Is it wrong that my step-mom took money out of my bank account without even asking me?
when i was at school my step-mom took my money out of my banking account.The only way i knew was when she told me to go see if there was money in her purse and i found a withdrawl banking slip with my account number and the banking slip of when i put money in there in her wallet. So i called the bank and they said i had $15 but when i put money into my account i had $60 and some odd cents...I have no clue what i should do i mean she hasn't even told me that she took money out
Lesbian Relationship with my step mom, is it wrong?
ok hi I'm 20 years old, I just moved back to live with my dad and step mom to save a little money. so my dad and step mom have been married for 3 years and now moved back me and my step mom started to get to know each other better (I hated my mom, she was really mean) I moved back a year ago and a few months ago while getting to know my new step mom I came out as a bi-sexual to her and asked her not to tell me dad, she told me she wouldn't tell, as thanks I was going to give her a kiss on the check but not noticing that she turned her head I kissed her on the lips by mistake. the kiss lasted for a little while because we where to shocked over what happened but I felt a jolt run threw me.... and I liked it. we both agreed it was a accident and promised to never mention it ever again. a few days later we where home alone and the conversation of the kiss just started out of the blue, she asked me if I liked it which I told her yes, my step mom admitted that she couldn't stop thinking about it and how she liked the feel of my lips against her's. we blushed and we did something we didn't think we would willingly do, we started to kiss again and it felt soooooo wonderful. ever since that night we would wait till my dad left for work and jump into bed together and.... well have sex. I feel guilty that I'm having sex with my step mom and it feels so good I can't help it. She's starting to say she's in love with me and if she could leave my father for me she would in a heart beat..... which makes me feel worse like I'm destroying there marriage. What do you think I should do? Part of me does want to stop out of guilt but part of me wants to continue for how good everything fells.
How do I know if my stepmom is only married to my dad for his money?
You can never truly know. Only your step-mom knows her intentions. Usually we think such things about others when we perceive in them something we don’t like. They may not be acting towards our loved one in a way that we think they should.In the end, it’s your father that had to decide the reason why he married her. And look on the bright side—even if she did marry your father for money, she may actually develop love for him, or otherwise be a good wife.
My alcoholic,money obsessed stepmom is out of control.dad lacks courage to stand up to her, how can we get hel
She has never worked a day in her life, has cheated on my father and spends all his money. she's overbearing and loud so my dad would rather not start fights. My little sister is 13 and spends all her time downstairs because her mom doesn't remember their conversations the next day. My dad has got a new place to live if and when things blow up.(not with another women, just an apt.) We want to help him, and have suggested a mediator but they think she'll just flip out. I think she needs in patient detox and counseling. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO FIX THIS!!!Thank you
Why do step moms hate their step children? I’m 14 and my stepmom and I are close and I told her that she’s my real mom as far as I’m concerned.
In my case, it's simply because I'm very much like my mother - looks, mannerisms, personality, etc. When I was young, after 15 years of marriage my mom divorced my dad so she could be with another man. My dad was devastated and willing to try anything to save the marriage because he saw my mother as his soul mate. After several years of being alone, dad remarried. While he loved my stepmother, it wasn't the same great passionate relationship for him that it was for my stepmother. Dad was always asking me how my mom was doing. When mom lost her job, he even tried to send me home with extra money to help her out with her bills. Not fully understanding adult relationships and the family dynamics at the time, I didn't see how jealous my stepmother was of my mom. She was nice to me only when my dad was with us. I kept trying to be helpful, upbeat and complimentary of my stepmom. One day after she once again treated me like crap, I cried and asked her directly, "Why don't you like me?" She looked me straight in the eye and said, "I don't like you and I never will because you remind me of your mother. I HATE your mother." At that moment I realized there was nothing I could do and quit trying. All of the pieces of the puzzle I'd been trying to figure out for the past few years came together. Sadly, my dad was killed in a car accident shortly after. I haven't seen my stepmother since and have no desire to do so.
