How can I reject a suicidal girl romantically?
This is a good tip for anyone who meets a suicidal person: it is never your fault.*Before you came along, she already hinged towards the possibility of death.When a person begins developing suicidal thoughts, no matter the reason- any semi-significant event would immediately be overly-scrutinized to either a “hopeful situation” or “another disappointing situation.”All suicidal people are certain that hopeful situations would DEFINITELY end up being another disappointing situation anyway, so the only thing that matters is how the long the hopeful situation lasts.The longer the hopeful situation lasts, the worst the reaction will be for disappointing situations.So if your concern is to decrease her chances of committing suicide based on your existence in her life, I suggest you do it swiftly and as soon as possible.Here are some simple tips as well:Do not tell her it's because she is suicidal or a depressing personHumble yourself, and tell her that you don't think you're a good match. The simpler the reason, the better.Once you have cut ties with her, NEVER EVER speak to them again UNLESS, you are ready to love her forever. Do not give her hope again. Don't be an asshole.Remember: it is not your responsibility to what happens to a suicidal person.*It is not your fault: Almost- I feel that I have to clarify that this does not include intentionally hurting a suicidal person.
Rejected by so many girls. Not normal. Thinking about suicide?
Please do not do anything harmful to yourself!!!!!! Honestly I started crying when I got to you saying that life is not worth living. It is! You do not have to live for anyone but yourself! Live for you and no one else! First of all, not all professionals are bad. I am a nurse and I read through that whole thing. There are therapists who practice Patient-Centered Therapy. This kind of therapy brought me out of my depression. They absolutely will not point out your problems. They help you identify your problems and help you to solve them as effectively as possible. Therapists who practice this ask question after question to determine the best ways to help you. They are not like psychiatrists who have you lay on a couch while they draw funny pictures on a clipboard. They sit and talk with you. It is extremely helpful! They do not solve your problems for you, but they do offer many different options for you to solve them. If you really need to talk to someone right then about a problem, call 1-800-273-8255. There are wonderful professional people who are trained to listen to your problem and help calm you down. I have called before. If you really need someone to talk to at any time, call. As far as the girl situation, forget them!!!!! They were obviously not right for you. When you are looking for love, you look in all the wrong places. Stop looking. It will find you. That is probably the most clique thing I have ever said, but it is true. Actively looking makes you glorify people. These girls you describe were idiots who obviously do not deserve you. Why do you want to be with someone who is not good enough for you? One of the biggest problems of searching for love is: When you look at others, you see no flaws. But when you look at yourself, flaws is all you see. I can tell from what you have written that you have a big heart. Don't waste it on someone who is not willing to give you hers in return.
How do I (nicely) reject a guy that's suicidal?
I know that sounded a little harsh, but a while ago, he tried to hang himself at school. I don't know how to tell him I'm not interested. Almost every day, he puts his arm around me, and I don't know what to do - I know it's far fetched, but I'm afraid he'll try to kill himself again if he's rejected. I try to squirm out of his grasp, and a few times my friends have 'conveniently' called me over to talk to me. I don't want to send him over the edge, but I'm seriously not interested in him; I have my eyes on someone else. How do I nicely tell him no? Thanks in advance
What to do when feeling suicidal over a girl?
Grow up and stop feeling sorry for urself.for real
Should I commit suicide when all girls reject me and no one ever wants to get to truly know me?
Hi, I am a senior in high school and all throughout my school life I have never had any friends and I think that it is because of being in special education because no girl ever wants to get to know me as a person and I always see those same girls who reject me talking with other guys laughing, and smieling while I am over by myself sitting alone. I never have had real friends growing up and I have always had to sit alone at lunch and other kids always made fun of me assumed that I was different for being in special education. My parents originally wanted to abort me and have a daughter but instead they got stuck with a disgrace to the family name and they give things to my other two brothers that they would never give to me such as money and gift cards. Should I commit suicide when all girls reject me and no one ever wants to get to truly know me?
How should a girl react to a guy talking about suicide after rejecting him after the first date? This has happened several times with me with different people.
She should react by seriously re-evaluating her dating patterns. She���s clearly picking abusive men on a regular basis; others here have explained the manipulation these people are trying to pull, and it shouldn’t surprise you that a person who’ll try to manipulate you after a first date will quickly escalate.Sit down and think about how you meet and why you agree to date these people. Think about what attracts you, why, and what you can do to change this toxic pattern.For a more immediate reaction, she should block this person from her life, and remember that even if someone goes through with a suicide threat it has nothing to do with her. There is no way a rejection after a first date is ever the sole reason for a suicide, there will be many other much bigger issues, and it is not your fault. You did not encourage suicide, you did nothing but establish healthy boundaries, and an unhealthy response is in no way your fault.Now do what you can to protect yourself from ending up in more abusive relationships. Think, think hard.
Why would men commit suicide after being rejected?
I recently heard about a Detroit YouTube called Anthony Powell killing a girl after she rejected her, and then he killed himself. It's sad that some men kill themselves after being rejected. I personally wish it was the other way around. Why would a man commit suicide after being rejected? Women are that prone to rejection eh? What if it was vice versa?
Is it normal to think about suicide over a rejection?
These are very normal feelings after being rejected, but it's important to know that rejection is a part of life. If being socially rejected makes you feel this way, then you're not alone many people have these feelings and this keeps them from having the life they want. Don't feel ashamed that you got rejected but be proud of yourself that you had the courage to ask this girl out. Many people are so afraid of getting rejected that they live very lonely lives. There is a perfect person for you out there who you will meet one day if you continue to be confident within yourself. If you want someone to talk to, then please email me.