Someone help!!! My boyfriend of 3 years keeps standing me up?
My boyfriend of 3 years keeps standing me up. Its not like once in a while either, its like out of 5 times we are supposed to see each other, he will stand me up 3 times. Everytime I confront him about it, he always says that he has many things to do and other responsibilities that he has to take care of but he loves me so much. He has stood me up so much that I have dumped him the past because of it but took him back because he says that he loves me and would not do anything to hurt me. If an emergency situation came up or he had to work late then I would totally understand but thats usually not the case. He is either hanging out with his friends or falls asleep but either way I'm so tired of it and he will not stop no matter what I say. He has even tried to turn it around on me and make it seem like I'm wrong for being upset that he keeps standing me up with no phone call. I have even planned many romantic evenings only to get stood up. What should i do because i'm so sad?
Friend always stands me up?
i have this one friend who, whenever we plan to do stuff, she always stands me up. we always have a good time when we're together...but then every once in a while, we'll be planning to do something, and then right before we go to do it she'll be like 'i'm sooooorrry, but my other friends invited me to do this other thing'. i think she has a problem saying no to people, but when it comes to her other friends versus me, she always picks them! we always have fun when we're together (whenever we do actually do stuff), so i don't understand why she stands me up sometimes! like now, for instance. earlier this week we had planned to go out to dinner tonight, but i called her today and she never called me back! so i guess we're not going to dinner....why does she do this???
What is the best friend?
Sharing-One of the greatest things about having a best friend is being able to share everything. They are the ones to whom we tell things we wouldn't dream of telling anyone else i.e our greatest fears and biggest mistakes.Experiences-Having a best friend means sharing experiences .Sometimes when we get stuck in our own routines,it's nice to hear about what other people are doing.Loyalty-means never having to worry about someone spilling your secrets or talking about you behind your back. Honesty-Best friends will also be totally honest with you.They know you well and are able to tell it like it is.They help us to develop our self-esteem,they give unconditional support and comfort.To lie-They tell you that you don't look fat.They come to your house uninvited and blame you because your refrigerator has got nothing to eat.They lose your stuff and then again blame you for that.They eat the last slice of pizza.They give you bad hairdo sympathy(just to laugh at you later).To laugh at your silly and random jokes.Every single time.To judge people.Together.For these things too.AndSLEEPOVERS
My best friend keeps standing me up?
My best friend keeps cancelling on me and it's getting really annoying. The most recent example is today, a few weeks ago she asked me if I wanted to go to The Inbetweeners movie with her because we are both big fans of the show. When we were talking about it on Facebook today everything seemed all right then she suddenly told me she was going for a haircut even though she had one two weeks ago and I can't see a haircut lasting all day. This happens a lot as well and she also invites other people out at the last minute and can't seem t go anywhere with doing so. Her excuses are always-I'm getting a haircut,I'm going to my Grandma's, some old friends are dropping in or I can't be bothered. She didn't even come round for my birthday! Either that or she stands me up to go somewhere with someone else, last winter I asked her if she wanted to go sledging but she couldn't be bothered and then later I found out that she had spent all day with my other close friends in the woods literally round the corner from mine. She tells me I'm her best friend but keeps finding another one every so often who she'll hero worship for a while. We used to be really close and hang out every Friday but now she either has an excuse or invites someone else that I don't really like. I don't want to lose this friendship and though I have other friends that I like she is the only one that I can spend more than half an hour with without wanting to punch in the face. What do I do? Frosty
What should i do, my bestfriend stood me up?!
Ok so we had plans to go back to her house tonight and spend the night there, well she left my house around 9:30 and went to her boyfriends and said she'll be back by 10. Well i call at 10 and she says her moms going to pick me up around 11. well 11 rolls around and i call she says "my mom is going to pick me up then you so we can go back to my house". Well it hits 12 AM and i call her cell and NO ANSWER! I call 100 of times [it seems, i called like crazy cause i was pissed] well by that time i was real pissed so i call her moms cell to see when she was picking me up. To find out her mom had no clue she needed to pick me up or even where my friend was! My friend called her mom around 10 something and told her that me and her was staying in a hotel for the night that she was with me! I'm so heated right now and don't know what to do?! Should i confront her [and if so what do i say]? Should i stop talking to her for awhile? PLEASE HELP!!!!
Should you choose a girlfriend over a best friend or the other way round?
I wouldn’t choose the one who puts me in that situation.It’s simple.Friendship and love are two different aspects of my life. I can’t compare the two. My best friends mean as much to me as love, if not more. Anybody who wants me to choose one out of the two, goes out of my life. I will hold the door open for that person. Be it love, be it a best friend.I’m the kind of person who will never say to the love of my life or to my best friend, “I can’t live without you.” Instead, I’d say, “I can live without you. But I don’t want to.”What’s the difference?The fact that I don’t need anybody. People are there in my life because I want them to be there and I make efforts to keep them in my life. It’s not because I need them. I have survived days with zero friends, nobody to call up and talk to, and I’ve been okay. I know what it is like to not have a close friend or someone you truly love, and that is why I learnt to make amazing friendships.But I’ve also learnt from that phase, that people come and go. They stay if they want to stay in your life. Sometimes, you can try as hard as you want, but if they want to leave, you will eventually have to let them go. And that’s difficult but not impossible.I have taught myself to be okay on my own.So, when it comes to choosing between a best friend and love, I don’t think I’d make a choice. Whoever wants me to choose knows where the exit door is.I’m a secure individual who is mature enough to manage her relationships, to not let either my best friend or love feel insecure of where they stand in my life. I’m sure I won’t ever get into a situation where my best friend would have a problem with the person I love, or vice versa. I can handle love with love, and friendship with friendship.But if I ever come across a choice, I won’t make any.
What should I do about a friend who keeps standing me up?
I have a "friend" who always changes plans the day before or says she doesn't have time to hang out. It seems like she can never find time, so I stopped contacting her. This was a few weeks ago. Then a week ago we got in contact again and I thought it would be different. She asked if I wanted to hang out tonight and I said yes. We were supposed to meet at 7. Then this afternoon she asked if we could meet at 8 so I said yes. Then she texted me ten minutes before 8 to see if we could change it to 8:30. I was annoyed because I had already left my apartment but I didn't have to go far so I turned around and went back home to hang out for another half hour. Then at about 8:20 I left to meet her. I texted her to verify the place where we would be meeting and she said, "yes, in 20 minutes" and I was like, you said 8:30!!!! So I told her to forget it. Is it just me or is this annoying? Has anyone else dealt with a friend like this?