In need of advice or suggestions on how to deal with a crazy situation at work ?
I ve been at my current position for over three years during the entire time I have been bullied , humiliated and disrespecex to the point now where I cry out of nowhere , I have no desire to enjoy life most times it’s hard to get outta bed all due to a toxic boss Ever since working for her she has sabotaged me , set me up to look bad in front of managers and coworkers , excluded me from meeting , insulted my appearance by offering wigs and clothes , ignores me sometimes , so now it’s so bad that I have been seeking therapy and have been diagnosed with Major Depression and Anxiety . So now my boss has went to the extent to say negative remarks on my performance review ,complete lies , and now I’m being micromanaged during my phone calls and so I’m being told my voice is too calm , and I don’t exude confidence due to this lack of confidence I’m being put on a Performance plan even though I have had managers , executives and employees praise my work ethic. During a meeting. A few weeks ago , the executive director told everyone in the department how of a pleasure to work with me I don’t know what to do..after being told I m being put on. A performance plan , I passed out and started throwing up and went to my doctor and have been excused until next week any tips or advice I can use to maneuver myself through this situation . I did disclose to my manager I have major depression which is a disability , am I protected ?
This girl is crazy need advice?
i met a girl on tinder her name is alex she is hot so i swiped right and i guess she did to we started texting and we faced time for like 3 hours she seemed cool took her out the next day i took her to perkins it was good she was super out going then said something that made everything really akward. she asked me if i was a christian i said no i'm not religious but i have respect for christian people she responded well we can change that i was like what she said if i converted we can get married and have kids right there is where i drew the line i said sorry but i feel uncomfortable with this she responded with me or with converting i said both i just met you and you are already trying to change me and talking about kids already she yelled well sorry for trying to save you from devil the whole restaurant got quite and stared at us i felt very embarrassed so i called a cab for her paid the driver $80 when i got back to my apartment went to sleep and about 2 in the morning my phone was going off again and i had 60 miss calls and like 80 texts of bible verses she called again i answered she said why have you been ignore me i know you're still awake i can see you moving around though your window i was like how the hell do you where i live the phone hung up i rushed to my window i saw a car speed off i blocked her on my phone and face book a few time when i got home for work i saw the same car someone called my phone but no response i called the cops they didn't do anything
Young empath! Need advice!?
You have a wonderful gift and great potential to help others with their pain, but for now, you need to focus on protecting yourself and building up your inner strength before you can use your empath abilities. I can partially identify with your situation. Although I am not an empath, I am very sensitive to others energies, and I often get overwhelmed around too many people who either have a lot of excited energy or negative energy. I agree with the others in doing grounding meditations and casting psychic shields. But if you do not have much experience with these yet, I suggest you try wearing a black tourmaline necklace. Black tourmaline is a good grounding stone that can ground your own negative energies as well as deflect and ground ambient negative energies. To make this stronger, you can enchant your necklace by asking the Lord and the Lady to lend it strength. Light a white candle and burn some sage, bay leaves, sweetgrass, and dragonsblood resin in a bowl. Hold your black tourmaline over the smoke and say... "Divine Goddess, Goddess Divine, Divine God, God Divine, By this stone of earth, bind my gift. May I know peace of mind and my pain be cast adrift." Hold the stone over the smoke until it all burns out. Blow out the candle and say... "So mote it be." You should occasionally charge your stone by putting it overnight in a bowl of sea salt. Wear the stone when you will be encountering people. You can further enchance your spell by anointing your Third Eye chakra, your heart chakra, and your navel chakra with a mixture of bay leaf essential oil and olive oil. These oils will help guard your sensitive chakras from excess energies. The spell I gave you will essentially bind your empath gift. When you feel you are ready, you can unbind yourself by smashing the stone.
How do I deal with this crazy on and off situation with my ex?
Hmm, you two are one of those on-again/off-again sort of people...Though, given, you two spend time apart before getting back together, but nonetheless, you're one of those couples whom I don't know what to make of. On the one hand, it's obvious there's some sort of chemistry (duh!) that's why you get back together, but on the other hand, that chemistry obviously isn't enough to keep you together. There's more to relationships than getting along and being happy together. *Gasp!* so surprising! There are a lot of factors including wanting what's best for one another and having good timing. Sometimes, your life paths just aren't on the same plane and your mindsets vary, and that can be an extreme setback.I am not the type of person to be sitting around waiting for someone unless they are doing the same for me. I don't like putting all my eggs in the same basket. I've seen enough relationships go sour not to expect peaches and cream all the time. It's just not realistic. I'm always ready to accept that maybe I'm not enough, and I'm okay with that. It's never your fault that someone cannot accept you as you are. It's just not.Such is life.I wish you luck, dear Anon.
