A 14 year old girl is harassing ME?
I am 19, I have a 3 year old son, and I have a girlfriend who is 4 months pregnant and of course we all live together. I go to school during the day, and I work after school to take care of them and myself. I work at the clothing store Pac Sun. About 2 months ago at work, this girl comes in and asks one of my coworkers for my number though she never spoke to me. So my coworker gave her my number as a joke on me. So she called me but I didn't answer cause I didn't know who it was. Then she comes back to my work and says shes the one who called me...which I found a little strange, but I didn't want to be mean to her. So she keeps talking to me, and I discover she's 14, just turned 14. She leaves the store, and I think that's the end of that...Wrong. She starts calling/texting me everyday, coming into my work, and I can't be mean to her at work and I don't want to be mean to a young girl anyway, so I feel forced to talk to her. Shes tried asking me to go out with her, she texts me very sexual messages, shes begging me to take her virginity, she's made physical threats about my girlfriend, it just doesn't stop. So, I finally decided to kind of trick her. I told her I wanted to come over and meet her family. So, she agreed. But I really went over to talk to her parents about this, because it's getting out of hand. So, I talked to them, and told them the WHOLE situation. And they gave me their number in case she keeps contacting me and they said they were going to not let her go to the mall without them and check her texts. But she still texts me, she still comes into my work. I'm afraid I'm really going to get in trouble somehow, even though I've never touched this girl, I honestly don't really know her, I want NOTHING to do with her. I don't want to change my number over something this ridiculous. What should I do? I don't return or reply her texts or calls. I'm afraid to bring my girlfriend into work because I'm scared she will hurt her or the baby. My girlfriend doens't know what to do either.
A girl at school keeps following me.!?
yes! i had the same problem too! a couple of years ago this girl kept following me everywhere, i didn't like her but she still thought of us two like friends i couldn't get rid of her i told her to leave me alone and once i ran around the classroom block and she just followed! she just wants to be your friend it's been 2 years now and it's over, we're really good friends but she doesn't follow me around like she used to maybe she grew out of it or maybe she has many other friends now i don't know but we're just normal happy friends now (: give it sometime i know it's annoying, she followed me around for more than a year!
Four years in an affair... I feel lost and trapped... PLEASE SERIOUS ADVICE NEEDED... I am really hurting...?
I have also answered your questions about this woman many times. In my opinion this woman has mental health problems, like, totally nuts! Has it occurred to you that she might have sent you the messages herself, either to get a reaction from you or maybe in the hope that it makes you back off? She clearly thrives on drama. She does act like a slut and as for phoning 'bad asss' people that she knows, oh please, grow up! You want a woman like that in your life? If after all these years you still haven't been able to seal the deal and have an exclusive relationship with her you never will. What's the saying? She's just not into you.
So I found out that my boyfriend of 4yrs has been dating someone else for 3 months. When I confronted him he says that it's nothing more?
than a friendship. I found this out when his phone began going off because she sent him a text message. We had an amazing weekend and he says that he realized that he really loves me despite the problems that we've been going through and that he still wants to be with me. Please help! he's done this a couple of times when we had issues. I'm not sure I would be able to trust him. Trust was hard enough for me to gain with him and it wasent even fully there and now this.