What do men think about while doing it doggy style with their wife?
Let me start by saying this is more my issue than my husbands. I have a loving husband. But my ex husband cheated on me A lot for yrs raped me. I was sexually molested as a child. And after my divorce a man drugged my drink and raped me. I have lots of sexual issues and problems with my self esteem. Believe it or not my husband has really showed me not all guys are the same and just perverts. He does look in public not oogle which I can deal with its natural as long as he stays on a diet and doesnt eat or touch the menu. I think sometimes when we do it from behind he could be thinking of other prettier women or just different woman out of being bored with me. We have been married 8 yrs & have a good sex life. But my ex husband flat out told me he was bored at the 5 yr mark and went with another woman. My second husband tells me he isnt bored and could sleep with me forever. Sometimes I think he is nicer and may be lying because he loves me and has a concious. He's a christian too. He says it feels better is the reason he likes it and it does It goes deeper. So he could be telling the truth. But Im always secretly a little sad after when we do it this way. Do ALL men think about other women during doggy is that normal as a man? Or am I just paranoid because I had to deal with some perverted monsters in my life. I definitely dont want my husband to turn into one of those...PLEASE HELP & BE HONEST GUYS
Thinking about doing a military themed litter...?
How the heck do you own 2 tiger cubs legally? And you have 22 pythons...alright. You can name the litter whatever you'd like. Sure the names aren't that feminine, but it doesn't matter. The new owners can easily rename when they pick up their pups. My dogs breeder has 3 females and she generally names the pups with the same first letter as the mother until they go to their new homes. I had a rescued chi mix and the foster mom had named the pups Happy, Groovy, Love, and Peace. I renamed him on the way home and he never had a problem. Other breeders name the puppies by the color of the collar or nail polish they put on the pup, others give a number or some kind of identifying name to tell the pups apart. By the time they go to new homes at 8-12 weeks, the dogs have barely had the chance to have been called by their breeder-given name enough to know that is "their" name. EDIT: I wasn't judging. I honestly wanted to know. It is near impossible where I live to get a permit to own a hedgehog, much less a tiger.
What should I think when doing Yoga?
A goal of Yoga is to presence yourself. To be right here, right now.For some people, to aid in “presenc-ing” focus on the asana (the shape, the pose). This is not the only way but it is one the easiest to learn quickly for most people.Typically, I would start on a floor pose Balasana or if Virasana (child or hero’s). In child’s pose presence yourself in “child”. Are you thinking or your children (future or current) or are you thinking of you child hood - or are you thinking of a child you know - or maybe you are thinking of someone who reminds you of a child. Think about child - what does it mean to you - what reaction to you have - react - but let that reaction pass. Breath. Go deeper in child pose in form and in you mind - explore how does it feel emotionally - how does it feel physically?I teach a mindful flow class - there are so many different things to focus on during you practice - but the key to all of the thoughts are being “here now”. Breath is also an easy headspace to learn as in well-liked emotions - such as gratitude.It depends on what you want to do - it is your practice.
How stop thinking bad thoughts about people that I don't like and let it go?
Disclaimer: I have no credentials whatsoever as a mental healthcare provider.Writing a Journal helps me. When I have a dark thought that I keep churning on, I write it down.. some how that gets it out of my system.For the negative pages of the journal, I find it best to destroy them, or if I need to keep them put them on a not-very accessible disk as an encrypted file.That way, you never go back and get those bad feelings in your head again.But, its best to not just write the bad stuff, also write the good stuff. Especially if you see something positive in a person you otherwise hate.Then keep these positive pages around when you need a pick me up.Another thing you can do is a little rational thinking. If you are convinced that Mr. X cut you off in traffic because he hates you and he’s an asshole and the world would be better… take a deep breath. Think about it.. Maybe he is late to pick up his kid, or his wife is ill, or he is distracted by a stressful situation. He’s not so bad, he’s just having a bad day… Convince yourself its one of those situations.If you really continue to have a problem with negativity and darkness there is 0 shame in getting help from someone who IS a mental healthcare professional.
I'm unhappy because I don't do anything but think about doing things. What is everyone DOING that brings you contentment? How did you stop thinking so much?
You’ve picked up on a big insight here: we can think and think and think, but it’s actually doing something that gives us energy, purpose and, yes, contentment.I learned about a simple exercise recently that I quite like:Draw a table with five columns - I like pen and paper, but you can do it in Word or Excel if you want to be modern ;-)Column 1: GOALSIn the first column, write down all those things that you’ve been thinking about. The big ideas, the small ideas, the ideas that make you excited and the ideas that make you scared. Write down as many or as few as you want.Column 2: TIMEWrite down how long you’ve been thinking about each idea. Chances are, these are not some random thoughts, new ones popping into your head every day, but things you’ve been thinking about more or less consistently for some time…Column 3: OBSTACLESLet’s get negative for a moment! What are the things that are blocking you from doing something about these ideas? What are you afraid of? What’s the worst-case scenario? What might be some of the beliefs that you hold that are preventing you from acting?Column 4: RESOURCESBringing it back to the positive, what are all the resources that you can draw on to support you in reaching your goal? These might include your personality strengths, skills from work, your personal or professional network, and so on.Column 5: ACTIONSHere’s where it gets exciting. Start breaking each big goal down into smaller tasks, working backwards to list everything you can think of that you would need to do in order to achieve the goal.Now to really get yourself into action, look at your list of actions, find one small step you can take today… and DO IT.You’ll be amazed by how empowering it is to do something, anything, however small, to get you on the path towards whatever it is you’re dreaming about. Once you get the ball rolling the momentum will build, as will your confidence.If you give it a go, let me know how you get on!
My parents think im doing drugs! and im not?
Maybe you all need to have a real serious talk in which you listen...and let them say what they feel....and you respond to them and say how you are FEELING I can totally understand how you feel when you feel accused of something that isn't even so.... So, I would try that...and I would also let them know that you would be willing to do what it takes to let them know that you are living a healthy lifestyle... If you feel like it is beyond talking, then maybe you need to write them a letter and let them know how you feel...that way you can totally express how you feel.... But, if none of that works, then you may need to look at focusing on continuing living a healthy lifestyle, but don't live it to prove anything to them...live it to prove it for yourself... They may never get it...they may never apologize...and you can't be looking for them to understand you forever.... I had the same thing happen to me when I was younger....and until this day, my parents still treat me like they should expect the worse... I have found that living my life healthy for me and my family is what is most important....I can make all of the best choices, but it is like my parents don't respect that position of my life...they always want more and more... But, I live my life NOW...to be the best I can be for me, my husband, and my kids.... I still haven't gotten an apology from my parents for how they hurt me when I was a kid...and still don't get one when they insult me now.... But, I love me because I do what is best for my life...I even pat myself of the back every now and then...God showed me that ....