. Like you I cried every night for the first few months and felt like I was never going to get used to the situation. But eventually that changed and about 6 months in, even though my language skills were pretty limited, I started becoming comfortable with the people and things around me. It's as if people can tell when you are not a happy person and it makes them less likely to approach you and try to be your friend, so the trick is to be happy alone, and then the friends will come. For example, in recess if you are too shy to go over and talk to someone, just sit somewhere near other kids and just draw or read or something. just don't sit there looking alone and bored. eventually someone will get curious about you and come over and try to talk to you, and when they do make sure you're friendly and if you can say something funny. you might not become best friends straight away but after a few little fun chats things will start to take off. Don't be scared of school, just because you're new there it doesn't change the fact that all it is is a bunch of other kids like yourself. they've just had longer to settle in and sooner than you think you'll be at the same stage as them. If you try not to forget that it will seem less frightening. I know it seems so hard at the moment but I promise you things will change, you just have to be patient. As for your mom, I think you should talk to her and say that you know she gets upset when she sees that you are upset, but that you are finding the move difficult. promise her that you will try not to let things get to you as much, if she promises to comfort you instead of be angry when they do. hope I've helped or at least made you feel a little bit better. best of luck sweetheart...
I'm a single father and I need some advice? I don't think I'm doing this job very well..?
Hopefully you are just looking for reassurance, because I believe that is all you will hear- You are doing everything you can, and a great job for that matter. As for you aunt, you can't afford to have those negative people in your lives. You are the parent- to protect yourself and your daughter, tell them if they can't let you make the decisions and not cut you down, than sorry but all contact will stop. They should be praising you for all the work you do, and taking on being a single parent with open arms. Honestly, you would feel so much worse if your ex took her and neglected her or wouldn't let you near her just out of spite. You stepped up to the plate and one day it will be easier. Just keep your mom's love tank filled, your daughter loves you for what you do and just for being you. Things will change, just hold out. The best thing you can give to your daughter, you already have....that is your HEART. Not all the toys and blah blah blah. she doesn't even know/care what her hair looks like except that it is perfect in your eyes. Same with the diaper- maybe she likes a little more room. Plus, kids love just stuff around the house- let her bang on some pots and pans with a big plastic spoon- she will love it more than anything. As for child services- There is no hold on anything. You do your best, and your mom takes care of her when you are not there. She is being well taken care of and thats all they care about. Believe me, if kids could be taken away for supposed stupidity there would be a lot of childless parents- but you are not one of them. Good luck. Don't give up. Don't think about suicide- your daughter needs you and you will need her when things get easier-belive me. If you can, look into counseling. At a church you could probably get some for free if you tell the situation. If you just can't/won't, at least find a good friend that will just listen. Your doing great!!!!!!!!!!!
I just bought a Pregnant Thoroughbred Bay Mare, need advice on care. First time owner.?
Ooof you took on a load for your first go! First off, where are you located? Is it fairly warm out all winter? Even if it is, you might want to consider making a "lean to", basically one wall that blocks the worst of the weather and a roof, just in case something nasty blows up. Definitely get her checked out by a vet to see how healthy she is and if she needs to be wormed and so forth. She'll NEED vaccinations, so don't skimp on those! Dont' let your mare eat fescue grass (if you don't know if your land has it, find out, this grass carries a spore that can cause miscarraige and keep your mare from lactating once/if the foal is born). DO exercise the mare, it keeps her healthy and toned, and as long as you're not racing/jumping her there's no risk of harm. Check out this site, it has good information on it: http://www.cvm.uiuc.edu/petcolumns/showa... Also, go to your library and read up! Its free and you'll get TONS of information.
I'm starting 7th grade tomorrow! Need tips/advice?
Okay, I started 7th last year and here is my little opinion: 1. Don't be afraid to get lost. I got lost going to Keyboard class the first day, lol, and the teacher didn't even care. She just expected us to get lost haha. We were running around like crazies trying to find the keyboard room, but we found it. It's not that scary. 2. Forgetting your locker combo isn't that bad. WRITE IT DOWN SOMEWHERE! I forgot it sometimes, causing me to be late for a class, but the teacher didn't really care at all. Right your locker number down on a folder or your binder. 3. I was scared about 8th graders too, but they were really nice and never bothered me. They actually tried to make friends with me. They won't bother you unless you bother them. If they bother you, just remember that they are going to be leaving next year and going to a different school, so you won't have to deal with them when you're in 8th grade. Don't be scared to ask them for help. They probably know more about the school than you do. If they don't help, ask a teacher that is close by. 7th grade was fun. I just went with the flow. I was really nervous for nothing. There we barely any bullies at all. Also, the teachers are expecting you to get lost believe it or not. It's a new enviornment, and it's a BIG change. They realize that. I mean, they were 7th graders once!
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