My boyfriend and I bought a house and I feel like im getting cold feet... is this normal?
Either you take a chance and put faith and trust in this guy like you did for your mom or you just go solo the rest of your life. Your just feeling the stress of taking a chance thats all. You have to start building a life TOGETHER at some point don't you? Still yet it's exciting too so give into those feelings they are the ones that matter in building a future with someone. AAAAHHH wait isn't he taking the same chance girl? Shame on you for not giving yourself to him. Just remember "for better or worse" things will get worse at some point in the years to come just hang in there and I SWEAR it will be SO MUCH better after all that mess.
Did you have any cold feet before getting a puppy?
I love dogs so much but I am getting cold feet. It is so hard to predict how things will go down when the dog is in the house and I am raising it. There is a lot of responsibility such as training the dog, walking the dog two or three times a day. Getting shots for the dog and taking care of any medical problems. Plus dogs live about 12 years. Am I always going to continue to love that dog and enjoy taking care of it? I hope that's the case, but you never know. It's such a long huge commitment. I really think the dog will bring so much joy in my life and will help me with my anxiety and depression. Did anyone else have these thoughts before you got a dog? How was it at the beginning and did you ever regret your decision?
I'm getting cold feet... First relationship!?
So I talked to this guy in person maybe 3X, I originally just texted him over summer break two years ago when I was going into 9th grade. We texted ALL summer and we really got to know each other- over text only. Then when school started he asked me out and I panicked and said no. Now, two years later he started texting me again and I don't want the same thing to happen, but I'm nervous to meet up with him because I feel like I'm only comfortable talking to him over text, because we've barely talked in person. It's super weird and I don't know what to do or if I even want a relationship with him. I feel like I'm in too deep now to back out because we've been texting every day for like a month. Please help what should I do?
Should I tell my fiancé I'm getting cold feet?
I got engaged in February after a year of dating my fiancé, we're planning for the wedding sometime next year. I'm 21 and he's 26. I do love him, he's very good to me and we rarely argue and I have no major reason to break off the engagement However, I'm getting this unexplainable uneasy feeling and all these doubts are running through my mind: Are we really right for each other? Does he realise this is a life commitment? Is his spiritual state up to scratch for me? I don't have a peaceful feeling and I don't know whether this is a good or bad thing. Do you think I should let him know how I'm feeling or just keep it to myself because it sounds irrational?
Cold feet about lip piercing?
so for my 14 th birthday my mom is letting me get my lip pierced after a year and a half of bothering her and nagging she said my grades are good so she is letting me. and im getting it done next weekend but im kind of getting cold feet... did any one else get cold feet before getting it done and do they absolutley love it now, or do you regret it...and is it normal for me to be scared? thnx
Cold feet about the Marines.?
Kind of an inapplicable term since you're going Marines, but Ranger the F*** Up, kid. If you do not like this sort of answer, then by all means, puss out now before you get in any deeper. The bottom line, however, is that you shouldn't have even gone to MEPS if you weren't 100% about this. And no, "cold feet" is not common. I had a 1 year wait in DEP when I first joined and I never thought about backing out. But allow me to continue if you're still reading... 1) It's always been 8 years. 4 years active, 4 years IRR. 2) You do get to choose, but your options might have been limited by your ASVAB score and the availability at the time. This is known as the needs of the military, and you'd better get used to it because that's going to be the guiding force behind every direction you take while you are in. 3) I don't like Obama either, but I served 3 years under him and it didn't matter that much. 4) Yes, a lot of people do agree that the military is a terrible decision, but those are typically the same people who bitched incessantly while they were in and were just all around shitbags. I did not necessarily think my time in the military was the pinnacle of achievement in my life, but I do not regret a moment of it. 5) Your generation is what is destroying the morals of the Marines. So therefore it is up to other members of your generation to take those morals back. Sack up, don't cry to your mommy/senator when someone smokes you, and learn to endure the shitty parts. 6) Don't be a **** bag and your job will most likely not be in peril. They always cut the dead weight first. 7) Yes, it sucks. It's the military...it's supposed to suck. If it was college anyone could do it. Sorry if this isn't the pep talk you were hoping for, but it's the truth.
Vegetarian & i get cold feet?
Right its winter where i live & its starting to touch down around 0 degrees (celsius ie freezing point). But i find that my feet and hands are starting to get cold even when in relatively warm places, this is my first winter as a vegetarian & as far as i'm aware i'm eating damn healthy (nuts lots of vegetables seeds etc) & supplementing a multi-vitamin just to make sure i'm getting everything in a decent amount. Is it just winter or am i showing signs of lacking anything? I've been feeling pretty damn good since becoming a vegetarian. & please provide links, alot of vegetarians are full of bulls*it with nutrition.
What does "to have cold feet" mean?
To “suddenly get cold feet” means you are now re-thinking a decision that you made. Ostensibly, having cold feet you go back inside and put on socks and/or shoes - in other words, make different choices.Some people get “cold feet” and pause to examine, and perhaps reassure themselves, that the decision or life choice they are embarking on is still the right one.
I'm getting cold feet about moving and starting graduate school. What should I do about it?
So totally normal, it is… Just as with any new endeavor: a new dramatic stage production, a new job, a wedding and a new spouse (what side of the bed do we fart on?), etc. Just expect it as normal. We're evolved that way. It'll go away as you get into the substance of your academic term. We're evolved that way as well. If it doesn't go away, then either you're either in the wrong program, university, course of study, or have an undiagnosed anxiety disorder which needs medical attention, or a combination. Minus any of those things, it should go away with a little time. I am not taking a swipe at you, or being judgmental. I'm peeling the onion to see what is at the core of the problem. All 4 of those factors caused me great anxiety and frustration at my first undergraduate campus at qge 18. It was worsened by the the fact that I didn't feel that I could talk to anyone--not a relative, classmate, friend, professor, on-campus counselor, parent on the phone, or anyone else. I know now, 36 years later that there were ALL of the above whom I could have talked to. What I now know, which I didn't then, is that I have a generalized, free-floating anxiety disorder with some OCD and hypochondria. I have had some extremely difficult and immobilizing panic attacks this year, for the first time in about a dozen years. In between, I was functional relatively normal, that I know of. Back at UD (University of Dallas) in 1979 - ‘80, my anxiety was just very bitter icing on an already bad cake of a wrong curriculum, wrong student body demographics, wrong political climate (ultra-reactionary right wing), such that I experienced disassociation from my environment. I didn't feel that anyone would understand my trying to explain the unexplainable “alternate reality” I was in. I felt I couldn't find a commuicative portal to the “old world” which I had left behind, even if I was in direct communication by telephone, in person, or by letter in the US mail. Hope that helps.