So What Happens When You Are Little And Lie

What happens when you lie?

It depends on the situation. Sometimes nothing ! Sometimes it hurts inner self !Category 1 : If the lie is resulting in the positive outcome -you smile and go happy about that lie. Well these are generally harmless lies. Telling your mother that you had very good at work although not .Category 2: Another category lie is explicitly stating something you know is not true with intent to decieve . These hit back in life and you need to pay price at some time in life for deceiving others.Some of the common white lies and the category 1 are really unaviodable and am sure we need them to save our relationships and probably world is better place because of these white lies.It wasn’t me! – you know that's the worst art you did as a kid in that class of 50 great artists .I was about to call you - when you know this lie can save your time rather messing up that entire day .Thank you so much! I just love it! - that gift everyone gets on your birthday and you wish to throw it in dustbin after that thank you message.Yeah, you look great in that dress. – to your sister so that you got better option to choose .I love my job- oh my God! Can't find better job than this .I’m 29. – Because 29 is like 20 years younger than 30.I am on my way- oh yes ! save your ass and say this and better not to say “ I am starting now”.I am busy now- oh please this cricket match is more important than going out on a date.I am fine - No ! please don't ask me this stupid question again - how are you?Yeah - I do remember- This is something I don't remember at all.list goes on!

Could there be a mental problem as to why my little brother lies so much?

Even if kids grow out of lying so much, everyone still lies every once in a while.If your brother lies but doesn’t make up stories to cover himself up all the time, then he doesn’t have a mental problem. If he lies by saying stuff like, “I didn’t do it.” or “No, I didn’t touch that” then he’s fine. He has no mental problems.The only time that someone does have a mental problem with lying so much is that they constantly make up imaginative stories to cover up their lies, does not care for those who believed in their lies, does not care if someone finds out about their lies and continues to lie, etc.Here is an article that might help you understand the situation you are in:Truth About DeceptionIf you read the article, your brother is most likely the compulsive liar. It is not bad, but usually it is caused by a fear of the outcome if your brother tells the truth. Personally, my brother was afraid of the outcome whenever he wanted to play video games, therefore, he would lie to get there to avoid criticism, etc.If your parents react to your brother badly when he tells the truth on something bad that he shouldn’t have done, it encourages your brother to try to avoid that situation as much as possible, therefore, leading to the secret behind his lies. Nobody likes to be yelled at, criticized, spanked, etc. just because they told the truth; nobody wants a spanking, endure criticism, etc. Therefore, your brother is lying because he doesn’t want to be yelled at, endure criticism, etc. if he does something bad that he shouldn’t have done.What you can do is that when he does something bad, don’t immediately react out of anger. Instead, be calm about it and let him know that you won’t yell at him, criticism him, etc. Let him know that it is okay to tell the truth when he has done something bad. Then, when he tells the truth, tell him that it is not okay to do so in a calm manner instead of using an explosive attitude.He is afraid, and due to his fears, he is holding back and lying because of it. For your brother, lying is the only “safe option” for him to not get yelled out, criticized, etc. if he does something wrong. Be calm, be patient and gentle when you handle a situation like this when it comes to telling your brother the truth and what is right and wrong.

If person lies about little things does that mean they lie about big things too?

“If a person lies about little things does that mean they lie about big things too?”Every time I have encountered a person who told huge, destructive, high risk lies, I found that they also had a pattern of telling small lies that accomplished nothing for them and were easily proven wrong.The small lies about things that didn’t matter, and were easily disprovable, had the potential of compromising the person’s reputation, and calling into question the big lies with the high stakes. It didn’t make any sense.As Alan Hall said in another answer, a smart criminal would be honest in small matters in order to be more believable in the big lies, but most liars do not seem to think that way.I think they get a thrill out of lying, which is addicting. Part of it is the excitement of taking a risk, but I think the real payoff is feeling superior to those who believe the lies.Maybe getting away with a lie, even a small one, also helps to create a sense of being invincible, of being able to say even the most preposterous thing and get away with it, and that is so exhilarating that he or she then feels emboldened, and even compelled, to continue. However, like the gambling addict, the liar is unlikely to know when to quit.What is the source of this self defeating compulsion? I believe it is spiritual in nature. I think our minds are all like computers that are connected to the internet by Wifi. We have internal processes, but we also get a lot of information from the unseen realm.Some of it we obtain intentionally, and some is more like spam or even malware. Satan is the father of all malware and viruses of the heart, mind and soul, and the lesser evil spirits are his hackers, constantly trying to create malfunctions of the human conscience, (which is from God), and so bring disasters into our lives.The way the evil spirits work is that they usually get you to do a small sin, though sometimes they tempt a previously innocent person to commit a huge sin in a situation of extreme pressure or peril. However, they are never satisfied with that. They keep making suggestions and insinuating comments, which can sound like your own thoughts. They do this to create internal pressures to repeat and escalate every sin because that is how they eventually hope to bring about your downfall.

What happens when people stop lying?

Some people think the practice of lying is a necessity in life. It affords the ability to hide from being seen and to thwart accountability for one’s actions. Lying gives the ego what it wants. It’s a mask that lives within a philosophy of deep mistrust for the world and for others.Lying is manipulation, pure and simple. The effect of lying usually boils down to robbing someone, or many people, of the ability to decide and choose action based on real, concrete evidence. It unnecessarily leads people down a rabbit hole, causing confusion and wasted time. Because others’ attitudes and actions are influenced by liars, the fallout of events is usually not pretty. Think about how much time you've wasted in your life struggling to figure out what to do next or how to handle something simply because someone was lying about the situation.What happens when people stop lying is the presence of more integrity in the world. We find we can get on with things. Decisions are easier to make when people stop lying. It may not be a convenient truth that needs to be faced, but at least an informed one.When people stop lying, it spares everyone from being misled down a potentially long and confusing road. Trust for life can be found easier because the cards are on the table.When people stop lying, more sanity can be found.