What was the last text message you sent to your ex?
It was a year old relationship. I was head on heals for him. We were both in school. We both were preparing for NEET.We took a break for preparing for exams. The distance made me anxious. But I couldnt text him,he would be disturbed.The exams were over.He had promised he would meet me(we never went out together) after NEET I reminded him of his promise he refused. He said he doesnt have time.I said ‘fine tell me when you are free’. After a few days he went out with his friends. I just casually said him ‘I thought you didnt have time. He replies ‘ I cannot lie to my parents to meet you’ .It hurt, it really did.After NEET, came more of his ignorance. He forgot our one year anniversay, didnot text me the entire day at night i texted him . Still no reply. I asked one of his friends to text him and remind him the date. After that he replied “sorry i forgot. Happy anniversary shona”, went offline. Did not even reply to my I love you.I became upset. The next day, out of anger I broke up. He did not even try to stop me. Next day I said him sorry for being angry and he forgave. He were back together.His ignorance increased. I confronted one day whats wrong, why is he ignoring me. He replied “I cannot provide you with the importance you are demanding” That broke my heart. I was still with him I loved him.I started doubting him. I did not trust him. One night.Me: Please I want you to keep distance from girls. Do it for me.He: That would be changing myself. I like talking to everyone. I won’t change myself for you.It ended.I thought it was my fault I did not trust him. He is not with anyone. Well that is what he said me. I wanted to get back with him. He refused. He said he hates me. Blocked me on every social media. My last text to him on his second account, which he doesn't use now. Still I texted him. I begged him to come back.He did not see my message. He did not come online. Somewhere deep within my heart I still feel he still loves me.I still love him. Hope he comes back.
My cat died yesterday and I cannot stop crying?
My cat died yesterday who was less than one years old. His death was instant and something genetic causing everything in his body to shut down. I feel so guilty as If I should of known he was ill but he seemed fine like 5 minutes before. I feel so lonely and depressed. I've been non stop crying since yesterday and I haven't ate anything. I really can't get over this, I just wished I could've been holding him when he died, I wish I could of spoke to him, saw him as it happened. I can only remember how he was five minutes before as him happy. He was in pain, but I wish I could of been there so I could of judged the amount he suffered. I don't understand how something so full of life could suddenly die. I have looked through photos of him and videos and that has made things worse because I miss him even more. I really really can't believe this has happened :'( Please can somebody suggest some ways I can get over this? Like, where my cat is now? Thank you in advance.
Wife 29, 2 kids, stay at home mom. Stays pissed off all the time. Me, 32, works, helps w/kids and house chores
Wife is so sensitive and critical on everything I say. We fought till 4:30 am last night because she says that I dont love her like I use to. I had to explain that people change and we are not young goo goo eyed kids exploreing ourselves. We have responcibilities and kids to take care of. Its not like I neglect her. We go out on dates every weekend and we do things constantly with the kids. She has breaks during the day (gym, shopping,computer surfing time, etc..) I do my best to confort her in her needs but she does nothing for me. If I do the slightest thing wrong, she secretly punishes me. She has no money worries and has everything she needs and 75% of everything she wants. I even wash clothes and dishes for her besides doing my man chores and work full time to support everything we have. I am very confussed about everything. Why does she stay so pissed all the time and why does she constantly ***** about everything that is not our problems. I am sick of it....She acts 18 years old