Why do I struggle being myself?
Let's think about it again …The stuff what goes into your mind is what defines you but you cannot express everything to everyone or even one.And that is normal.Being satisfied in your own skin and not able to express that to others is still OKAY..Believe me it's okay .It's all the game of perception.If you want to make yourself liked by others and you keep on making efforts on this then you will always struggle to be yourself.So leave this and be okay in being youjust you !No outer reflection !No outer judgement !Just do some things that make you happy.Make yourself happy all the time.This is a full time job.And then I guess that inner perception of yours will automatically form an aura of your own.And then you won't struggle to be urself.:)
How can I motivate myself in my struggling life?
To be honest dear struggle is something which is never-ending . so prepare your mindset in a way that you can fit in and i can tell you why. Because no matter how rich and successful you are there is always gong to be some wishes which are incomplete , some goals unfulfilled. the more you grow the more you struggle to maintain that growth.And according to me this struggle of life is actually important. Just close your eyes and think of a situation that your life is pitch perfect you don’t have any worries. Everything is secured and nothing to struggle for but don’t you think, that kind of life will be so boring and things will start to become unimportant and one will stop valuing things and bodies because we value something and someone out of fear of loosing and struggle to keep that within our reach.But if you feel like you’re loosing the grip then you can try these methods.start taking positive from everything. Good exist even in evil but one should possess the ability to see it.try listening songs not very special but general ones like my playlist of in this case consists The fighter(gym class heroes), hall of fame (The script), loose yourself (Eminem) and a lot of lp songs.Read about personalities who achieved something after some very bad time (apj abdul kalam, eminem, jack ma etc)the final thing no matter how hard you fall or from what height you fall never ever think yourself of less than someone . If someone has done it before then it can be repeated again.Good Luck
I'm struggling with life?
Hi. You're beautiful for sharing this. <3 I know exactly how you feel. I'm terribly sorry that all the issues in your life haven't been resolved yet. I know how you feel with your boyfriend, my bestfriend only used to say "Don't worry, I'm here for you" whenever I ranted. I'm 14, clinically depressed, self harming, recovering from an eating disorder. (I'm a guy). I spent 22 days in a mental/psychiatric hospital, and I do believe it helped. It gave me a chance to be exposed to people with the similar problems, and knowng that you're not the only one, and that EVERYONE (patients + staff) are extremely supportive, and just amazing. Maybe that's what you need, I know it seems extremely dramatic, but you just need a break. I've been in therapy for over a year. It helps. It helps to rant to strangers, when your real friends won't listen. And most of the social workers/therapists are understanding, nice, un-judgemental, and supportive. You should really get one. My therapist currently has a 70-year-old patient, and she STILL suffers from depression, only because she never allowed herself to open up as a child growing up. You don't want to be that person. Get help before it's too late to enjoy life. I know how you feel with the dreams. I used to sleep a lot because my dreams were far better than reality. I used to think of it this way, I don't mean to go against your beliefs, but I used to believe the devil had me in his reach. And that I couldn't let him take me. People will only start to help you when you begin to help yourself, I know it sounds rude, but you need the therapy and clearly if you're not really getting better at this age, your strategies aren't working. If you're not into that kind of stuff, get recommended for medication. I use natural supplements, many of the medical medication, such as Prozac/Lexipro have side effects such as an increase in depressive/suicidal thoughts. Get natural supplements, they have no side effects and promote a healthy lifestyle. You're going to be okay. I swear :) "It's all going to be okay in the end, If it's not okay, It's not the end." <3
If I'm struggling to motivate myself to get out of bed in the morning and everything till the day ends, what should I put all my energy into to build my motivation?
If you simplify things, it makes them easier to accomplish…Your question implies that it’s very hard to get out of bed. That in order to do so, it requires motivation.Getting out of bed requires one thing, the act of getting out of bed. It doesn’t require motivation, it requires action. One simple act, rise up.Actions come from making choices. At any given moment, a person always has one of two choices to make. In any moment, it’s always one ‘act’ at a time.You can either get out of bed, or stay in bed. Choose one. Neither requires anything but the physical ability to move.Every act, is a choice. We always have one of two choices to make. That’s it. And what you choose, determines the next two choices that are available.If you choose not to get out of bed, your choices remain the same: Get out of bed, or stay in bed. If you then choose to get out of bed, you get two more choices: to move or stand still. If you chose to move, you have two more choices: to go one place, or another…Telling oneself that doing things requires some kind of special motivation…makes it easier… to claim things are more complicated. That then makes it easier to tell oneself that it’s hard… which gives you a reason to think you need something extra special to get things done; that’s false.To do something you just need to do it.Just choose to do it, and do it. There’s no magic to it.
Struggling with my sexuality?
Hello! I'm a 17 year old girl a dive been struggling with my sexuality for quite a bit now. I never had my first kiss and never had sex with either gender. I know for a fact I like girls. I can see myself dating a girl and I can see myself building a life with a girl. I like everything about girls. But I get confused when boys come in. I do find guys hot. But when I imagine kissing them or dating them it feels weird. It's not that I'm disgusted by it but I'm just not into it. Also I can't see myself having sex with a guy. Can I be gay but still find guys cute? Do I need to experience more to know what I like? My family has always told me they think I'm gay and I ask them why and they say that they can just tell but I tell them I'm straight because I'm really not sure yet plus I'm scared to come out to my parent plus my sister who is my best friend. I'm just really confused. I want to know so that I can just come out to my family. Thank for the help in advance.
How can I keep myself motivated during struggle times?
First of all you have to make a decision that you wanna achieve greatness in life. Greatness is not achieved by doing something once or twice or even a thousand times. It is achieved once you start seeing results. However, that does not mean that one should only focus on the result - you have to also love the process. When you love and respect the process it makes things easier.Only you can make you happy, the sooner you realise this the better.Consistency gets the job done - you have to also keep going. You have to keep reaching and reaching… And reaching!Furthermore, I found it helpful in my demotivated days listening to motivational speeches and watching motivational videos every day, typically multiple times a day, and sometimes just once in the morning or evening.Now I have devoted my own life to motivate and inspire people. I talk about these topics in my videos.Here I hope you can find inspiration. I am an upcoming motivational speaker trying to give the world hope and spread the positivity. Im a former football/soccer player and now i use my life experience to help, inspire and motivate others. Let me and my videos help you. Subscribe so you can always stay updated on new motivational videos! check out my youtube channel: https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCkme7PcadCdbmK2g0A0G1qQGod bless!