Why do I feel like a gremlin sometimes?
So here's the thing, I feel like a gremlin sometimes and people start to judge me and make me feel like they might be judging me as a gremlin, but I think they judge me that way because I make them feel like I am a gremlin because of the way I feel like a gremlin. Here's the catch, I'm not actually a gremlin, believe it or not. So the question may have been buried a little bit back there. The main question is why do I feel this way? But the outlying question is how do I quit feeling this way? And how do I quit making people judge me for feeling this way and also judging me as a gremlin, when in fact I'm not actually a gremlin?
Sometimes I feel like a dumbass?
Today I really feel like a dumbass. First, I forgot to request time off this weekend for the holiday and now I might have to work. Then while at work I dropped my brand new cell phone that I got just two days ago. And coming back from work I overcharged my credit card and embarrassed myself at the grocery store. Do you ever have days like this? Sometimes it seems like I'm the only one!!!
Sometimes i feel like I can't breathe as well as other times. like in church. and when i'm kneeling down?
Most of this seems like ANXIETY But , if you are over weight these symptoms will also show because your fat stomach fills the space your lungs should occupy. If it is anxiety the a) stop going to listen to mumbo jumbo/ superstition at church b) when you have an attack breath into a paper bag covering your mouth and nose c) If these fail, go to the doctor and get some beta blockers
Do you feel like smashing things sometimes?
Not so much the older I get, but yea it feels good..... until you have to replace it.
Sometimes I feel like giving up but I just can’t. What would be your advice for me?
I'm certain that everyone, yeah, pretty much everyone at some point their life has felt that way…you know, when you feel nothing ever goes right, will ever go right. That's the essence of what it is you're saying.Sadly, an unnerving number of people go ahead, listening to those feelings and acting on them.Here's my advice to you:You don't have the right. It was never given to you feel like, “What the hell is the point? I might as well just throw in the towel and get it over with.”It's tough sometimes. It really is. Seems impossible to go one step further in life, like it's harder to go than give up.So I'm glad you said, “But I just can't.” Good for you!In my life, and I'm being really honest here, I've taken some huge hits, real body blows that left me on the ropes, gasping.But here I am telling you something that's pretty simple: You don't have the right. It's that simple thought which carried me thru. The universe didn't come into creation solely to allow depressed, broken hearted people to just quit like that.If you'll just believe, really believe and have some faith, things will get better. I truly think you'll find they will.After all, if you care to view it this way, the universe has brought you and I together for this brief moment simply to have this message passed on. So hang tough. I promise you you'll make it and be fine and better for it.
I really feel like dying sometimes. Sometimes I feel like my parents also don't want me. How can I die so that nobody is blamed in future about it?
Look, I just left writing an answer midway for this question, because I know this is serious. But hey! Listen. Not everything you feel like doing is really supposed to be done.You want to die. I see. Why? Because people ignore you and don’t want you? Or maybe, its because YOU THINK THEY DON”T WANT YOU? Can you even guess how they would feel if you do something that stupid? After this one answer for you, after this short conversation, I’d cry if I found out that you tried doing that. Imagine what your family would go through.Look, I don’t know the specific reasons for this thought of yours, nor do I know your specific details. But that doesn’t matter. Because giving up is never an option. Never.And trust me, this I say as an 18 year old who contemplated over the same choice when he was 12! And here’s one thing I know now. MY LIFE ISN’T PERFECT, BUT IT GETS BETTER. AND IT WOULDN’T IF I HAD ENDED IT. For 6 years I had waited for a miracle, and it happened. Gradually.Wait for your day, dear. Hold on. Believe in yourself. Force your mind to find things that are good and beautiful. Then make it a habit to believe in them.And if you ever feel alone and need somebody who could answer your questions, we’re all here. And I’m here. I might not make it immediately, but I’ll reply. Definitely. So if you will trust me, dear, life is the greatest thing you’ve got. Suffering comes in a cycle: either today, or tomorrow, but for sure. And so does happiness. Just hold on.
Self Motivation: I feel sometimes very low and sometimes like I will win this world. Why is there such a feeling of ups and downs? Am I suffering?
Dear, first of all, I would like to record it that I am not a medical, psychological or associated professional. However, I will try to reply to your question to the best of my ability and understanding.I believe that all of us go through this cycle of feeling low and high. If you observe the nature, you will see the same pattern in tides, moon waxing and waning, change of seasons, sunrise, noon, sunset etc. So, under normal circumstances, the highs and lows are all part of life and should be taken in one's strideYou have a major advantage - you know your goal clearly. There are many people who are not blessed with this knowledge and ability. When you have clarity of vision, half your battle is won. Then, comes the matter of persistence. Be persistent, in pursuit of your goal. Whether it is one step or hundred steps towards achieving your goal, it does not matter. Efforts should be there from your end. I am a Hindu - in one of our most famous Religious Teachings, it is said that making efforts is in your hands, the results are not in your hands. So, irrespective of the results, you should do what you truly believe is the right thing to do, by large measure or small measure, as per your abilities. If you start climbing Mount Everest, you may not reach the top, but even if you reach one third of the height, it is not failure, because very few people have been given the opportunity to reach even to that height.With regards and best wishes for a truly enjoyable journey, that is life.