My little sister is driving me crazy?
I know this is long but please i need some advice. So she is 8, but very intelligent for her age. Well technically she is my half-sister but I never really think of her like that. I love her as sisters should but she drives me ******* insane. Her dad (who i hate btw) treats her like she is some kind of goddess and this some remarkable child who is soooo indivdual and unique. He has even said at christmas to my nan, "Lolly is so unique! The others (referring to my me and my other sisters --- and brother) are all quite similar but Lolly.." When i was little my sisters and brother used to bully the crap out of me, and i used to annoy them like hell like most siblings are towards eachother but Lolly takes the gold medal. But if say anything even the tinyest bit mean to her my mum is like "Don't be so horrible, if you have nothing nice to your sister than dont say anything at all." And you would think, yes dont be horrible to her, but she ******* deserves it. She is so bloody rude, she parades around like she is all that, she is such a selfish brat. When she was little she would get everything she asked for and more. She constantly has all the attention on her and bullies my little nephew who is only three years younger than her. And she bosses him about and hits him when he doesn't do what she tells him to. My other sisters and bro have moved out and I'm the only one Smith left. Lolly does my ******* head in and it gets to the point when I say i hate her and she is my sister so it does seem harsh but aghhh she is annoying. And i know this sounds patheitc but a million pounds said you would be even more pissed off than i am right now if you were in my situation, cos i think im actually quite a tolerant person considering. Please please please tell me what to do !!
I need some 'pregnant wife' advice?
Wow- sounds like a communication problem; however trust me, pregnancy can make a woman do and say things they don't mean. I'm not excusing bad behavior on their part, but it's just a fact of life- a pregnant woman can be meaner than a junk yard dog and it's just something that'll have to be taken without reading too much into it. I'd suggest that since it's been a few days since this outburst, have a non-confrontational talk with her and ask her if she really feels this way or if it was an emotional reaction to something. My wife said some pretty harsh things to me while pregnant and I asked her about it a few days later and she didn't even remember saying them! So, it's possible it was totally hormonal and she won't even remember saying it. I'd suggest that you keep the lines of communication open at all costs...don't shut down or pull away from her, it will only make matters worse. One last thing about your sex comment- it's normal. She probably is sore all over and tired from the moment she wakes up. She still loves you, she's just in no mood to be messed with and begging, pressuring or even hinting will further distance her. Take it one day at a time and don't take it personally... Best wishes to you and you have my sympathy (I'm going through it myself right now so I can totally relate! ). Have a blessed evening :-)
How can I stay calm in difficult situations?
My ninth grade Health teacher, Debbie Smith, was one helluva gal. An avid pot user and Obama fan, she taught us all about condoms, angel dust, and the perils of cannabis capitalism.One winter afternoon, I’m sitting next to this kid Jack in her class. And Jack had some serious problems. Problems in school, behavioral problems, and oodles of noodles of problems at home. But we won’t go into all that.Then this kid sitting behind us, Ryan, nudges me. “Hey, what’d you get for question seven?”“I think it’s micropenis?” I said. “I’m not sure though.”Ryan clearly wanted a second opinion. “Hey, Jack?”Jack didn���t answer. So Ryan tapped him on the shoulder.Jack whirled around, screamed “DON’T FUCKING TOUCH ME RYAN” and slapped Ryan full across the face.You could hear a condom drop.What you need to understand is that in American high schools, “bullying” is considered a huge deal. Like, me taking someone’s hat off their head would mean a good three weeks of detention. Hitting people-touching people at all-is a big No-No. And it looked like Jack was going to be in a huge, huge, HUGE amount of trouble, judging by the red handprint across Ryan’s face that refused to disapear.We all watched Ms. Smith, absolutely certain that she was going to scream, cry, or give Jack a good punch in the nose. And if it had been any other teacher, they would have probably sent him to the principal’s office, suspended him, filed an HIB report, and had a meeting with his social worker, who’s kind of a godawful bitch.Instead, she took a sip of her iced coffee and surveyed us.“Don’t hit people, Jack,” Ms. Smith said.“Okay,” Jack said.Some prick in the front looked disappointed. “That’s it? That’s IT?”“If there’s one thing I’ve learned in ten years of teaching,” Ms. Smith said. “It’s that not everything has to be a big deal. It’s only a calamity if you make it a calamity.”Debbie Smith the Wise.