How do I stop crying about my hair?
I am 20 years old now. I am deaf and I use American Sign Language. Last week, I had a long hair down to mid-back length and I wanted to cut my hair a few inches off because I thought it was too long. I cut my hair two inches off and my hair was cut to bra-strap length. After cut my hair, I liked my hair at first. But the next day, I started crying about my hair because I thought it was too short and I missed my long hair before cut my hair so much. I couldn’t sleep well at a few nights because I was very upset about my hair. I am still crying about my hair now for one week because I hate my hair and I will never cut my hair to bra-strap length again. I don’t like to pull my hair up in a messy bun and ponytail that it is too short and I can’t get my hair down now because I hate it. I am also jealous of some other girls with long hair down to mid-back length because I wanted my hair to grow long like them. I don’t like my sister’s friends because they have long hair down to mid-back length. Every time when my sister’s friends go to my house, I become upset and go to my room and stay there because I don’t want to see them. I want to have some hair extensions but I can’t because they are fake and hurt. Or, I want to have some products to make my hair grow faster but I can’t because they aren’t working. Please help me how do I stop crying about my hair?
My boyfriend said my boobs were small, i'm crying and he says i'm overreacting?
I'd say there's nothing to be upset about, but what he said hurt YOUR feelings and that's what matters. What anyone else thinks is irrelevant. Size is relative. To King Kong, you could be a size JJ cup and be small. So put it in perspective. What someone says about the size of anything you have, or don't have, says more about them than about you. We've had just as many people complain about our house being too small as have complained that our house is too big for "what do you need all this space for?" and we chalk it up to jealous sour grapes. But anyway. Also, consider that he's a guy and doesn't understand the feelings a female can have about the size of her breasts, specifically. Consider, for example, if he fondled your feet and called them little. Would you react the same way? What if he called them big? See how meaningless the remarks really are? The real problem here is your bf's attitude. He's not dealing with you "being sensitive"? Then walking away like a selfish little brat -- that's totally unacceptable. I hope you won't let him get away with that! Whether you were "being sensitive" or not, if he's in a relationship with you, he SHOULD care how you feel even if he doesn't get it. It's different from a stranger walking away. If he loves you and wants to be with you, he WILL care how you feel. If he doesn't, then you know it's over. Over time, if interactions like this repeat, it could get easier and easier to stay in an unfulfilling, unrewarding relationship because you'll be used to it. A truly loving relationship would be much better for you.
What’s the longest crying session you’ve ever had? (and what for)?
I was saying goodbye to someone very special. For good.I was never going to see her again; I was never going to text her again; I was never going to hold her in my arms again; I was never going to feel her lips on mine again.As I hugged her one last time, her body perfectly locked into mine as always, she said, “I’m sorry, Neil. I’m sorry things have to be this way. I’m so..sorrr…sorr….y,” and broke down into throes of massive, gut wrenching sobs as she sunk her head into my chest.That was it for me. Those sobs of her’s were so genuine, so filled with agony and pain, and so pure that it could melt rocks. My heart’s no rock.My eyes welled up as I tried to keep my emotions in check. Man, it was hard.My breathing became laboured while she sobbed away on my chest.I bit my lips, looked skywards, sniffed, ran my fingers through her hair, took a massive breath and let it all go.I bawled like a baby for about five minutes, resting my chin on her head while my body convoluted with every sob. Her beautiful, free flowing hair was wet, drenched in my tears.She had stopped sobbing by then and so I cupped her face in my palms and looked deep into her beautiful pale eyes.I wanted to say “I’m sorry, too,” but the words just didn’t come out. I broke down again. It was now my turn to sob heavily, the tears bucketing down my face and dripping off my chin on to her cheeks.She sunk her head on my chest again and the both of us just stood there, crying our hearts out in excruciating pain, locked in each other’s beautiful embrace. Lost. Reminiscing.About twenty minutes later, I pulled back, sniffed hard, wiped the tears off my face, and said, “I’m sorry, big boys don’t cry.”She looked at me, smiled weakly, and replied, “but men do.”
