I have scoliosis & it's ruining my life?
What's the degree of your curve? I had a 54 degree curve and right away my doctor told me i needed to have the surgery. They tried sticking me in a brace until i had the surgery to keep the curve the same size so i know how uncomfortable they are. I hated wearing it and i felt self-conscience in it all the time. I ended up quitting wearing it actually after only a month or two. The surgery is soooo expensive but I went to Shriner's children hospital. It's open to anyone under 18 and it goes off medical need. My surgery was free. I just had the surgery three weeks ago and im at home now. the first week, which i spent all in the hospital is really tough. also the first week at home was pretty hard but now im starting to feel better and im actually glad that i had this surgery. Before the surgery my left side was straight with no dip for a waist and my right side stuck way out. And now i have a perfectly shaped waist. I also grew at least an inch during the surgery so it stretched out my torso an i also appear to be thinner now too. it's an amazing difference. So I think i would probably recommend the surgery if you can do it. It's a long recovery process but in the end i think it'll be worth it.
Earrings for SUPER sensitive ears?
I even have mushy ears. I easily have not been waiting to placed on jewelry for 10 years. I regularly get the magnetic jewelry, besides the incontrovertible fact that whilst i grow to be at Claire's they presented me to a pair plastic tubes that go on the placed up of the earring. For the 1st time in 10 years i can placed on jewelry and that i don't have the itching or the knots in a while. I did detect a information superhighway internet site that consists of them alongside with a liquid which you will placed on the jewelry it is meant to do an identical component by fact the little plastic tubes. i visit objective the liquid and spot if that works by fact it may be extra inexpensive interior the long-term than having to purchase thousands of the tubes. I easily have secure the information superhighway internet site addresses. desire this helps.
How do I stop being over sensitive, over thinking and insecure in my relationship?
Having insecurities is quiet common, but coping up with them is not everybody's cup of coffee. See, giving each other the proper space and time acts as a kingpin in all the relationships. Not being in a relationship is far better than being overly sensitive in one, actually girls these days are developing this tendency of "WHAT IF's" ! What if he is cheating on me, what if he is going out with some other girl, what if he is being pretentious, bla bla.. At the same time blindly trusting anyone could also prove you blind, so keep your eyes and ears open and take the decisions thoughtfully.Advice1If you have doubts, just go and talk to the person about your insecurities at that particular shot . Its better late than never, so instead of thinking and making false perceptions just clear things out with your partner.Advice2You have a life of your own , right? So just live the moment, i would suggest you to stop worrying about your relationship and start concentrating on yourself! Read books, hang out with friends, watch movies, and enjoy your life because it is too short to be serious all the time so if you cant laugh at yourself, call me i will laugh at you ! This is a small world, boys may come and go! There are a hell lot of other things to worry about than obviously this !So cheerup ! You just need to go with the flow and i am sure things will fall into place!
Is it true that autistic people have sensitive ears/hearing? How does it affect them?
I'm currently in the process of getting diagnosed, BUT when my ears opened up in the 8th grade, that's when my life turned to h***. I was to the point of banging my head on the desk, I was crying, wishing I was deaf (I still do, even though my mother says I'm just talking stupid because I won't be able to hear the things I like). I've been to ENTs, Audiologists, CAT Scans, nothing was found wrong. Things have gotten worse as earplugs no longer work. My mother kept mentioning autism, so I decided to look it up, and I found that Sensory Processing Disorder could be a.possibility to why I'm suffering this. I'm 18 and still suffering. I found that I have almost all the signs of autism. That's why I'm hoping they decided to test me where I am. I just went to an intake appointment today. My sufferingbdrom noises will never end. If the headphones for autistics I found and had my aunt order online for my birthday work like the reviews said they will, hopefully, I can finally get some relief in life, but according to my bad luck, they may not. I'm willing to try, though. I'll try anything to end this torture of noise! If Sensory Disorder goes along with lack of social skills, obsessive and repetitive behaviors, stimming, lack of eye contact, inability to “act your age”, routine behavior, sometimes depression, anger issues, OCD, delayed speech (all these apply to me), then it is Autism. If not, then the sensitive hearing is just Sensory Processing Disorder OR Hyperacusis (it's what I thought I had at first, but now I KNOW that it could just be Autism due to SIGNS I have because I looked it up to get a good idea of what it was when my family mentioned it.) Plus, my mother tried to get me tested multiple times, but since I had speech therapy and spoke properly after that, we were turned down. Now I'm 18 and just finished an intake appointment. Hopefully, I can get tested. There has to be some reason I'm suffering from sensitive hearing while everyone else says that I'm louder than everything else. Otherwise, I'm probably just cursed.
Chronic Headaches are ruining my life !?
Sorry to hear that.
How do I stop being over-sensitive and emotional and stop overthinking?
Bad things overthinking will bring:confusionNo simplicity always complicatingNot being true or straightforwardAsking too much of questionsNo improvements in thinking coming back to same question asked firstNever compromise or acceptAlways thinking I am rightNo listening skillsNo politenessAt last head ache !!!!About my insight on overthinking:In life we face positive and negative things.For positive things we dream that becomes “vision”There are two things which we over think:If we face1.problem and2.emotionsOnly for problem and emotions we over think a lot.Now coming to your question how to stop.Simple, you should know what to think through mind and feel through heart.Because ,Mind answers for what , where, why, when , how?So you can get answers for your problem if you think through mind. If you get answers this will stop over thinking about problems and make you get answers and come out of fear.But your heart will not question it will just accept . That's why we feel emotional through heart.If you can able to get answers for what , why, when, where and how for your problem then your thinking through mind. This is termed as normal thinking too.If you don't get answers then it's emotions. Just feel it in heart , it will just accept.If you follow this you can stop over thinking.Try to categorise what to think in mind and what to feel from heart.This will help you to stop OVER-THINKING
How can I stop being sensitive and overthinking everything?
