Is Anal Sex a Solution for Retroactive Jealousy?
I am jealous of my wife's past. We have a similar past as far as partner's hook ups etc, so I know it is unreasonable and unfair of me to be jealous of it as she doesn't care about mine and has nothing to do with us and our relationship. I want to propose anal sex to her and was wondering if anyone experienced the same thing and tried it, and with what results it may have had. It will be awkward and uncomfortable, but I think what angers me most is that we haven't shared anything unique sexually together and I see it as an opportunity for us to "give ourselves" to each other for the first time.
Could a father be jealous of his son or hate his son?
Often times fathers hide their emotions and don't praise their children when they should creating a sense of jealousy. Perhaps the simplest solution is to talk with him. Understanding that you may not be comfortable talking with him talk to your mother or failing that perhaps you can talk to other relatives about your feelings. Jealousy can manifest itself in many ways and it does happen, hopefully frequently. I know that my father is jealous of me and my brother because of what we've accomplished in our lives but he acknowledges that and over time translates that into pride. I know this because we've talked about it. If he allows the jealousy to turn to hatred then you might have a problem but instead think of your accomplishments as an eventual source of pride for your parents.
How do I stop being Jealous?
I'm really jealous by nature, and I don't know why. I've been losing a lot of weight but I don't know if that's going to fix my problem. Does anybody have any advice to get rid of jealousy?
Jealous Miniature Schnauzer question...?
I have a 9 year old miniature schnauzer, male. He was the perfect dog until we had our baby 4 years ago. I think jealousy got the best of him. He's still jealous and sometimes quite nervous. The dog and our son get along fairly well and I try to include our dog with everything so he won't feel left out. A friend of mine suggested maybe I should get another dog--a younger, lively one--to bring back Buddy's spirit and loosen him up. I'm just afraid Buddy would feel worse. Does anyone with similar experience/knowledge have some insightful input on this? I love my dog so much and my son would love having another dog around, but don't know how he (Buddy) would react. Thanks.
How can I stop getting jealous when the person I like often talk with a girl/other girls?
Jealousy is a seriously undesirable emotion, and one of the hardest to deal with because there is essentially little hope of curing it.To understand it, it’s important to understand that others do not cause our emotions, but we have emotions for reasons internal to ourselves. Situations may trigger feelings in the same way that someone bumping into our sore arm on a crowded bus triggers pain, but the sore is ours. Likewise, we’re the ones with the inner psychology that reacts to jealousy.Jealously is a strange beast. If it is chronic, it may be a symptom of personal insecurity. But it may also be because you intuitively know that the relationship is not stable.Either way, it is your responsibility to act intelligently.One intelligent solution is get therapy to gain inner strengths and greater maturity so that your insecurities go away.But while I believe gaining inner maturities should be one of our ongoing goals, it takes a long time to dig out the roots of jealously, probably longer than the relationship will last.My preferred solution for handling jealousy is to abandon the relationship. Most relationship problems can be solved by working together but in my personal experience and deep analysis, I have seen that jealously isn’t likely to be fixable when it is triggered by a particular person.If jealousy is uncommon for you, then probably what you are experiencing is jealousy because intuitively you know he’s just not 100 percent committed to you. If that is the case, then nothing on earth you can do will change that nothing you can do will change your tendency to feel jealous so it’s a problem with no solution.I strongly believe that with enough patience and effort any relationships can work, but jealousy is different. I don’t know anyone who has overcome the doubt, worry, anger and instability triggered by jealousy. The jealous person can’t ever have enough reassurance to stop being jealous. In my own life, I have the rule, that no matter how much I might love someone, if jealously gets triggered more than once, I quit the relationship because this is a sign that, whether it is me or him that is responsible for it, the problems associated with it are too great. I recognize that the pain will be endless and unfixable, so why try?It takes a lot of maturity to walk away when you feel so much longing but recognize that it isn’t going to work. But wisdom is more willing to endure the pain of breakup than endless pain.
Crush get jealous?
Because he/she feels threatened...imagine how bad it will be if you actually become boyfriend/girlfriend....it probably is a sign that he/she likes you, but jealousy gets old really really fast...