I can't stop thinking about my Ex-Best Friend?
i had a best friend, and we stopped being besties, it was really tough. it hurts now, but you will eventually get over it. friendships don't disappear overnight, so its okay to be sad, and even think nice things about them. 1 - get new friends. don't hang around with the same friend, and don't talk about her. so she will look stupid when she starts talking about you with your new friends, but when they ask you be truthful with them. 2 - if you have anything that Belong to Bree or Sam, give it back. even if it a birthday gift, give it back, don't keep anything. this is how you get over boys too. even burn their pictures!! 3 - find new places to hang out, don't go where you know they will be. if they show up where you are at, stay away from them. if they talk to you, ignore them. it will kill them even more if you do look at them, smile, and be nice. LOL!! 4 - stop listening to music and thinking about them. find something else to think about when you hear that music!!
How do I get over the fact that my friends are hanging out without me and without telling me?
What is the point to get over? If they are hanging out without you, then that means they don't wan't you. They don't want you to be a part of them. Seriously, there is no point to even think about that, just let them hang out and you, you do something for yourself. Go out and enjoy with your own self. Enjoy the nature, the beauty and the sceneries. Develop yourself in some way. Go for a run, exercise or learn something new. If you seriously want to get over them, then don't give a fuck about whether they care about you or not. Care about yourself.Get good at something and start being busy, start learning new things. Remember, friends who are not interested to hang out with you are not the main people in your life. You have yourself, a great person, get yourself motivated and develop new hobbies.Even I am ignored by my friends lot of times. They hang out without me, they go out, have some fun and they never call me. I first felt bad and then realised that I should not waste time thinking about who cares about me or who does not. Learn a new language, learn a new skill, get into some groups or some ngo, you will find people who really like you. Get yourself up in your life, get successful, start reaching high in your life. And when they see you have become successful or you are in a nice position in life, they will get back to you. They will now want you in your life because you are successful than them or you have great friends than them. Make new friends,make a great network of friends. Why are you using Quora? Start reading answers and writing answers. Atleast it is a place of knowledge, not some gossip, time pass place. Always remember - Don't demand respect. But deserve respect.You have a lot of people in this world and you are struck with these people who don't care about you. Start learning new things, start developing your skills and stop worrying about them.And the last one.That's it. Lecture ends.
Why do all my friends think I'm a nerd? I'm 14 and this thing is getting me really heartbroken everyday, just because I get good marks, I wear glasses because I play many online games they call me a nerd, I think I'll never get a girlfriend -_-
Please, don’t be heartbroken. If your ‘friends’ can’t accept you for who you are and what you love to do, they aren’t really your friends, are they?If you were to stop ‘enjoying nerdy things’, what then? Your friends would probably never let you live it down anyway so why change yourself to suit them?The important thing is that you are happy. Your ‘friends’ aren’t always going to be around. You are always going to have to live with yourself. So, live for YOU, not them.There is absolutely nothing wrong with being nerdy. Find real friends who accept you. Find your Tribe.You are 14. There is plenty of time for you to find the love of your life. Enjoy being who you are right now.Take it from this Old Guy. Growing up too quickly can be bad. Do grown up things when you are grown up. No sooner. You don’t realize what you had until you’ve lost it.I wish you all the best that life has to offer!
How should I tickle my friends feet?
My friend is a girl. I've always wanted to tickle her feet. Yes a foot tickling fetish. I was thinking I'd ask her to get something under my bed then I'd sit on her legs and start to tickle her feet. I only like tickling soles of feet though. Any other ideas?
What is so wrong with a girl having male friends?
