Is it okay for my mom to call me stupid retarded and more?
Okay so for many years my mom has been calling me names like stupid retarded dumb an idiot and many more including fat and I'm a 15 year old girl I've had depression since I was 11 because of these things when she found out she told my therapist and doctors that I was just looking for attention. Anyways for the past few days all she does is call me names and its really starting to hurt my feelings everytime she calls me stupid because I feel like the only person that's expected to like me doesn't so this morning I told her to stop and she told me to shut the f*** up or she'd hit me she also thinks I can't be depressed because she buys me things and says I have no reason to be upset ever because I have it better than a lot of people. I'm just wondering if its okay for her to keep doing these things
How do I get over my low tolerance of stupid people?
When I married the first time, I was 21. The first time I met my husband's mother, I was appalled. She knew every old wives' tale there was and believed them wholeheartedly (cats that steal babies' breath, joint snakes...the list goes on). Her only reading material was The National Enquirer, and she had never been out of our Midwestern state, and never more than a few hundred miles from home.She didn't like or trust me because I was intelligent and college educated. I thought she was a backwoods hick.And yet -- over the years we came to respect each other. We spent quite a bit of time together after the kids came because I thought it was important they have good relationships with their grandparents, and my husband didn't care, so if they visited, it was up to me to take them.She'd listen to me when I played Snopes to her old wives' tales; I'd listen to her tell me about her time of being a single mom and opening a tiny diner to make enough money to get by, her kids' childhoods, and how to cook. We actually came to enjoy each other's company despite having very little in common.When her son (my husband) turned out to be a complete and total jerk, she took my side and told me that I could divorce him, but I was stuck with her -- and we became "out-laws" instead of "in-laws". She's been gone for many years now, but I still miss her.What I'm telling you here is that it's not about the intelligence, it's about the heart of someone. Your life will be considerably poorer if you cut people out of it because they're not "smart enough". I don't know how you change except by being open to people who mean well. Maybe you can start by considering yourself a mentor to the world at large. I think you will be surprised at what you yourself will learn in the process.
This is crazy! Do I have Mastoiditis or not! My doctor is dumb!!?
Ok Since the end of June, I found a bump behind me ear in the mastoid area. It was very sore and if my glasses touched it, the bump would hurt like crazy. I took a CT Scan and the doctor said that they could only see soft tissue except the bump is extremely hard!! It doesn't hurt anymore but the bump is very big. And then, two days ago I found another bump that is on the lower side of the back of my head and now that hurts a lot. I am afraid that if it is Mastoiditis, it is spreading to the brain. But is it??? Thanks so much I'm worried sick :( I can't sleep. Thanks
Am I too dumb to be a doctor?
I want to be a Doctor really bad, but sometimes I don't think I will get there because I'm not smart enough. I'm a good student ( currently in high school), didn't play any sports or anything and took all the health science classes for all available year. As you know there is a difference between intelligence and knowledge, and I'm not good with intelligence. When I try hard math problems or physics problems I get frustrated and cry because I can't solve them and the word "dumba$$" bounces all over my mind, I know the material just can't apply it. I get very frustrated because I am willing to learn and try but I can't become smarter because it's a genetic thing. :(
Getting blood taken tomorrow, worried for dumb reasons of what i might have?
ima hyopchondriac, I have 2 tiny bumps in the side of my neck (roughly the size of a pea) and they are lymph nodes, but at the size they are i think they arent considered enlarged. Anyways, i can feel them and my doctor told me 2 and a half weeks to 3 weeks ago that its nothing serious since A) they dont hurt B) they move around easy C) they are soft and D) they arent big. Well i hav ebeen worying constantly if i have HIV/HepatitisC since i used to mtsurbate a few years ago when i was first hitting puberty in a few public places (classrooms/bathroom at a local fitness center a few times) and i wondered if i touched something.After telling her about the bathrooms she said she wouldnt really recomend blood tests but if i wanted to put my mind at ease to get them. Well now im worrying about what if my tests are positive or false positives or something and im afraid they will have to take a ton of vials of blood, is there really anything to fear and will it be easy to get the blood taken?
Can i sue my teacher?
ahhh, mate, your teacher sounds really bad, she should not even be teaching, or even be in a caring profession such a s a nurse. There is no way on earth you have to put up with that, it must be awful for you, im really sorry to hear that. It makes me angry actually. I hope this witch doesnt put u off achieving your goal as being a nurse, its such a respected profession and i admire you for it, but please dont let her bring you down. Keep your chin up. As for sueing her, im not sure? im no lawyer, but i just had to answer this question cos I feel for you. Im not sure being a rubbish teacher is against the Law, i mean, for all i know you probably can sue her. But i think what you need to do is report her to someone superior than her? Like a doctor or a manager above her? And what might be a good idea is talk to the other student nurse's, ask them if they feel the same as you, if they are getting abused too. Then you all can collectively put forward a credible complaint against her. Im sorry, im not really into Law, so i wouldnt really know how to advise you on the legal aspect. But please keep your chin up, and i hope you do well in your career, and dont let some witch get you down