How do I tell my boyfriend that he is hurting me by ignoring me and being condescending towards me?
I wouldn't worry about telling him that his lack of interest is hurtful. Obviously from his comments it doesn't matter to him whether you're hurt or not. Please do yourself a favor. Go in to a quiet room, take a long look in a mirror and find the person deep down inside you who already knows the answer to your question- and give her a big hug. You deserve a partner who tries to do everything he can to avoid hurting your feelings, who doesn't ever get tired of hearing your stories, and is just as excited as you are about what ever flips your switch. Don't turn a boyfriend like this guy into a long lasting partner. If he, as a BOYFRIEND, shows you this little regard, how do you think he'll be as a HUSBAND? What about as a FATHER? do you want your children coming home, excited as can be to tell him some wonderful thing that has happened to them that day, only to be greeted with "hurry up and get to the end/I don't know why you're so excited about this?" The point is that this guy is not going to change his spots. These type attributes are burned into who he is-and that's not changing. You deserve MORE. You deserve someone who loves you and allows you to love yourself through his eyes. Don't settle.
Why do some guys get angry when a girl ignores them?
Who cares if they do? You don't have to give any of you time and attention to anyone who disrespects you and speaks inappropriately. Where is it written that if a man talks to a woman, or that a woman talks to a man like a sexual object that the other has to give them attention? I've seen women say some sexually inappropriate things to men at the mall, and they get ignored too. The only people who enjoy being talked to like that are people who don't respect themselves and just want a one night stand. Seriously, what could could come out of a relationship with someone chasing after you with their pants down, and verbally insulting you in the process? Unwanted attention is unwanted attention period. You don't owe any strangers anything. ** And ignore the people saying that you should be glad that you're getting any attention at all. I'm sure those are the same people who "cry" and whine about girls only dating the "jerks". People should learn how to treat each other. Who would find " What's good sexy?" as an attractive approach? Come on now, have some common sense.
How to deal with (Sagittarius) man when he is angry/upset?
We are in a one month old relationship/friendship.he likes me a lot.He is out of town and yesterday night he called me up and was in a cranky mood and got upset over everything(normal things we generally speak of) said.he kept the phone wishing me good night but i knew there was something wrong.so i texted him and called him but he kept his phone off.I got angry and texted him telling i will never come in his way again cos i realize how much he hates me.he didn't reply.today morning i texted him again telling i missed him-which he wanted to hear me say for a long time-but still he hasn't replied.Why some men behave like this?Whenever there is a misunderstanding he only keeps silent how much ever i text him and next time when we talk he pretends as if nothing happened.How to deal with this type of behavior?How can i get him attached to me emotionally so that he opens up to me to tell me his feelings?
My guy friend makes sexual comments to me?
I have a guy friend who I met online and I've been friends with for almost 10 years. We are close friends and I tell him everything. But sometimes he gets horny and sends me texts which make me feel uncomfortable, especially when he's drunk. He apologizes later and says he only does it because I'm the only girl he talks to and says he will stop doing it but he never changes. I am really bothered by this because in the past a lot of the guys who I dated or were friends with have only wanted me for sex or made sexual comments towards me and it makes me feel like that's all guys want me for. I was so mad at him I sent him a very rude text, I know I should have been nicer but I have tried every way to tell him it bothers me and it hasn't worked. Do I have a right to be upset or am I overreacting?
Ever seen a taurus man angry? What was the reason behind it?
I agree with Now Now and Eric. My boyfriend is a Taurus. I've seen him angry over too many things to count. He can be pretty hot-headed and a lot of little things set him off. Though, it's never directed at me. I just have to give him space until he calms down. This is just a partial list: - Losing at a video game (x100, I've seen that so many times). - His brother making snarky comments. - The internet going out. - Being awakened too early. - He got angry and threw a fit when he was trying to build a bookshelf and he couldn't find a part. - Surprising him with anything in general. - Anyone ordering him around or trying to force him into doing something (by way of guilt or otherwise). I've only ever seen him cry once. That was right before we started going out. I had ignored his calls for two weeks. He was so hurt. He didn't bawl his eyes out or anything, and he tried to hide the fact that he was crying. He just kind of sniffed and was like "well, if that's the way you feel then I'll leave you alone." :( I felt awful, but I was really confused at the time. Luckily he forgave me and we've been together for 5 years. He's a good guy, he just gets a little blustery sometimes. :)
Is it right for me to choose to ignore my boyfriend for a few days? He said I have high standards. He told me, "You are ordinary and not outstanding, why are you so picky?" Hearing his words, I can't help being angry and crying.
The only time you should ignore somebody is if you still consider yourself a child. It's an immature childish trait and if you do consider yourself to have grown up, it's never something you reach for as a valid option. What mature people do is continue conversations when they don't get the information they were requesting initially. If you want to get understanding, you need to do more conversation not less. Less communication will never fix a problem. It just causes more problems. Why don't you ask your boyfriend why he thinks you're so picky in comparison to other people he's met?Also understand that due to options, most people of a certain level do basically become too picky. It's a possibility he's right. The closer and closer you keep getting to your ideal mate, the more and more you'll think that there's an 100% match for you.. but eventually you'll realize nobody's perfect, even the ones that appear to be perfect, and then you'll realize you probably mistreated somebody you should've probably appreciated in your journey for perfect Soul Mate that is okay with you ignoring them to fix relationship issues. Know the truth now and go relate to the person you're having a relationship with.. it's not really a relationship if you don't want to relate to him.
Will ignoring a guy make him come back to you?
Ignoring him wont make him come back to you. However if he really loves you he will realize his loss and try to resume the realtionship. It seems that this guy is very unsure of what he wants, so when its all said and done do you really want to waste your time with someone that does not know what they want in life. Save yourself the heartache and be emotionally ready for someone who is ready to love you the way that you need to be loved.