I hate my step dad. What should I do?
Short answer: There's nothing you can do.Long answer: Dealing with parents can be extremely hard. Personally, I lost my father two years ago and my mom almost instantly (two months later) met another man online. My father died in April, my mother met my stepdad in late May, and he lived with us by September. My mother abandoned me for two months with my brother to go stay with my stepdad in Arizona, while I was still grieving. Basically, I have a lot of anger and resentment left over from this. Either way, my new soon-to-be stepdad isn't the best person, to say the least. He treats me much differently (worse) than he treats his own daughter, and says very cruel things to win an argument. He constantly blames me for things I haven't done and my mom believes him, and it's extremely frustrating. Because I broke my phone last month, and currently am unable to pay for my own (my mother is also unable to pay for a nice phone for me), my stepdad pays for it, which is kind, but he uses it as leverage against me. Anything I say wrong turns into me losing my phone for however long he’d like. Usually a few hours. He once gave me a list of things to do in order to get my phone back, so I completed the list and he still wouldn't give it back because he “"doesn't make deals with children.”Our relationship is awful, and he thinks that I like him more than I would admit. I don't, and likely never will.I’m explaining all of this to easily answer your question. No matter how much you hate someone, there is likely no quick, rational solution besides waiting it out. Unless your mother decides to leave him, you'll always be stuck with him. Just try to cope for now.
My stepdad has major anger issues..?
With my little twin sisters (3yearsold) and my mom. I get SOOO pissed off, my thoughts get very evil about him. I've always hated him. This morning, my sisters turned off a movie and unplugged it. & my stepdad threw them out of the car pretty much and started screaming at them and was on the phone with my mom and was like "Ughh! I wanna kill these girls!" And I've been thinking nonstop about that. If he ever did anything to put my sisters in the hospital I swear I would kill him. My sisters always run up to me crying saying "daddy hurt me!" And I get so mad. Why won't he calm down? Idk what to do about it.
Can I get my step dad arresred for yelling at me.?
Ok my step dad yells at me numerous times a day. He comes home every day and never says hello or hi. He is constantly jabbing my mom in the side to show that he makes the rules i think. The thing i am worried about the most is on Super bowl Sunday when Steelers v.s Green bay he was mad to start with cause i was cheering for steelers. Then on accident i spill a drink and he gets up screaming like someone died. at Then we fighting then all the sudden he gets in my face pointing at me and says i am a worthless piece of crap and that he doesn't care if i run away. Then he bring up that he can care less if me, my mom, or brother leave cause hes such a big man. After that he got to the point he ripped my internet cable out of my Xbox 360 almost braking it and ends up braking a brand new game i got for Christmas. Finally all of these things have been happening every week and I was wondering if I can get him arrested?
My mom and stepdad have missed putting my sister in school for 2 years. She should be in kindergarten by now. This really angers me. What should I do?
Don’t know about where you live but in many places Kindergarten is not obligatory. A child can show up for first grade never having been to school, no problem. (well actually it does put the child at a disadvantage but no problem legally speaking). This is true in Texas at least. In many other countries children start school at 7, they don’t have this idea of preschool or Kindergarten.So I would ask your parents what they have in mind for your sister’s education.I would caution you from contacting child services because that might become a nasty betrayal that will drive a wedge with your parents. This might be unnecessary if legally they have the right to forgo preschool and kinder.If you do call children’protection services take it from the tact of - what is the laws here? When is a child obligated to attend school? Instead of I WANT TO REPORT MY PARENTS FOR NEGLIGENCE! see what I mean. I know you are upset but this might be a territory you don’t fully understand (most people don’t) and you don’t want to do something that might unnecessarily hurt your parents and damage your relationship if you don’t have to do so.Now, if your parents are legally and legitimately neglecting your sister’s education then you need to get help and maybe from social services. But right now, the info you have given it is not clear at all they are guilty of this.