I'd like to play devils advocate to say the opposite, rather than yell into the echo-chamber and say there is no problem.Disclaimer, I don't think there is really a problem, just stereotypes.I think that one of the reasons why people think there is a problem with one or the other is the implications with a female only having male friends or the opposite.I'm gonna start with Male with only Female friends.When you see a guy with only female friends, there are several things that come to mind.The guy is desperate for female attentionThe guy cannot make friends with males and instead only talks to females.The guy wants to get into 1 or all of their pants.When we look at this list, there are some problems. 1 and 3 are sad (in the sense that they can't balance having male and female friends) and 2 just means they have some social problems with making friends.I think In this case 2 is the least sad and 3 is the most sad. In case 2 though, I think that if you can have female friends, you should be able to have male friends too. Maybe you have gotten bored of guys and just stopped talking to them. I think that happened to me in high school, I just got bored of guys because girls were just better at talking and that's pretty much what I wanted to do.For females there are different set of “social rules” and possible stereotypical explanations.The girl wants male attention.The girl can't make friends with other girls.The girl want's the get into one of all of their pants.I think someone already mentioned in theirs answers that one of the things that comes to mind is with girls being drama queens and starting so many fights that others reject that girl and she can only hang out with guys. I know some people like this and it happens. Sometimes it isn't their fault because I know sometimes especially younger groups of people choose something really stupid to defriend someone for and them rumor are garbage.Honestly we can say there are no problems and maybe there aren't but there are stereotypes for a reason. Are they fair? No but neither is assuming a bear will attack you for petting her cub. We have evolved to be stereotypical and it works.Basically, there are stereotypes that are looked down upon and humans, even if they don't look down on them, will have a slight bias against it.
Storing stuff for a friend and it gets stolen?
You stored these items knowing full well this friend had someone in their life that might do something like this? You took a big chance and lost. Seeing how your garage was not even locked the Police might not even be able to help you. And now your worried about a search warrant? I am sorry but you have created a quagmire for yourself that I see no help for. Give this person back what ever of their stuff is left, right now before you get any deeper. Last but definitely not least, get a Lawyer and do not follow any of the advice you read on here, please as it is for your own good.
My girlfriend said she thinks my best friends cute.?
i really like her. she likes me even more than i like her. she says it and it really shows. anyways she has a friend who wants a bf. i asked her who do you think she'd like between 2 of my guy friends. she says i'd choose ______ hes cool and cute. i got pissed off and of course she buttered me up enough for me to forgive. but wtf i wasnt asking for her opinion on who she'd date. should i be feeling jealous. im still pissed off enough to end it right now.
Does falling in love with your best friend ruin your friendship in the long run? Or does it make a perfect relationship?
Why are there always people who fall in love with their best friends, or people who want to keep friends with their ex-lovers? Are they so desperate for lovers or friends? Personally I would freak out if my male best friend expressed his affection to me. My reaction would be like: "What! All this time I have treated you like a friend and now you want to f**k me?" But wait a minute. Do I even have a male best friend? No, I don't think so. I don't hang out with my male friends alone or too often, simply to avoid the embarrassment of unreciprocated feelings. Jokes aside, let's see why it is generally not a good idea to fall in love with your best friend. 1, The status of a friendship (genuine; if the two people are just pretending to be friends because they are too shy to admit that they are interested in each other, that's another story) indicates that at least one of the two found the other one not sexually attractive at first. Hmmm, doesn't portent well, right?2, Sometimes you think you are in love with your best friend, but in fact you are just used to his/her presence and don't want to lose him/her to a real girl/boy friend. Confusing that with love, you easily fall into the trap of infatuation and obsession.3, You believe when two best friends fall in love with each other they are naturally compatible. This is not the case. First, friends are not necessarily compatible at the first place; second, we usually show much higher tolerance to our friends than our lovers because we don't have to hang out with our friends so often, develop such strong emotional attachment or make such serious commitment to them; third, to quote Tom Thomas, "being someone's lover is entirely different than being someone's friend or best friend. " Someone can be a totally charming and fun friend but a possessive or even disrespectful lover. Don't assume your best friend will automatically beome your best lover. You two still need go through the entire process of a working relationship, because it is a brand new one.4, If the love is not reciprocated and the rejected party can't handle it gracefully, chances are the friendship is lost to embarrassment. Well, I believe the best way to love someone is, as suggested by Dr. Vaillancourt, treat your loved one as your best friend instead of making your best friend you lover. And if you can't help it, remember it is not a short cut for a happy and compatible relationship.
Friend is mad because I can't attend her destination wedding?
One of my best friends from college is getting married in Ireland this summer. I'd love to attend, but I'm a grad student and can't really afford it right now. I explained this to her, but she's still angry. She says I could have been saving money to go to the wedding all year... instead of going out and going on vacation over Christmas break and Spring break. Exact quote, "I thought you were a good friend, but you chose your social life over doing the right thing." I don't think I should have to sacrifice MY social life for HER destination wedding...but then again, I feel bad because I probably could have splurged on her wedding if I hadn't gone on trips earlier in the year. What do you think? Am I at fault? or is her anger unjustified?