My step mom is a B-i-t-c-h?
Sadly there are millions of marriages like this all over the world and there will continue to be marriages like this. Both men and women marry each other for the wrong reasons. With men, they are attracted to a woman for her looks mainly instead of who she actually is as a person. They are blinded by a woman's looks if you will. With woman, they are more than likely after money instead of the man himself and will do whatever it takes to get their hands on that money. You aren't mean. You're probably calling it right. Your father has to wake up and realize what you do eventually. Maybe he will realize it sooner rather than later and still have some money in the bank.
I need to get my stepmom a gift.?
Oh, my! What a dumb answer he gave you...I wonder what HE's giving her? Okay, here's what you do...Do you like her? Is she worth the effort to try and think of something she might really like? If so, then think to yourself...What does she like to do? What activities does she like? For instance: I gave my daughter this list when she said she couldn't think of anything to buy me for Christmas. Reading - Mysteries, contemporary women's fiction, Cooking Books Coffee - Love it! Alcohol - Sangria, Bailey's, Beer Cozy stuff like snuggly socks, hats, gloves, scarves Eating out! Yum! Get the picture? Okay, now pull out that wallet and get to shopping! Good luck and Merry Christmas!
My step mom is trying to contest the will because my father left everything to my brother and I and she keeps the house. Can she do this and if she does will we have to give her our portion?
In most jurisdictions any interested party such as a surviving spouse can contest a will if they would like. There is nothing stopping a surviving spouse to contest a will in most cases and if there is a proper reason such as the will not being validly executed or there being undue influence the court may set aside the will, but being upset about the lack of inheritance in most cases is not a successful reason to contest a will in most cases. If the will is set aside in a will contest the estate in most jurisdictions is passed along to beneficiaries according to the intestate laws in that jurisdiction or the laws that would govern if there was no will at all which may or may not involve giving up a portion that was intended to be distributed by a will.Another factor could be that in some jurisdictions a surviving spouse is allotted a certain percentage or amount of an estate that they can claim even if the will leaves them less than that percentage or nothing at all. This percentage or amount may be covered by the house that was left to her, but depending on the value of the other assets it may be less and she may be able to claim an additional amount from the estate.
I hate my stepmom but my dad always takes her side! PLEASE HELP ASAP?
Okay so I'm not allowed to see my real mom and I'm forced to live with my dad and stepmom (I'm a teenage girl) I absolutely hate my stepmom, here are some of the reasons -She's always asking my dad to take money out of my college fund for her grown kids - she hates when I spend time with my dad - she competes for my dads attention with me - she says nasty things about my mom - her grown kids are ******* rude and they always talk bad about me (sometimes right in front of me) - she shames me for eating and says I'm fat - she says I don't have a good body -shell do anything possible to make my dad get mad at me -she blames me for her problems in her marriage. The list goes on and gets worse but I'm sure you get the point. Ive tried to talk to my dad about this but he cussed me out, hit me and said how she's done so much for me (he thinks "doing so much" is dropping me off at the mall or taking me to the doctor). It hurts when my stepmom is yelling and cursing at me and my dad always takes her side when he used to promise this would never happen :(( someone PLEASE HELP ASAP I cant cry myself to sleep another night...
I hate my stepmom so much i wanna kill her?
Your father is terribly at fault here. He has allowed this woman's bad behavior from the start. Why did your mother not come to your aid and take you with her? What kind of mother leaves her child behind so he has to live with this horrible situation. I am very angry with your parents! There was a little girl in Colorado whose own father allowed her step-mother to mistreat her until she finally killed the girl. Talk to your teacher and principal. Tell them you are in fear for your life. Contact your mother and tell her to come and get you! Don't give her a choice. Ask a neighbor or a friend to allow you to use their phone to call her and tell them why it is so important. You cannot call her at home and expect to be able to talk freely about what you are enduring. This must end.