I’d argue that you can’t stop being sensitive. And, you might think that’s a problem. Isn’t it a matter of fact that your sensitivity is making overthink everything?Well, no. Not really, and I’ll tell you why I think this. I think you can be sensitive like a scale is sensitive to weight. The scale has an ability to detect the difference in heaviness. That in itself seems like a great ability. But, now, we must consider what that scale tells us. That might be the upsetting part. If the goal is to see the weight 200 instead of 250, but we see 250 or higher, day after day, we might want to conclude the scale is responsible.It seems we have to take a different way of thinking. If we don’t, we’re just going to find problems that don’t belong. I mean, the scales not responsible for me weighing a number other than what I want to see. All it’s responsible is for weighing me. And, it’s doing a good job.So, here, we might decide your sensitivity is, of itself, a fairly neutral thing with the benefit of measuring things.From this, it might be, well… “What do we want it to measure?” That’s really the thick of it in this question. What I want it to measure is my ideal weight. That means I need to take every action to make happen the event of weight loss before I get on the scale. That ALSO means I have to evaluate my relationship to food, my relationship to the ideal weight (why do I want it to be there?,) keep a record of my habits to ensure I’m enacting the right ones that accord with my values, educate myself self on how to solve the problem of bad habits, and then make a plan to follow through into a future where I’m making intentional actions.You might notice something about this last paragraph. I hope you’ll notice two things actually.I’m moving forward from blaming the scale, to taking self responsibility.I’m unable to overthink any one particular thought. I have a series of things I HAVE to do to reach my goals.If this was too long, the basic gist is: sensitivity isn’t a problem, it’s not using it constructively that is.(Remember I’m not a professional and everything here is philosophically inclined. I believe this information is useful with the assumption that you don’t have some greater issue that needs attention first. It seems there isn’t.)
Help for sensitivity to booming bass?
Wow,I thought I am the only one with this problem. When a neighvour put on their Hifi systems to extreme levels, I don't hear the music or lyrics, I only hear the excruciating BOOM, BOOM, BOOM and it goes to my head. I also feel my blood boiling inside. I always suffer in agony as long as I can bear. But there's one time when it goes on too long and I did call the cops. The cops did manage to get them tone down the volume. But it went on again on other nights. How I wish I had some kind of remote control gadget that I can channel the loud sound waves to just CRASH their whole sound system. Or even a remote gadget that I can just switch their sound system off anytime they put it on loud. But now, after being diagnose with depression, I have been on antidepressants and it helps me to be able to bear with this kind of insensitiveness better. Sorry, I can't offer any help to counter this problem. Just to let you know that you are not nuts. You are not alone in reacting this way. How I wish people can be more sensitive to others when they choose to enjoy their music by not turning up the volume to excruciating level. It's madness. I think you have no choice but to use your ear-plugs since you have them. Unless, you want to pick up a heated argument with your neighbours like I did. But that still did not solve the problem. "Meanwhile try to invent a gadget that can channel back the extreme sound waves to crash their sound system. I'll be your first customer to purchase that gadget from you". Wish you All The Best, Depwill
Anxiety is ruining my life, and therapy doesn't work. What should I do?
I'm sorry you're having trouble. Anxiety is miserable.It might be worth going to your regular medical practitioner and telling her/him what you have outlined above. Give them a chance to rule out other things that can cause these symptoms, like thyroid issues, etc.Also are you using other substances? Sometimes when we use and/or abuse substances, it can actually cause mental health symptoms. YMMV. If yes, bring this up with your physician, too.Without medication and therapy, it can be hard to power through anxiety. But I believe it's possible.Anxiety often ignites our nervous system and our body reacts as though we are truly in danger. Sweats, tingling, GI trouble, ears buzzing…you get the drift - all fight, flight, or freeze responses. We then become panicky about our anxiety symptoms so it becomes a vicious circle.With this in mind, work on learning strategies to calm your body down. “4–7–8” breathing is particularly effective in stimulating your vagus nerve:exhale completely through your mouthClose your mouth and inhale quietly through your nose for count of four.hold breath for count of sevenexhale through you mouth for a count of eight. Try blow out all your air.do three sets of this. Keep practicing. The first 10 times, it might feel ineffective. Keep at it. Every time you practice, you are helping your brain make connections. Very important.There’s lots of other breathing exercises, as well as mindfulness and guided meditations easily found with a google search or browsing through podcasts. Listen to the song (?) Weightless” by Marconi Union on YouTube. I’ve found that it is very helpful for my clients, as well as myself, in calming down. You can also buy it on iTunes. (By the way, I’m not associated in any way with Marconi Union.)I highly recommend buying an oximeter and seeing if you can bring down your pulse just by doing these exercises. It's kinda cool when you find out that you can learn to gain control of your body’s reactions rather that it controlling you!Best of luck to you.