Can a person feel happy and sad at the same time, or are these feelings mutually exclusive?
Earlier, when I used to write a funny answer, the upvotes to views ratio used to be 1:10 (10%) or more.Now, when I write any funny answer, the ratio reaches very low.I am happy because Quorans have now understood that Humor isn't as appealing as Knowledge. Knowledgeable answers should get the deserved upvotes, which is more than 10%. Humorous answers are destroying the purity of Quora. Also, many of those users, who had followed me for my humourous answers have either unfollowed or stopped acknowledging my answers.I am sad because, Boriya bistar baandne ka time aa gaya. (It's time to leave)Just then,“Stop this bullshit,” someone says from behind.Me: Who the hell are you?“Reality”Me: What?Reality: You're saying all this to cover up the fall in your humor and creative content. Right?Me: *embarrassed* Someone take the mic from this guy.Reality: .. Earlier when you used to write good content, it got the deserved upvotes ratio. Accept your mistakes, and start giving the content your followers expect from you..Me: *Takes out gun* Stop this lecture or I'll shoot!Reality: And Humourous answers are destroying the purity of Quora? Your whole Quora career is standing on this Humor thing and you only, are using such sentences? Shame on you!Humour: Et tu, Namit? (Namit, even you?)Me: *angrily* Enough! Hindu or Muslim?Reality: Hindu! Why do you ask?*Shoots Reality**Reality dies**Cremates the dead body and leaves for Haridwar**Immerse ashes in the Ganga**Reaches back home**Reality is standing in front of me”Me: …….Reality: You can't get away from the reality!
Why do i always feel happy and then randomly sad?
It looks to me like you have low self esteem, which you have become quite proficient at hiding from others and putting on a smile, even if you don't feel like it. Try making a list about yourself- everything you're good at, something you like about yourself. I know it will be hard, but if nothing else, try to add one extra thing on to it each day. Then, when you have a list and you're feeling bad, read through it. Otherwise, resolve that you will do one nice thing for someone else each day (could be something little like holding open a door) but don't tell anyone about the nice thing you have done. Go sit out in the sunshine for ten minutes as the body produces serotonin (lifts your mood, makes you feel happy ) and do nothing, just relax. If you feel you can, go talk to a teacher or someone you trust about how you feel. They may be more able to direct you to solutions. Good Luck JL XX
Sometimes I get this weird sad feeling
Maybe you know there is MUCH MORE to life than you really think. You could just be bored with your current circumstances, and deep down you want MORE out of life. Since you (used to use) drugs you most likely experienced more than most people, and now you WANT REALITY. Like you don't want to settle for less. Your DREAMS are trying to express themselves. I don't think you're depressed at all. Keep dreaming. :) I'd have to know more though to help you more. :)
Why do happy memories make you sad?
For me when the memories are gone I wish I could have those moments again or experience that feeling one more time so that is why mixed with those happy memories there is some sadness. I remember so many times I shared with my father, and now that he's gone. They are still happy memories, but also sad cause I won't have any more memories like that with him, and those times were for special for me.
Why does it feel I have to drink to be happy?
I just recently started drinking and the past few weeks it feels like I am only happiest when I am drunk. But the problem is I have no self control and usually get absolutely smashed. Every time I look at the vodka bottle, I feel guilty but at the same time I want to drink it. Is this normal? What is wrong with me?
Which is harder: Being happy or sad?
I stole this question, because I didn't like the lame answers some people were giving ( I think they were Emo teenyboppers). Anyway, is it harder for you to keep going with a sad mood you are in, or keep up the happy mood you are in. Personally I find it harder to stay sad. Once I get around other people and they are talking or laughing, it just pulls me out of it. If I want to stay sad, I really have to concentrate on it, and it takes to much energy.
Why do I get sad and hopeless when I see happy couples and people hanging out together?
The simple reason here is that you envy them, because, maybe you have some problems in your own relationships, or you simply don't have them. You see those couples and start comparing them to yourself, that’s a bad idea.A lot of personal worries and disappointments begin from making comparisons with others. And you’re destined to lose that challenge because of one major reason. You know all about yourself, your bad and good sides, your fortunes and misfortunes etc. BUT YOU KNOW ALMOST NOTHING ABOUT THEM. That makes you lose and feel disappointed. You see only the good side of these couple’s relationships, but you know nothing about the darkest sides of their bond. Who knows, maybe, if you knew that, you’d be very surprised and think otherwise…And that is why social networks, such as Facebook, have a bad impact on the people who are apt to make such groundless comparisons with others. Few people will post bad moments of their lives on their accounts, most of them usually try to show others how beautiful their life is, that’s why these “others” will see only one side of the coin and most probably get upset by that matching.Another thing is that you don’t look for positive sides of your life, I’m sure there are lots of them, you just pay more attention to negative aspects, rather than positive ones and these negative things get a lot more meaning in your mind, so that you stick to them automatically and your vision is overshadowed by that. Try to “reprogram” your mind into positive thinking, it’s not an easy thing to do, but if you do that again and again - finally you'll come to that, no doubt, it’s just the matter of habit, once you’d trained yourself to think about bad things just like that, so it works… Let work vice versa.Hope that you’ll find it usefulGood luck