Why do we say hurtful mean nasty things to the ones we love the most when we are angry?
Personally, I think we do it moreso to those we love because we know without a doubt that they love us and we feel safe with them and we know they aren't going to leave us or abandon us. But just always remember you can't take back hurtful things you say. People can forgive but they can't always forget.
What are the best things to tell my loved ones before I die?
Always listen n follow your heart.Never compromise with your principles.Be fearless. Life is too short.Be spontaneous. Never hold any grudges against anyone. YOLO.If you prepare to take revenge make sure to dig two graves. one for yourself.Your parents love you the most. Never leave your family.Your life is very precious. take care of yourself.You dont know how beautiful you are.I will always love you.God is omnipresent.
If you could leave a message to loved ones after you die. What would you write?
This question scares me because it gives me the impression that you are asking for advice. I hope I am not.I would just say.. Do whatever you want in life, make your life the perfect life for you. Not for anybody else, for you. When you are lucky, you live another couple of decades. Face the fact that you will die some time and that, in the end, it does not really matter how you fill it. Act uppon dreams, act uppon passions. Don't get trapped in social conditioning and never, ever, ever believe that a problem can't be overcome. Ever. Search for prove of that statement. Life is now, life is present. Be yourself at all times, but be not afraid to change 'who you are'. Don't get trapped in your ego. Enjoy the small things in life, those are the things where most people look back on when they are dying or old. They look back at the things that made them happy, so, it does not make sense to do anything that does not make you happy. Enjoy life. Enjoy every bit of it. Don't become a person of regret, become a person people take as an example. Not because what you have achieved, or what you have done, or even who you are.. More, because, you where you, and you where all you. Be an example that you can be who you are. Ignore the nay-sayers. Ignore the negative people. Ignore the noise. Just be, be who you are and live the way you are.
What does never leave the one you love for the one you like mean?
Love and lust are NOT the same, so what it means is stick with what you love, not what you desire. The real difference between love and lust is time. Lust is the fluttery butterflies in the stomach, the counting down of hours until you can see that person again, the waiting by the phone. All of the excitement of someone new in your life. But eventually, lust always dies. You get to know the person and it's not new anymore. But if you're lucky, those feelings get replaced by love. Love is knowing the person in and out and still adoring them for it. Love is knowing that other person isn't perfect, but still being ok with having them around. Love is knowing that person will be there for you always, and you will always be there for them. So never leaving the one you love for the one you like means choosing a solid foundation that will last forever, instead of choosing the new crazy feelings that feel good, but WILL go away eventually...maybe he is talking about you? Did he leave you for another woman? Maybe he got wrapped up in new feelings for someone else but regrets leaving you because he really loved you?
What is the best way to say good bye to someone you love knowing that you may never see them again?
When my brother passed away, i said goodbye as they closed his casket
In a note you leave behind to loved ones when you choose to end it by suicide what can you say to make it as gentle and easy for them as possible?
There is no real easy way to answer that, depending on the situation. I personally am in favor of it, since I am more of a let a person decide their fate, and being a non religious person< i am going to render my thoughts. here we go:Tell them that it was something that was needed, and that even though you won’t be amongst the living anymore, that their live helped you be at ease with yourself, and feel at peace. Tell them that even though they grieve, it wasn’t their fault, and that they shouldn’t feel guilty, and that your leaving this earth was for peace with yourself, and you want them to move on, and are proud of them, and know they will do well in the future, and whenever they feel sad, that posthumously, you will be there for them in their time of need. Hope this helps.
Why do our loved ones leave without any reasons?
The one reason people don’t mention is sometimes some people are just lying cunts who enjoy the lust to use others for the loneliness in their life to feel something they don’t deserve (some people don’t deserve a boyfriend or a girlfriend). No one has the right to say they love you and blah blah balh to then just pack up and say goodbye to the circus. People seem to forget about the 2nd parties emotions and all. I think that it is very selfish to get with someone or love another and get intimate and romantically attached to then flee because the going gets tough it shows how much a true lie they were, a coward, a false pretender and a person you probably never want to re-consider even spitting on when set on fire but that’s just my opinion but in this day and age honestly it is normally the truth. See no reason why people cannot hold a job, explore, meet friends and do the things they love whilst romantically attached anything less is either an excuse or a fake person drop them out your life instantly or watch fake people walk all over you over and over again like a black hole never ending pit. It is controversial I know but it is true people are stuck up and selfish and want what’s best for them so I ask why do they even bring another person into their life if they’re going to ruins two lives instead of one? or bin them anyway? Can’t hurt a heart if you don’t have another but your own.
What to say to someone deploying?
Someone I know, more of an acquaintance than a friend, is about to leave for a tour of duty in Iraq. I would like to thank him for his service and wish him the best, but what is a good way to say it? I don't want to say good luck or best wishes...those sound a little too lighthearted for the occasion and I'm not too religious, so I feel awkward saying I'll be praying for him. Thanks!