WHY DOES MY STEPDAD HATE ME?
live with my mom whom im very close to and my adopted dad. i have a real dad that i talk to sometimes but he moved to virginia and my mom had full custody when i was smaller..so thats why my stepdad adopted me. hes very mean to me somtimes. dont get me wrong he says he loves me and stuff but then some days hes very mean. today my mom tried to get me up but i didnt get up so he comes in and screams at me to get out of bed or he'll push me out of bed in a very mean voice and didnt talk to me the rest of the day. then he was talking to my mom about how he doesnt want to go on vacation with us(my two friends and my aunt) bc its not going to be fun and that she cateers to me too much. so i feel like my dad tries to get my mom to hate me somtimes. what can i do for him to not hate me? ive been upset bc of it. i flipped out on my bf who i really liked and who was sweet..could this be why? could this be why i have boy troubles. how can i fix this?
Me and my Step Dad constantly fight?
Call the police and children's services. It was wrong that you skipped school but it was extremely wrong he hurt you.
Why am i scared of my stepdad?
Um so like I've lived with my stepdad for like eight years and he's nice and all but ushally i ignore him because he's annoying. But sometimes I think he has anger issues and he scares me when he's angry I feel little and all i want to do is hide. idk why I feel this way because i know he'll never hurt me because he loves me. But i get scared for my 16 year old brother because he and my stepdad don't get along that well sometimes. But once again i know he'll never hurt him. i just don't know why i'm so scared of him.
How do I tell my step dad that he might have IED?
This is a tough one. You can’t really tell someone you think they are mentally ill. I mean if they haven’t already kind of brought it up they are certainly never going to believe you. And it will cause unnecessary friction going forward. It will intensify.I am guessing you want to help him because you like him. Even though you have had some rough times, I am guessing you still like him.This is what I would do in your situation. I would try to be there when he does one of these things. I would genuinely and respectfully ask him why did he do that. Not in an accusing manner but in a way that sounds like you are really interested as well as respectfully want to know. Do not ask while he is having the fit. But you want to make sure he knows you just witnessed what he did. Then when you think he has calmed some, then ask.I have done this with people and I find they are quite willing to talk about it. And they too are confused about it. I think the trick is to not be judgemental. And to not push it. Just ask the question and see where it goes. See what you find out.Then the next time you might want to ask a question like… do you know this is coming before you do it… like do you know you are going to do this? Again with no accusation and no judging. Being kind I would describe it as. Because you want to help him.My goal was not really to encourage someone to get help, but to help them realize what they are really doing. I wanted them to be responsible for what is happening. I wanted them to know that it affected people who were there. That is was intense and really bad behaviour. But I wanted them to put those pieces together. So I just kindly and patiently asked questions and hoped they would get there on their own.The first step to getting someone help is for them to realize they need it. Once he realizes he needs help and his behaviour is unacceptable, it is quite possible he will want to get some help.Lets face it. People who behave badly will continue until someone says this is not OK. Your patience will guide him in the right direction.I hope this will help.
Stepdad vs. stepdaughter HELP!!!!?
My husband and I totally disagree on how my 14 year old daughter should be punished. He thinks it's okay to spank her and I say she's too old. He thinks there's nothing wrong with pulling down her pants, too and this is where I say NO WAY!! It has become a HUGE problem in our life, as my daughter is constantly in trouble for her smart mouth and messy room. The fact that he's her stepdad factors in, too. (even though he raised her since she was a baby). I'm constantly having to be in the middle of them both. My daughter has even accused him of purposely putting trash in her room just to get her in trouble, and I think it may be true, and she swears to me that it's true. They absolutely hate each other, what can I do?? It's to the point where I've had to tell my 15 year old son to watch over them when I'm not there so that my husband doesn't do anything I've told him not to (spank her).
My step dad is so hot temper.. like he get angry easily(like yelling and curseing)?
well i dont care cause it usually doesnt involve us..or our family but he get angry other people.. Like hes ok and friendly most time but when he get mad he go overboard. So how do i help the guy?