My little sister doesn't appreciate anything. Help?
I'm 16 and my sister recently turned 13. I know this sounds rude, but she seriously makes me so angry. She appreciates NOTHING my parents and I do for her. My parents work 13 hours a day and they come home tired. The last thing they need is a 13 year old girl constantly yelling at them and being disrespectful. When my dad asks her if she has done her homework yet or eaten, she would yell at him, telling him to be quiet. My parents have done so much for us and i'm blessed to have them in my life. As for my sister, i feel like she only likes my father when she wants him to do something for her. My parents paid for her braces, her $500 cheer uniform and camp (for this summer) and so much more. I gave her my old iPhone a couple months ago, and when she saw the 5s, she asked our mom if she could buy it for her. What she doesn't realizes is that the iPhone i gave to her was basically a new phone, there was nothing wrong with it. Why would she feel the need to ask for a new phone when you've already have one that works perfectly fine. Ever since i got my license in January, she's been treating me like I'm her personal driver. I've drove her to places like to the mall and to the movies. She just asked me if she should ask my parents for a $100 visa gift card or a shopping spree for her birthday gift. I dont even know who this girl is anymore, It makes me sad how much she has changed (in a bad way) We've tried talking to her but all she does is talk back. Please help
My sister doesn't shave. How can I tell her nicely to do so?
Ask her how much Chia Pet is paying her to advertise with her armpits, and tell her your friends have offered to double it if she would shave because it's grossing them out and embarrassing you. Nicely wont get it done. Tell her normally and just let her know it's offensive and disgusting and that you're embarrassed to be associated with it.
My sister told me she is gay. She hasn't told anyone except me. What should I do?
Congratulations to you for being the kind of person, family member, that get to receive this overwhelming vote of confidence. Your sister is most likely on her way to come to terms with her self in regards of her sexuality. She may or may not decide to tell the rest of your family. Until then support her and keep her trust in you.Make shure that she will feel safe with you knowing and help her pave the way if you can. If you have any strange ideas about her, or any one else for that matter, being gay the time has come to educate your self. Depending on where you live being open about it might cause a challenge.Ask her questions about her being gay, if they are open and free of judgement. If she has told you she probably have known her self for some time. This can mean that she has had some difficulties before coming to terms whit her awesomeness.Best of luck!
My sister is adopted but doesn't know. She is a grown woman with a happy family. She does not suffer in any way due to this ignorance. What would be reasons to tell or not tell her now?
wait....“She is a grown woman with a happy family. She does not suffer in any way due to this ignorance”Ok let's broaden this….Grown woman, happy, does not suffer due to this ignorance?”Like seriously?Now that your problem with her has been highlighted... let's get something straight.Go and stand in front of a big mirror and let these questions diffuse through the mind of whom you see in the mirror:-Am I sure I'm happy for her?-Do I wish I am the one that's happy and not her?-Is it because mommy and daddy treat her her with more love and affection than they do me?-I'm the biological child of our parents and I should be the one to be the happiest and not her, right?-Should I destroy her by asking people on quora what they think and no matter what anyone thinks I should just go ahead and do whatever I planned to do?-What's so special about her anyway?Good Versus EvilWhoops! In the alphabet letter E comes before G though.the reason why she's happy isn’t because she's ignorant…this can only be so if you're not happy simply because you ain't ignorant. if your reason for being not as happy as she is lies on the fact that you know certain things and she probably doesn't then it means you don't like the idea of your sister being this happy.If anyone has the right to break the news to her, it should be your parents, and since they used wisdom to keep such record away from her…leave her alone. This world is full of crap already, mind your own business and find your own happiness.Don't come about telling me you're already happy and you just feel as though she deserves to know. You're her sibling, not her parent. Don't break her heart, you broke mine already.(sorry I went all hulk on you)Go be you, buddy.
My 15 year old sister drinks..should i tell my mom?
my sister drank one night and her friend got alchohol poisoning and promised my mom she would never drink again untill shes legal to..but she still does should i tell my mom? cause im scared
My little sister told me she's pregnant?
Im 24 and my little sister is 14, I'm really close to her and yesterday she told me she is pregnant. She said she took two of those home pregnancy tests and it was positive both times. Shes only 14, I never would of thought she'd be having sex. Shes the baby of the family and acts so innocent, so it was a big shock to hear those words come out of her mouth. I don't know what to do. She doesn't want me to tell anyone, but she said the last time she had sex was two or three months ago. I mean she doesn't have much longer before she starts showing if she is pregnant. Should I tell my parents even though she told me not to? Since she told me, I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. All I want to do is kill the guy she had sex with. What should I do?
What should I do if my sister is super lazy and doesn't want to do anything around the house anymore?
Have a chat to one of your parents or both of them. Stop providing services for your sister. Start cooking for one and eating it yourself. But don't spring it on her, announce it in advance. So put her on notice that zero effort from her gets zero results from you.It's time she moved her backside and did something.
How do I tell my sister that she is ugly?
For starters why are you checking out your own sister? Who cares if she is “ugly” in your eyes. She is not for you. By telling her she is ugly you will damage her self esteem and she can start obsessing over her looks if she is badly affected by you telling her that. Don’t worry society probably has already told her something about her appearance if she does happen to have some flaw. You don’t need to tell her anything. She knows. Also, who says you are good looking yourself? Maybe she also doesn’t want to be rude to you by telling you that you are ugly? See when she gets older she will realize there is makeup, and hair removal, and laser, and wigs, nails, and better clothes and hairstyles to use to her advantage. She will be hot and meanwhile you are going to be left with what? Don’t pick something your sister is not good “enough” in looks. She has other things to focus on right now and when the time comes someone will find her and love her for who she is. Not for who she should be.Siblings are supposed to look out for each other. Build each other up not destroy their self worth.All the best Ceci