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Sometimes I Wish I Never Had Kids

Dont you sometimes wish you could go back to being a kid?

ahh like when i was like 6-younger lol shows like "hey arnald","power puff girls","ed edd and eddy","samuri jack","johnny bravo" etc.now yall might have had something different when yall were growing up but i wanna go back lol tell me your fondest childhood memory or you best memory (im extremly bored) lol

Do you ever wish your kids were never born?

im only 14 and im sure my parents get annoyed of my too sometimes-- its just teen hormones. im sorry you feel like that :'( it'll be fine soon though! i certainly hope my teens dont drive me that crazy when i grow up and have my own kids but im sure all parents might feel this way sometimes. i sometimes want to get away from my parents. only when the argue though. they were arguing yesterday night and today :'( its so sad. i feel like going someplace else. you'll be fine i promise! :) its just their hormones everyone has those :)

Is it wrong to wish you’d never had kids sometimes?

I am not a parent, but I think every parent feels this way occasionally.Sure, I was a pain in the butt a lot of times, but between my sister and I neither of us ever got pregnant or arrested on expelled from school. So, compared to a lot of kids we were pretty easy. And guess what? THERE WERE TIMES THAT I KNOW BOTH OF MY PARENTS WISHED THEY HAD NEVER HAD KIDS.My folks were good parents and provided all they could and well, they were good, but here were those times - The umpteenth time they listened to my sister sing/scream M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E on a Saturday morning when my dad had pulled the grave yard shift the night before. Those wonderful science projects that were due when? The driving lesson when my sister thought she had the brake on and hit the pole at the shopping center putting a dent in the bumper of dad’s 1964 mustang (they really should have skipped her and just had me). The day of my first last and only driving lesson with my dad when I put mom’s car in a ditch (no damage, unlike the mustang). the hundredth time they heard some some song practiced on the piano, going to Camp Fire things and Girl Scout things, and spelling bees and trying to find the perfect dress for some formal event when I wanted to just wear jeans and surviving me learning how to cook and need I go on?Sure there are lots of times, but in the end, for most, it’s worth it.

Is it wrong that I sometimes wish my sister was never born?

It is very wrong to wish anyone either dead or not to have been born. Especially a sibling. Moreover, such a wish has extremely negative karmic consequences. And on occasion may even come true as a metaphysical manifestation.

My husband says he wishes he never married and had kids?

My husband told me that he wakes up every day and wonders what it would be like if he never married and had kids. If he never had anyone to worry about except himself. How much money he would have if he wasn't constantly spending it on the kids. All the things he would have done. I wonder that at times too but I think what a horrible lonely life I would have with no children or husband. I work full time too he isn't the only one. I took the bulk of responsibilities with the kids like most mothers and he goes away every year since the kids were little to a cabin by himself with a no call order for his entire vacation because he says he needs time to himself. I've totally lost respect for him. I'm shocked how little he thinks of us. I don't know what to do about this.

Mom and dad told me thay wish thay never had me?

I'm sorry you had to hear that awful thing from your parents. It's hard to know what percentage of the time they feel that way. I hate to admit it, but there are days I have thought that same thing about my own children. I have never said it in words, but shamefully I'm sure I've communicated it nonverbally. But it is important to know that I ADORE my children, and I've still felt that feeling at times. Parents are not always equipped to raise children, and some resent the process more than others. Your parents may be going through a tough time in their lives and unfortunately spoke something that should never be said to their child.

You are a wonderful creature that God made, and you have worth and value. You were created to do wonderful things in your life, and it may just be to help others who have gone through this same thing.

If you are able I would communicate with your parents, how what they said made you feel. Perhaps they don't know how deeply it cut you.

A wonderful resource that may be of help to you is: www.emofree.com

I send thoughts of love to you at this horrible time.

Do you ever wish you never got married and had kids?

Yes, right here. I wish I never got married. My wife looks ugly after pregnancy and my kids are dumb, they failed 7th and 9th grade. I am giving up on my marriage. I can't even divorce my wife because she literally begs me on her knees with the same chant, please don't leave me I have no where to go.

12 years of marriage to you and I am fed up with it, we don't even sleep, eat or do anything. Live like roommates until my death.

Do you wish you had had more/less children?

Sometimes I think I'll regret not having more kids. I have 2 boys and I'm 31. We can handle more financially. My husband is a Marine, so that deters me from more at this point. When I'm older will I wish I had sacrificed my comfort for more children. Thank you, dear seniors.

Do parents ever secrectly wish they never had kids?

Yes! All the time! But the fact is, you love your kids so stinkin much that you just pick yourself up and keep going. Life would be sooo easy without children, but it also loses worth and meaning I believe, that is why most people do have children at some point in their lives, it is normal to wish for freedom, sanity, sleep, your pre baby body and lifestyle - but VERY few people actually truly wish they didnt have kids, and they are most likely not good parents becasue of it. Good luck, parenting is hard, and it is not as rewarding as any of the other jobs out there, but it is a wonderful feeling to love something as much as a child.

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