Guys, if a girl tells you that you look familar, do you think she's hitting on you?
Nope, i don't know her and she just mistook me for someone else, nothing more.
Are there any hot girls who don't get approached by guys?
My best friend from high school is gorgeous.Drop dead gorgeous. I’m quite pretty myself, but if I went anywhere with her, all of the attention was always on her, I didn’t exist. Guys would approach her everywhere we went and mostly ignore me because she is so beautiful.Guys approached her at Starbucks. Men tried to talk to her when we went to the pool. She was hit on at every bar we went to. Men would even approach her at restaurants. The stream of men coming on to her was endless, and she loved every second of it. It got kind of annoying.Two years ago, she got married. They really love each other and they had a baby together almost immediately. However, her genetics are so good she still has abs after her first baby. She’s still breathtaking.Over the summer, I went out dancing with her. We went to a two-stepping bar in Houston, Texas. Not a single man approached her to dance. Nobody looked at her. Just two years ago men had swarmed at her at every angle in the same bar. I could tell she was upset. She wanted to leave.My best friend didn’t get any less gorgeous, one thing changed. She stopped acting available. She used to smile at every man she saw. She used to make eye contact with every guy she found attractive. She used to laugh and dance and invite men over to talk to her.She stopped acting available. My best friend was now happily taken and that made all the difference.Being hot doesn’t get men to approach you. Being available does.Sure, a certain level of attractiveness is needed for a man to initially take interest. But, some of the most average girls I know pull the most men I’ve ever seen just because they act so available.
Is it true that men don't hit on very beautiful women?
Some men don’t. They think that because the woman is beautiful, a lot of guys are wanting her, and they think they won’t measure up. That’s when the arrogant cocky guys come in and hit on her.But this is a bad way to go about it. After the jerk hurts her, you swoop in to give the nice guy approach a try. She either is so damaged she makes you jump through hoops to prove you are for real, or she decides to turn the tables and make all guys pay for the action of one.If a guy finds a beautiful girl that no one is approaching, go to her and talk to her. Don’t be intimidated because she’s hot. Try to connect to the beauty within. And you can’t do that by being her friend first. You have to do this by being a flirt and approaching her as a potential new boyfriend.Then if she gives you a chance to date, put your best foot forward. Don’t become that arrogant cocky guy.
Doe it mean I’m ugly, if guys never hit on me? I am in good shape, thin, and I wear decent makeup, but guys never hit on me. I was surprised when one guy told me I was beautiful, and he was shocked that I never had a bf.
I had the opportunity to observe just such a situation many years ago. At the time, I hired many local college students. I had one female student who had exactly the same complaint. Why did she not get asked out?I wondered the same thing. She was cute in a wholesome way, gregarious, and a generally nice person to be around. I would have thought she had potential boyfriends all over the place. I came to three conclusions.1) Many males are intimidated by beautiful females (I guess I should actually say “people”, as it assuredly works hetero and homo) and feel they are not worthy to approach them.2) Many males assume that if you are pretty, you must have a boyfriend. I think this should actually be 1.b.3) There was something she was doing that “vibrated” that she was unavailable, or uninterested (or too needy). I realize this last one will be controversial. Many will think I am blaming the “victim” (if we can refer to the OP as a victim), but I believe there are small unconscious signals we send off that others pick up on. I felt she was contributing, in some way, to the perception of unavailability.So, I may be right or I may be wrong. It is hard to say. They key is this… as I assume you are young (under 45 to me is young) , that it does not matter what THEY think. I know it is very hard to think this way, but live life like it does not matter whether you have a date, or not. Once you truly are okay with yourself, confident in who you are and how you are living life, the interest will grow exponentially. People gravitate to inner confidence and the steady keel it develops.Work on being the best person you can be. The closer you get to it, the better your life will be.
Why do black men go crazy over a big white girl butt?
Sorry to burst your bubble... But most Black men go crazy over a Black woman's big bottom... Seeing as how most people date and marry their own, it makes sense... If you want to take it deeper, I'd say that the modern White woman isn't depicted as a woman with booty... Most people think skinny woman or model thin, thanks to images of what is 'attractive' to the media... So when you, a big bottomed White woman comes along, obviously Black men who like larger bottomed women (including White), will feel some level of attraction to you. Don't worry though, you don't want to date Black men, and most of them don't want to date you either, but for those few who show interest, simply turn them away, and presto, problem solved... Also if you don't want to come across as interested, you should show dislike or discomfort from their attention... I know you said you like it, but you encouraging them and saying that you don't want their interest, work against each other... Mixed signals