Are blood clots the size of soft balls normal during a period?
I'm sorry, I know this is a pretty gross subject, but after an hour or so of googling, I'm really not sure where else to go. (It's 4 in the morning, so I can't exactly call my family doctor.) I normally deal with blood clots during my period, but in the past few days I've been dealing with very large blood clots, the largest being the size of a soft ball. I really wish I were exaggerating. Is this normal, or should I try to get to the doctor? My cramps have been positively excruciating, to the point where I can't do anything but lie in bed curled up in a small ball waiting out the pain.
My friend just passed away and I can't stop crying. How do I stop?
Traumas in life are such a personal, emotional state of mind that everyone goes through them differently. I am so sorry for anyone having to go through it. I too have dealt with a great tragedy in my life and for me, it is more like coming to terms with it. But the way I feel about it is if you love someone deeply they are worth all of your grief you are feeling when they are no longer with you and you shouldn’t feel like you have to hold it back. One thing I did when my Grandson died of SIDS to help me to remember him is I bought a long length cross necklace which I have worn ever since Nicholas died. I put it on every morning and take it off every evening thinking of all the little things we shared every time. That was 17 years ago and I still remember his smile and coos and how he liked to cuddle just like it was yesterday. It is so hard to feel normal again after going through the most stressful time of your life. The pain is such a deep personal feeling that it is hard to share or really let it out. I found that reading articles on Coping with Death and Grief helped me more than anyone or anything could do. And after the years have gone by I have finally started to talk about it without all the emotions. So I truly believe that time is your friend with this.
I feel ugly. I cry every day when I look at myself in the mirror or see a photo of myself. What can I do to feel better about my appearance?
I'm feeling sorry for you. Like, really sorry. And it's not because you don't look beautiful. No. It's because you feel that you don't look beautiful. Who told you that you don't look good? And how could you be stupid enough to believe someone who said that? I can't understand why such a lively looking person like you would feel they aren't b'ful. Is it because you don't have the perfect lips/figure/waist size and other shit? Let me tell you something girl, these things don't matter. Ok, that’s a lie. Maybe they do in fashion industries but in the real life that normal humans like us live, I'm pretty sure it matters only to assholes. I'll give you an advice though I'm pretty sure you've heard it before, looks don't matter, you do. How you are on the inside is worth much more than how hot you look. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. And I don't feel that having asymmetrical lips as you say you have make you any less beautiful. If anything, they make you stand out. And in a world of copycats, standing out as an individual is a big deal. So just be happy, healthy and smile. I promise you'll find your smile better when you stop thinking bad of your body image. I for one would love to see your happy smile.
In a right square based pyramid.. The lenght of the side of the base is 12cm and the height is 26cm ..Yr 10 HW
** To calculate angle between triangular face and base ** If the side of the pyramid is 12cm, then the centre point of the pyramid is 6cm in from the base. Considering a right-angled triangle, we know opposite = 26cm and adjacent = 6cm. The angle between the base and the side the pyramid is then defined by trigonometry : Tan (theta) = O/A Tan (theta) = 26 / 6 (theta) = 77 degrees ** To calculate angle between edge of pyramid and base ** To obtain the length from the centre of the pyramid to the base corner, Sin (theta) = O/H Sin (45) = 6/x x = 8.48 Then, the angle is again defined by trig : Tan (theta) = O/A Tan (theta) = 26/8.48 (theta) = 71.93 degrees ** Finally to calculate the length of the sloping edge ** The length of the sloping edge can be resolved by pythagorus' theory, given that we know the other two lengths of the triangle formed : c^2 = a^2 + b^2 c^2 = 8.48^2 + 26^2 c = 27.35 For extra marks, you can confirm this by again using trig : Sin (theta) = O/H Sin (71.93 degrees) = 26 / H H = 27.35 Hope this helps !!