Someone stole something from my car?
Sas lots of people don't know anything about cars, that's why the stealerships, garages and lube shops make a killing. That being said, many mechanics don't know anything about cars either and we call them "parts changers" which means they change everything one at a time until the problem is fixed.... that's why the people that don't know anything about cars get the huge bills When you say its "messed up and won't work" I am not sure if you mean it won't start/drive but if that's the case it might make it tough to go somewhere. It is difficult to give you a good answer but if it's your grandpa's favorite thing it might give him something to keep his mind elsewhere for a bit. Good luck
Why does it feel good to stay depressed instead of exploring or facing anything else?
I'm not sure about you, (the questioner), but when I feel depressed... as in depression, as in heavily medicated, as in terrible, stomach churning, brain exploding, debilitating sadness... I do not like it, but something about it feels right. That may be sick and that may make people indignant because I can't possibly be feeling "real" depression because I wouldn't feel that way. That's fine if you think that. Perception is reality, and that's mine. If it's not yours, that's okay. Some people hate spinach, some people love it, (I do), and even though spinach is spinach and it's the same thing we are all eating, that doesn't mean one of us is wrong. What's wrong is people telling someone that what they're feeling isn't real or isn't correct. In my opinion, the worst feeling in the world is emptiness. When you feel just absolutely nothing. Blank. Everything you like or hate is now just there and it's all the same. Depression and mania are the most intense things you can feel, and sometimes it feels, well, good. It's so much better than the nothingness. With depression, it's a sick kind of good, but it's still there, regardless of rightness or wrongness. It can be a sweet, twisted break from the lack of intensity.
I recently became an atheist. But it makes me so sad. I don't like seeing the world from this perspective.
I actually find atheism much more positive than religious belief. The only purpose in life you lost was the purpose other people fed to you. Now, you're able to make your own purpose in life. I find this to be much more positive than the idea that some vague sky daddy is looking out for me and making everything fine and dandy. Also, the world just makes much more sense now that I'm an atheist. Things are pretty much as they seem to be and I don't have to worry about any cosmic tug-o-war between ultimate good and evil. Things all have a beginning and an end. Instead of worrying about that, I just am glad I have the middle part to work, discover, and enjoy. My life may not matter in the grand scheme of things. There are much larger and grander things in the universe that have just blown up. My life is not even a flash compared to them. But my life matters to me. I don't need some cosmic plan to have a decent life. People make up superstitions, myths, and urban legends because they feel unsatified with their lives and want something more exciting to think about. Religion serves the same purpose. However, I find that the universe, itself, it wonderful and awe inspiring. If people really learned more about it, they would have less need for fairy tales. Besides, you can't just decide to be a believer again. Either you're convinced that a god exists or you don't. Outside of various brainwashing techniques, there's no real way to force yourself to be convinced. You can study religion, follow all the rites, and even avow to others how much you believe, but you can't really decide to be convinced by all of it.
Im bored of life, but not depressed...?
You should definitely write your problems down in a journal. Write whatever is on your mind, your emotions, reactions, events, anything. It may not seem relevent or necessary, but when you look back on past entries, you really understand everything you put down, understand what you were going through, and find a way to stop it next time or help yourself through it. This has happened to me several times, but each had its own unique reason. Are you worried about your future or where your life is heading? Are you worried that you'll lose your friends or be friendless? Do you think you're just sick of high school and just ready for fresh new college? Whatever thoughts come the most frequently (the ones you don't realize are related to your problem but would be recorded if you wrote them down) probably have to do the most with that emotion you're feeling. If you're upset because you're single, then those activities you mentioned above should help. To try new things is to learn about yourself. As you try and succeed at new things, you'll gain self confidence and a self appreciation. If you learn to love yourself, you'll be happy whether or not you have friends. But luckily, happy people attract friends as well as boyfriends and girlfriends. Just learn that what you're going through is normal. There's nothing wrong with you, and you're fine the way you are. Celebrate your triumphs and accept your losses. They only make you stronger anyways. Good luck getting to know yourself!
High school makes me sad :(?
I dont like socializing in high school. Im not popular im not one of those dominant personality kids. All i like to do is sit in the library and study. Should keep doing that or am I doing something wrong with my life. Please answer my question. Every time im in the library I just feel like people are moving forward, going places hanging with friends while im in the library studying. I really want to study to get good grades but yeah should I keep living my life the way im or should i try to fit in and make friends. Every time i think about socialzing it just gives me anxiety.
Depression making me slack in school, what to do?
IT IS A PROVEN FACT THAT DEPRESSION CAN CAUSE A LACK OF MOTIVATION TO DO ANYTHING AND IT IS PROVEN THAT DEPRESSION IS A MEDICAL CONDITION SO WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH SHOULD BE CLASSED AS "MEDICAL DISORDER EFFECTING YOUR ABILITY TO WORK" YOU ARE SEEING A PROFESSIONAL AND ACCEPTING TREATMENT (THE MEDICATION) SO WITH ALL THIS IN MIND CAN YOU PUSH FOR SOME SORT OF EXTENSION? DO YOU THINK YOU COULD TALK TO YOUR TUTORS ABOUT THIS IN SOME WAY? (AKWARD I KNOW BUT SOMETHING HAS TO BE DONE) WHEN I WAS IN COLLEGE THE EXACT SAME THING WAS HAPPENEING TO ME I GOT EXTRA TIME TO DO SOME THINGYS I NEEDED TO GET DONE POINT IS THERE SHOULD BE SOME SYSTEM IN PACE TO HELP PEOPLE WH OARE GOING THROUGH WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH BECAUSE IT HAS TO OF HAPPENED BEFORE (IT IS JUST THE SAME AS IF YOU BROKE SOME FINGERS AND FOUND IT DIFFICULT TO WRITE OR WHATEVER) ANYWAY YEAH I HOPE THIS HELPS **BIG HUG** GOOD LUCK!!
Feeling sad, can't study for exams. Suggestions?
I have a whole lot of exams coming up very soon and I need to start studying and I was planning to today but someone told me something that hurt my feelings a bit. It's something small but I know this person. It's not a complete random and so it hurts. I also have my monthly thing now so it makes it so much worse. I can't concentrate and I've been feeling bad in general for a while. I don't know what to do. I can't concentrate and I feel very depressed. What the person said was about someone (not that person) not liking something I do or getting annoyed about it and what they believe is not true. I feel isolated, like a need to talk to someone. I don't know who I can talk to so I posted in here. I was hoping if you guys have anything to cheer me up or get me motivated to concentrate and stop thinking about this so much. I would really like to do well this time in my exams. It's 10pm where I am and I wasted my whole day. Thank you x
Why is my world so sad, my head hurts... I'm actually just bored, How do I stop thinking of people I hate..?
I wanted to commit suicide but I might go to hell for doing that, so I can't really kill myself and I know that my brain restrict all attempts of suicide. If I don't believe in God I'd probably killed a lot of people, and I'm sure I'll get away with it... I want to take a vacation but the economy sucks... ''I don't live in the U.S'' if ur wondering... the U.S dollar is stronger and stuff are cheap in the U.S.