What is that thing people forget in life?
In the present world where everyone is running in the race for success, where people are more into materialism, where everyone just tries to be better than someone and not themselves etc etc .People are forgetting :To smile back if someone smiles seeing them.To actually accept that beauty fades away what remains is a pretty soul.To notice the happiness of a poor kid when he gets a toffee from his dad.To remember the good past and contact people with whom they have been in some stage of life.To understand that success is not defeating someone else but actually to be better that what they were yesterday.To respect,love and care their parents.Who have given them sound sleep while they were asleep.To be original and not try to copy someone.To have confidence in themselves.To have faith in God and believe that whatever happens happens for good!Because gone are the days when kids used to talk to each other on the ground discussing what to play next, when a family used to have dinner smiling and laughing while a family member used to imitate the actions of other,when a brother used to trouble his sister and finally get scolded from their mother etc etc.*I wish we could turn back time to the good old days when humans were Humans!*
How often do people usually reflect on their life?
And at what ages is it more common? I'm curious about this as I never really started to reflect on my life till 2 years ago when I was 22 years old and my grandma died, ever since then I've done a lot of reflecting on all area's of my life and have had a lot of personal development along with these last 2 years. I wonder how many people do reflect on life? Does everyone reflect on all aspects of their life and see if they can find areas they can work on getting better? Or is ignorance bliss where they just like to keep things as they are?
What are the lessons people most often learn too late in life?
1. Never judge any person by his/her looks. Never judge a book by its cover, so stop being judgemental about others.Example : Ex-Miss World & Miss India Manushi Chillar2. Work on Self Improvement more than entertainment. That’s why Quora is much better than facebook.3) If a person wants to stand by their self then let them because there is nothing wrong in doing by their self.4) Nobody will come to pick you up in your bad times except your family . Hence, value them .5) Love is a second thing ,First learn to respect your lover.6)Stop wasting time on a person who doesn’t deserve your attention.7) Showing respect to helpers & waiters would not degrade your position.8) Our words might kill someone ,We should think twice before using them.Choose it wisely.9) Intelligence beats size.10) We should never give up because sometime great things take time to happen.LEARN FROM YOUR FAILURES. No one is perfect in life. We all makes mistakes, but person who learns from their mistakes or failures are the one who creates history.11) Physical fitness is important. It affects your intellect, mood, and relationship to others. Go to bed early. Wake up early. Sleep well. Eat well. Stay fit. Exercise Regularly. You only get one body, so don’t neglect it.12) Drinking alcohol and doing drugs or smoking cigarettes will at last get you to the death bed at an early age. Its looking stylist to other but actually it is a classy way to commit suicide. Avoid them.13) Developing skills will get you to a reputed post and that in turn will earn you a decent amount of money as well as respect. So start working hard on your dreams. Person or life can cheat you but your skills can’t cheat you in your life even in bad time also.14) You never know when you will become famous due to your efforts on something , So keep on trying. Don’t give up.Never lose hope. No one knows about destiny. Best example : Richest man on the earth right now Jeff Bezos (Amazon’s CEO)15) Challenge yourself each day,each week and improve your willpower, productivity of work and self-control! Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.Hope you liked my answer :)but I want to hear your opinion. Please share in comments below.Thanks & Regards by,Chirag Dhanesha(Developer of Best 999+ Psychology Facts For Life Hacks - Apps on Google Play)If you liked my answer then check my above application to support me & get daily life psychology solution in one place.Credits : Google Images & Pinterest
What are seven lessons that people often learn too late in life?
“Close relations” is a very narrow term, almost as thin as a tip of a needle, most people are strangers, they will come and go, and sometimes even bite before leaving.You can't assume success, however intelligent, hardworking, honest, updated you are, keeping expectations is like dreaming with open eyes.You, your parents, spouse, all belongings, nothing is immortal, you need to learn the art of letting go however attached you are, or you will be stuck in life for long periods.Pleasure is not a source of happiness, it forms habits, habits give birth to addictions, and addictions become necessities. Happiness does not have a source, it exists in nothingness.A 100 books can't teach you the value added through experience, working is much better than sitting idle even if you are not satisfied right now.Life is a collection of moments, a moment wasted is a life killed, it can't be brought back from the hands of destiny. Don't only live for future.Sometimes quitting today is the best way to come back stronger tomorrow. Don't think what people will think, think what's best for you today.
Why do good things happens to those people considered bad people in life and bad things happens to those people considered good life?
There is a concept of Karma that reassures us that people get what they deserve.Karma may be a bitch, but she’s not your bitch. You don’t get to sit in judgement and hand out punishments, no matter how justified you feel.I can tell you that one of the most powerful lessons I have learned in this life is to let go of the concept of justice.Life’s not fair. Never has been, never will be. We try to instill a sense of fairness in our children because it we want to raise humans who are kind and honest and treat others well, but we set an expectation of fairness that you won’t find in the real world.Your birth was unfair. We don’t get equal potential at birth- some are born into money, some are born into love, some are born into safety. Some are beautiful, some are smart. At the time you first draw breath, your life is not fair- it may be better than most or worse than most.“Bad” people often use their unfairly received blessings to further their own agenda, because that’s what they do. It looks like they get all the breaks while the good people have misfortune after misfortune…Being good may be it’s own reward but if you expect life to reward your goodness, you will be sadly disappointed.People make their own luck, their own opportunities. Sure, there are a million factors in your life that you don’t have direct control over, but people who take control of everything they can do better than those who sit back and wait for Karma to reward them. She’s busy.When you stop worrying about other people receiving the justice you think they deserve and focusing on your own life, you remove a whole layer of stress that is completely unproductive. You don’t know what’s happening in other people’s lives. Things that often look good are in fact, not.If you really want a more detailed answer, check out When Bad Things Happen to Good People:
What do you expect from life?
‘What do we expect from my life', well frankly speaking it's kind of a hard question to answer on behalf of everyone. So I'll answer to the question:- 'What do I expect from my life'. It's not that I don't want my life to fall into right path and lead me to a beautiful future, well like almost every other sane person on this earth even I want that. What I don't and what I do expect from my life:-I don't expect my life to be always perfect and fall into the right path rather I expect taking wrong turns sometimes, making mistakes, learning at the same time.I don't expect to have a perfect life story to tell my children. Rather I want them to know how foolish I have sometimes been just like anyone.I don't expect to have a love at first sight or happily ever after. I just want to know the feeling of being ditched and ditching someone.I don't expect a life with me walking on rose petals. I want a life where I stumble, fall, bruise myself but then stand up and start walking again. I don't want to give up.I want a rollercoaster life, with each situation making me more strong and immune to the feeling of dizziness.But then I am expecting a lot ain't I. Well it's life we are talking about.
Do attractive people have an easier life?
Easier life, no! It does open the door much easier, but you still need the confidence to enter the room. I would choose attractive and poor, why? because I know I can enter the room and I am ready to work hard to get there. And drive is something you cannot buy
What behaviour and ideas often stand between people and happiness?
Limiting beliefs.People can always be happy if they realize that they self-sabotage their happiness by playing victim. The ego loves to play victim because it grows in importance when others are concerned about it.To understand by analogy, happiness is omnipresent like the deep calm ocean. It is the ego which forms when the ocean comes in contact with the earth. Waves form to victimize the earth and get victimized themselves. There is a serious battle of energies. But in its essence, the wave is the ocean - once pulled away from the distraction of the earth.Hence, do not believe you are a wave. Believe you are the ocean. Respond accordingly. And step into Limitless Living !!