Crush trying to make me jealous! Help???!?
No, if you retaliate and try to make him jealous ... things won't play out to well. He could end up being even meaner and then he'll completely stop talking to you ... and begin to hate you. And no, you didn't annoy him. Guys aren't like that, if he was being nice to you (consistently, like a couple days a week), there's NOTHING you could've done to anger him enough to stop talking to you. The only thing that could've frustrated him is if ... you're a flirty girl ... and he might've noticed you being buddy buddy with another guy or guy(s). And that, that will kill a guy on the inside and fill him with jealousy. So, if that's the case, you should: Ask him what's wrong (nice thing) Or Tell him he's being a "douche", ask what his problem is Either way, you're acknowledging two things: You're aware of his treatment towards you, you're acknowledging the fact that he's acting differently and You care enough to ask, so he means something to you.
I'm confused now because he forgot my birthday!!??..Help!!!?
I've known this guy i like for more than a year now...i was cnvinced that he really liked me...but today was my birthday and he forgot even though his birthday is on the 19th of this month...like he does all this -he calls me beautiful -i have never seen his eyes wandering to another girl meaning like i know he's not crushing on anyone -he secretly made two movies of me from his ipod -he shares everything with me (we're best frnds) -he waits outside for me eveyday after school so we can talk cuz we don't have any classes together -he picks me up when he hugs me and he usually hugs me more than once at one meeting -he notices small changes in my mood and appearance -ppl think we're complete love birds lol seriously i'm not kidding lol -he asks and talks about me with ppl i know (not like gossiping and stuff) -he pays cloooosseee attention when i'm telling him about a problem -he offered to punch this guy who was acting like a jerk to me -he offered me his jacket -he offered me money at lunch to buy stuff even though i had money -he once said "i'll cry if you cry" -he said don't worry you're still smart to me and then hugged me when i didn't get into honors list and he did.. but now i'm thrown off cuz he totally forgot :((...he knew when it was like i told him before and btw we're really close and i'm not really mad or anything but i kinda expected him to remember...
Why do I keep blanking out?
Okay, for the last few days I've been blanking out and its getting really annoying. I have been sorta busy with presentations and getting ready to graduate from high school and from what I've read lack of sleep can cause this. I have been stressing but I've stressed before and this didn't happen. I'm just wondering what on earth is wrong with me. I keep getting yelled at by teachers and my friends because they will be talking to me or teaching and I don't answer because I'm not fully there.
Why do guys have that poker face or give the blank stare?
Funny enough I do this because I just feel so awkward when I stare at a girl for too long. I haven't found the perfect word to describe this expression of mine until now, the poker face. (thanks to you! :) )So let me get to the point, I do this poker stare because the girl I'm with is very beautiful, and if I keep smiling, I feel like my smile will look forced and awkward. I'm shy as well, is the guy you're talking to shy?I also hate to say this, but if the guy you're talking to is really shy, it'll be hard for him to express his feelings (visually of course)Don't know what else to say, but if you can say more about this guy, I can try to see how his mind works.But definitely his situation is similar to mine, I wouldn't be surprised if this girl I've been putting a "poker face" on, ends up being you lol.
A guy used to like me at my workplace. Suddenly, he started avoiding (totally ignoring) me without any reason. What does it mean? Will he talk to me again?
More than likely he has begun dating someone and is no longer interested in casually flirting, which is what I would presume lead you to believe he likes you in the first place. Hang back and don't be needy or fishing for attention. After all, you're supposed to be working, right?It's also possible that he was reprimanded by a superior due to your flirting. Most businesses have policies prohibiting that sort of thing (I'm not saying it doesn't still happen, but probably not the best idea).Lastly, if you've been keeping up with the recent influx in the media of stories related to sexual harassment ... need I say more? Think not.Whatever his motivation for ignoring you is, we may never fully know, and that's okay. Do your job, happily and cheerfully and try not to worry about it. Your value as a person is not defined by whether or not this guy (or anyone else for that matter) likes you or not. If he wishes contact with you he will find a way to chat with you preferably outside of work. In any case you need to continue to live your life and not stagnate.As for the question of him talking to you again in the future, that's impossible to predict. Hope this helps.
If a girl ignores you, can she still like you?
That Depends.If a girl is completely ignoring you and pays no attention to you then there is basically no way she likes you. Interest requires attention and if you aren’t relevant to a woman then you have no chance with her.Now if a girl ignores you from time to time then she may she have some interest in you. In the beginning of pursuing a woman she isn’t going to give you all of her attention because she may not want to seem easy.She may also have other options(as most girls do) and haven’t decided who she likes the most yet or you haven’t charmed her enough yet. If she is completely ignoring you then I would suggest that you move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea.If she is ignoring you from time to time then flirt with her and give her a reason to want to pay more attention to you. If she responds well to your flirting then ask her out on a date. Remember, if she likes you she is not going to give you all of her attention all the time and it’s needy if you expect that from her.The number one thing that will kill attraction for a woman is if a guy is needy. Also if you never talked to this girl and she ignores you, as the guy it is your job to take the initiative and start the conversation with her. Most women will not approach a guy even if they like him. Hope that helps.-Jacob
Why would a guy act like he has a crush on you one day, almost ignore you the next, and flip back and forth between those all the time?
