Why do exes initiate contact after months of silence?
The ex that makes contact after months of silence misses you. They want to know that you are still a part of their life- albeit in a very limited capacity. People contact their exes because they need to know that someone they once cared about very deeply is doing good.Here is a huge surprise to many and a disappointment to most, just because your ex contacted you; it does not mean they want you back! People reach out for many reasons- nostalgia, loneliness, drunk, just got dumped. They are reaching out to have you tell them how much you miss them in these moments for a quick lift me up. Yes, it is all about THEM and yes people are that shallow.Your ex has no intention of getting back with you, they want to get back to you making them feel good about themselves without all that commitment shit that screwed up the relationship the first time. They are using you to bridge the gap in the peak and flow of life.Exes reach out, stay in contact for a few months then drift away again. They will do this over and over again until they find a new person that gives them their much needed ego boost. You are just a pawn in their chess game. Expendable and safe to risk.I know many will argue that this is incorrect because there are lots of instances where people get back together after months. It is true, but for that to happen, someone has changed. The initial contact was not to get back together.If when they make contact, you are fundamentally a better person than when they left you, it is possible that they will become atttracted to you and want you back. If that is your goal, begin the process of bettering oneself the minute you break up and wait for that day they contact you and realize you are not the disposable pawn they thought you were.
Can i take plan b almost a month after?
Plan B is only effective up to 72 hours after sexual intercourse. If you had sex nearly a month ago, a pregnancy test would be able to tell you accurately if you are pregnant or not. If not, I would highly recommend carrying a condom with you in your purse. If you are, you will have a difficult decision to make regarding whether or not to continue the pregnancy. Either way, you need to go to the doctor and get checked for STDs. Good luck, and I hope that everything works out for you.
When was the last time you were drunk?
May, 2015 — The bottles emptied without any effect on me (with a reason)It was the last day of my college as the B.Tech. program of four years came to an end. My friends decided to get high. I never used to get drunk so I was compelled by to do try it with them for once to which I said, YES.The same day we bought this :Yes, the Antiquity (whisky). Exactly these two bottles depicted in the image above.We were seven guys and the first peg went for me as I was drinking for the first time.The second peg went for our college life and its ending. And this went on.It was quite good as 3 friends out of 7 lost their senses and these things happened. The first one started vomiting and he was out.The second one started singing in his own way some old song.The third one came near to me, hugged me and said “Bhai(brother) I Love you. You loved your girlfriend a lot, whole college knows that. But she is not a good girl, be intelligent please. Try to understand me, she is not serious for you. Leave her and lead a happy life.”I was smiling and hugged him with brotherhood.I smiled because, they didn’t know I already broke up with her months back.I smiled because the reason for my break up was she cheating on me and not being serious for me.I thought that yes love is really blind as apart from me everybody knew that she was not serious for me and didn’t love me. Except me everybody knew she was not the right girl for me.I smiled at my self (crying inside)I had two more pegs after that and left. :’)My friends were surprised seeing me in my full senses after 8 pegs of Antiquity. They asked me ‘HOW ?’ I was not able to explain them that whether it be alcohol but nothing takes over you when you are damn broken from inside.
Can I take anxiety medication after drinking beer?
So I am taking three different type of medications for anxiety/depression/nightmares. I have only been taking them for about 6 months. Since Halloween is my favorite holiday I decided to buy a couple of beers at the grocery store so that I could try and see if I like them. I obviously know that I cannot drink alcohol and take the medication at the same time. But would it be okay to take the medication several hours after I drink the beer? I am not sure I will like the beer, but if I do, I only plan on drinking one bottle maximum.
If I take Plan B 45 minutes after unprotected sex what are my chances of becoming pregnant?
hahaha! Glad u found time! Ur VERY unlikely to be pregnant if u took it that soon. Slim to none.
My ex narcissist is getting married a month after giving me silent treatment. How did this happen?
I can explain that! A true narcissist suffers from Reactive Attachment Disorder. This is a disorder where they never securely attached to a primary caregiver in the first 18 months of life. Therefore, they can not securely attach to anyone. EVER. I’ve seen students with RAD many times in the inner city schools where I teach. I have just gotten out of a 16 year relationship with a narcissist. I’ve seen how children and adults react in different situations due to this disorder.During the silent treatment they are mad about whatever perceived injustice you have given them. The silent treatment is only part of the punishment. The other part is they are cheating. You see because they never bonded with a primary caregiver they have the lowest self esteem ever, they try to cover it up by acting super confident, but they are not. It is soul crushing to them anytime their feelings are hurt and to make themselves feel better they slide into bed with any body they can find. They crave skin to skin contact constantly due to their eternal mommy void when they weren’t held as an infant. They can never change and they can never ever quit cheating because no one can or will ever be able to fill their mommy void. You are better off knowing this now and you ex will cheat on the new supply as well.It’s not easy to deal with the loss but you are much better off dealing with it now and not later.Hugs!
He fingered me in my sleep. Should I confront him?
I've been seeing this guy for a month. Two weekends again ago we went out, and I got really, really drunk. I wasn't planning on getting drunk at all, so I only had two drinks, but he mixed them with red bull (which I wasn't aware of, and it really messed me up). He had to bring me back to his place, and I passed out on his couch. When I woke up, I couldn't remember anything - not even how I got there. But the next day, some details of the previous night came back to me.. I remember him fingering me in my sleep, I woke up to it once and he left after that and went to his room. I never brought it up to him though. We've never been intimate before, so I don't know how he could have assumed I'd be okay with that. We aren't talking anymore for other reasons, but I never confronted him for touching me in my sleep. Do you think I should? Or should I just drop the whole thing and continue on not speaking to him? Thanks to everyone in advance who answers my question.
My boyfriend ditched me and got drunk?
It was our 4th month yesterday and we were planning on hanging after his sisters big rugby game. (he invited me to come, but i slept in.) Then afterwards we were planning on hanging after we both have supper. And he ignored me for almost 3 hours.. and when he came back he told me he cant drive. & I was like why? And he told me he had a couple shots to celebrate his sisters victory. (there was family over celebrating too) and I got really upset and started crying because he didn't even bother to tell me beforehand the change of plans. He knows very well I don't like being around people when there drinking and Id deff feel uncomfortable around him when he is drinking. And plus his mom doesen't want me being around him when he is (being that Im not old enough too) But he still did it, even though he knew we wouldn't be able to hang. He asked if my dad could drive me over , and I said no because I'm not coming over. And he said it was a bad move on his part, and that he feels like a jerk... and it felt like our first fight except he wasn't fighting, I was angry, upset & disappointed at him. And after a little bit he was like I could prob come over now if you want... and I was like No , you were drinking.. are you crazy? And he was like well its prob gone now.. and I'm like even if it was only a little bit you still shouldn't drive at all. Plus I wasn't really ready to face him in person. :(