Killing myself sounds like a good idea right now?
Your feelings are not stupid, it's what you do about those feelings, that make you either smart or stupid... If you are a female, you might have a hormonal imbalance problem making you feel so bad. If you are a female, you might have hormone problems due to your monthly period or if you are an older lady, may be caused by menopause. If you are a male, then the cause might be due to your life's problems or a chemical imbalance of the brain and you need medication to help adjust those chemicals. The underlying causes are either: hormonal, brain chemical, or life's problems in general. It is typical for most people to go through life stages where everything seems hopeless and out of control, sometimes for extended periods, until life starts to change for the better... There are some things we can change but other things, we must learn to accept for the time being. Many people feel, there is no good reason to live and carry on... But, somehow they keep going anyhow. Stop trying to harm yourself and punish yourself! As long as your heart is full of hate; there can be no room in your heart to have love; love for yourself and for others. You have not specified what is going on with your family, so I cannot advise you in that area. You cannot change them but you can change yourself for the better. Instead of dwelling on the negative try dwelling on the positive. Life is like a roller coaster ride, full of twists and turns, ups and downs; all you can do is keep hanging on as tight as you can and go with the flow. Several years from now, you can look back and know you were a strong person who made it through the hard times. You will then realize, your wisdom and strength that helped you along the way. You do have something to live for and your life has meaning and purpose, only you can discover what that may be...
D-Rose and Hinrich to return for Game 3 in Chicago.?
Deng is rumoured to come back as well or in Game 4. I thought overall Chris Andersen made some dirty non-basketball plays and Mario Chalmers grabbing the throat of Noah should be deemed as a suspension. Miami fans don't seem to get that Carlos Boozer could pretty much squash Chris Bosh in the lane and if Miami thinks they can walk into games 3 and 4 in Chicago and play like this again for the rest of the series...they are surely mistaken. The bulls can win this series in game 6 or 7 if you have Noah, Boozer, Deng, Robinson, Rose, Hinrich, Butler, maybe even Rip, Gibson and everyone else giving Miami a run for their money. The refs were on the sides of Miami tonight, any idiot could see that.
Please help with all the different abbreviations people use on line and in text messages?
You should really check out Mike Walden's (dating coach) report on how to make any guy, doesn't matter if is your boyfriend, husband or someone who you just met, feel so attracted to/in love with you, that he will get obsessive thoughts about you, all done through text messaging. I know it sounds crazy but it works. I've tried it and I still can't believe how some simple text messages changed everything. Get the report here for free: http://www.threemagictexts.com
Social Anxiety is the worst nightmare for any person having it.You get a phone call, you panic.Somebody knocks on the door, you panic.The teacher asks a question in class, you panic.The cashier asks you for card/money, you sweat.The waiter asks you for order, you panic.You talk to people other than your family/closest friends, your lips quiver.Visiting doctors, gives you chills.When you leave home, a mountain of discomfort and self-consciousness sits on your head.You do not like to go alone anywhere because all attention will be on you(you hate being the center of attention).You don’t like to eat in front of people or do anything which may cause others to look at you.You dress simple and put very little makeup so that people don’t stare at you.You are hesitant to ask people for help.When you are around people, you feel very self conscious about your dress, your look, your talking style, your walking style etc.At college, even though you may be very intelligent and hard working, your scores will go low just because of seminars and presentations.Your heart starts racing, hands and legs start shivering, lips start quivering, body starts sweating, you are unable to talk or breathe properly when you face a crowd whether or not you are expected to speak(The crowd can be as low as 5 people).You overthink each and every conversation(many times) and become depressed.The more you try to control your anxiety, the more it haunts you.You may be creative, logical, honest; your vocabulary may be excellent, your sense of humor may be fabulous, but when the time comes to talk, it looks as though you have very poor communication skills.You may not be able to make friends and may eventually be depressed.You may not talk much to your relatives, which will create distance.You may be very talented, but are afraid to show your talents.You may be a very loving and caring person, but fail to express your emotions.You might want to see a psychiatrist who might help you to overcome your social anxiety, but you don’t go to him because you have social anxiety(LOL!!)It becomes your biggest hurdle on the way of success, love, career, education etc :(You write this answer anonymously because people may judge you. And you read it many times before hitting submit.All these points may differ from person to person(and with different intensity). Every person having social anxiety may not experience the same above things but as a victim of social anxiety, I suffer from all these issues.
Why do people hate feminists/feminism? Especially women?!?
Sarah, First, congratulations on being a young woman and already interested in gender issues. You are by no means alone, there are many girls your age already thinking about the same issues. And to the Neanderthals out there, you can be a feminist and love Justin Bieber -even if that's not Sarah's case. I'm way too old to enjoy JB but I used to love David Cassidy -and proud of it. Second, don't believe everything you read in this forum. Many of the "male superiority" supporters are even younger than you -fighting acne and getting red-faced and stuttering every time a girl even looks at them. Others may be adults -though dumb ones- but reserve their tirades for the internet. In real life they won't be like this -not necessarily because they don't want it, but because they live in the real world where women may be their bosses (and I bet that's the case with some of the most rabid haters here) Finally, there are wide gaps between advanced societies in the development of feminism, and even in the very definition of what feminism is. And there are many sub societies within a larger unit (for example, "the world", "the Western world", "the USA", "the North and the South", "large cities vs. small towns", etc. I'm often dismayed myself at seeing real women -not the avatars in this forum, they don't mean anything- seemingly dedicated to destroy their own self respect. But it's a gradual process. They just don't know what their own condition would be if they were to go 100 years back in time (in whichever society they live). You are young but you will learn to accept that fact, while at the same time fight for the betterment of women as a whole -even those who don't know why it's good for them. A very important thing you may not know, being a young American -equality is not everything in feminism, and not wanting equality is NOT the same as wanting superiority, as the dumb trolls around here yell all the time. There is a whole branch of feminism -to which I adhere- dedicated to understand and highlight the differences between genders. Unfortunately this school of thought is way more advanced in Europe than it is here, which may lead to lots of discussion over how advanced US society really is. Anyway difference feminism is worth looking up, whatever your final choice is. Best wishes!
Why are democracies more peaceful in their relations with each other than with states which are nondemocracies
In the case of the United States of America it's because capitalism hides behind .....and is actually mistaken for democracy, by conservatives .....resulting in our our foreign policy being written by multinational corporations...literally.........and our corporations want to enslave all work forces and plunder all natural resources That's why we fought communism so hard. There was never any real threat of communists attacking America But communist countries threatened our corporate masters, by denying them access to their work forces and natural resources. There are hundreds of examples to prove the point...Iraq being the most current....Hussein was no threat, but we pretended he was, our corporations, the corporate owned government, and the corporate owned media created a false threat....so they could get their greedy little murdering fingers on all that precise oil. It's there...but they cover it up well...and the conservatives simply aren't interested in truth....more interested in phony patriotism...so the lies have a buyer.....white christian conservatives Often the democracies set up by the United States in the 3rd world are nothing more that puppet doormen put in place by the CIA to allow our corporations to plunder and pillage...and call it democracy.....and why do we get along with these governments....well, we run them.