In my opinion, when this happens, it is because of one reason or another.This person is playing games with you and is manipulative. They are screwing with your emotions and want some kind of reaction out of you. By being friendly one day and then ignoring you the next, you are left constantly wondering where you stand with this person, meaning that they are always on your mind. This is what they want.OR:This person has a crush on you and they have good intentions. However, because they aren't sure how you feel about them, their interactions with you are a bit all over the place. They might be a shy person and overthink things, especially if they like you. If they’re very friendly to you one day, they might worry that they've come across as too clingy or too desperate. So, the next day they completely back off (which you perceive as them ignoring you, even though they don't mean it).I admit that I have acted this way towards my crush - I'm a very shy person and never want to look too eager or keen if I have romantic feelings for someone. I’ve never intentionally ignored my crush, and if she has ever though this, the truth is that I've simply been too nervous to talk to her, or I've backed off and avoided her because I'm not sure how she feels about me. Pathetic of me, I know!So, ultimately, you need to observe the situation and reflect on the type of person you are dealing with. Reflect on their personality. Are they the type who play mind games? Are they looking for an ego-boost? Or, are they a genuine person with good intentions? If so, perhaps they do not at all mean to ignore you.
How should I act with a guy who keeps ignoring me, then he shows up again?
You are not confused, you have already told us the answer. You are frustrated. As you said, he is using you as a second option or backup plan. And as long as you keep letting him, he has no reason to change. Why should he? You always come running when he snaps his fingers, even after he’s ignored you for months.Should he be treating you like that? No. But you can’t control what he does, only what you do. So, stop letting him take advantage of you like that.I know why you’re doing it. You think if you keep showing him how committed you are to him, he’ll realize no one will love him like you can and he’ll fall in love with you and stay with you forever. I’m very sorry to tell you this, but not gonna happen.And the more you let him use/abuse you the way he’s doing, the less he will care for you because he will have no respect for you. You don’t even respect yourself. If you did, you wouldn’t keep going back to him.I cannot stress how strongly I agree with Abida Mian when she objects to one woman’s advice telling you how to “play the game.” Do not behave like that! It’s things like that that make guys think we’re all bitches. Don’t try to deceive. Anybody. This isn’t just about guys.You’ve got to think more of yourself. You are a valuable person and you have got to start seeing yourself that way. I know it’s hard – believe me!, I know that – but in the long run, it is the only way to be happy. Good luck.
What to say to your capricorn man while he is ignoring you.?
Listen dear, Your capricorn man is showing real capricorn characteristics with you. . So don't worry. . How do I know that ? ? Coz luckily am a Capricorn male too, and I know wat yu are saying. . Let me explain, capricorn men tend to ignore their spouses or their gf to test their loyalty towards them. They want to feel important, they want you to miss him. They constantly do these things to prove that they are strong and doesn't require your affection, BUT IN REALITY, things are just opposite. He is very weak inside and yearn for ur love. If he has professed his love to yu, then no matter how long he ignores yu but you are the only lady he wants to be with. . Another point, We May be the best husband material, best father nd best family man in the entire zodiac but we sometimes require time for ourselves. . Sometimes that means goin for a long drive alone, sometimes sleeping in another room. . Lol . . Why do we do it ? ? We don't know. . That's why capricorn is called as the sign of mystery. . So give ur man sometime, I bet, he would be back and behave as if nothing happened. . . Lol. . Cheers
He ignored my reply to his text. Then after 3 weeks he texted me as if nothing had happened, saying, "Hey, how are you?" Should I reply or ignore him?
Ha ha ha ..All girls are giving here the same advice that he might be chasing on an another girls or not into you.Girls you are wrong here from a Men’s point of view. I tell you what happens.We got a message and read it out but do not reply if we are in hurry because after all we are reverting to an opposite sex and therefore we always take some time to craft it and care that the sense of our revert must be come out correctly. Actuall We want to take out relationship forward not backward or a full stop.Note:We don’t think much in case of same gender.So we decide to reply to some time later and in mean time we forget due to some another given work. But once we found that I did not reply (may be after a day or two), we think that you will not entertain us due to our fault /time out/ and we left.after some days we get some confidence and contact you again to continue like nothing was happened but girls are smart, they pointed it out, and kick us back based on the perception they already made .That’s it.