What can I do about my depression I just what to vent to someone but it seems like nobody cares how can I talk to someone when I feel they probably won’t care?
Hi Dear Sir/Mam.This is another personal suggestion that I'll be giving off on the same question to a different person.I don't know whether it will be helpful to you but this is what I do when I have similar thoughts.Why do you think we document all the important information? Be it anything related to your account details or your transaction or an organizational information?Well,it is to assure clarified representation.Mind is nothing but a very different virtually created real world.A world in which we choose to live all by ourselves. Surprisingly unlike the actual physical world that we live in,this world is governed solely by ‘YOU'.Now here is your answer.When you feel nobody is listening or rather interested in listening to you,or in comprehending you by stepping into your shoes,it is again an interpretation and designing of a situation that your mind has created. In this case,create a hard copy of your emotions.Document them. It might sound silly to you at first but,write everything that you feel down in a clean sheet of paper or on a clear desktop screen. Now enlist what are your important goals or desires or aspirations in life.See whether what you feel at this moment in any way impacts your goals.Analyse your situation. What I mean more importantly is,LISTEN TO YOURSELF.Thoughts are a complex design of your life,make them simple.WRITE.I used to face similar problems when I was in my secondary school and lacked friends.(By this I mean I literally had none).That was the time I stared writing.And believe me,it works.Thanks for reading.Let me know if it helps.
Would you pay someone to listen to your problems and give you advise? Please see below for more details?
Ok, lets say, you had a problem, like in a relationship, friendship, family, etc. but the problem is not that big that you need to see a professional.You also, would not want to be going through formal counseling, more like, you are confused about something and don't know which direction to go? You also, kind of just need to vent but you dont really have people that you can talk to, or you dont feel comfortable telling your business to someone who you know, because of fear that they might judge you. So, you decide to ask advise. Do you think it is fair for the person who takes their time to listen to you, should at least charge you for their time? Lets say, like a dollar for a question? Or a dollar to hear you vent? This person does not necesarily need to be your friend, and does not need to be a counselor. But, do you think you would pay, if you did, would you pay it feeling grateful and thankful that this person took their time to listen to you, hear you vent?
What do you say after someone vents to you but is not looking for advice? I feel like saying nothing is rude but I don’t know what to say either.
Because of things that I have gone through in life so far, 9 times out of 10, I actually know where they are coming from. Which is why they come to me. I don’t judge, I don’t condemn, I don’t place blame, but I have a shoulder (keep it on the right one, the left one is bad) and an ear (but remind me to put my hearing aids in). This is the kind of person I am and they know, or soon learn, about my whacked out sense of humor and they learn that it comes from having dealt with whatever it is. So they know they can vent or cry or scream or whatever and nothing will faze me, I’ll still be there when they are done, they know I know when to insert some humor to offset the emotion, and when to just keep my mouth shut and just place a hand on their shoulder or knee and look them in the eyes when they are talking so I don’t have to say anything for them to know I am listening.But that takes a lot of grief throughout one’s life and I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. But, on the other hand, with my belief system (I’m a Born Again Believer) they know that I’ll pray for them without saying a word if I know that’s what they need and they also know that regardless of my belief system, as I stated above, I don’t judge. Just be there, look them in the eye (don’t stare, that’s rude :) ) so they know you’re “there” and not off thinking about something else. If you have people that are coming to you and venting, it’s because you are exuding something that tells them that it’s ok if they do. Even if they know you might not understand, it doesn’t matter. You listen. You acknowledge their emotion even if it’s just a nod or a shake of the head. Good listeners are hard to find. When you find one, keep them close.But try not to vent too many times especially about one subject. Because that tends to tell people that you really don’t care about what you are talking about, you just like to bitch. And even good listeners catch on to that and can only deal with it for so long.
I need to talk to someone but who?
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Sometimes I feel like I don't belong on earth?
Hi.. I'm 15... No this isn't a suicide my life is completely horrible rant. True my life is filled with hate and just nonsenseless things but then again I have to admit I had my good times.. It's just for the past while now I've been just gloomy, on the inside. If you seen me on a everyday you'd think I'm the happiest person ever. I always have a smile on my face. My teachers call me "happy baby, and 'my sweet friend'" yeah.. I don't know. I guess I'm a pretty cheerful person but that's really not how I feel. My inside feeling is just tired. Tired of this all around in my life. Jeez I can't even explain.. People say it gets better, when? I've been waiting and I can't really take much more of this.. It's not a mad feeling I want to go die its more of a ... I'm done. This probably sounds stupid but I have no real friends. I have no one I can always talk to when I'm down like there is no one. No one wants to be friends with me. I'm the friendliest girl in school, but I have no friends. I have no skills on how to get some (I can't stop being awkward). Everytime I try I end up messing up. I asked for a dog.. My mom called me all sorts of names and what not because I made her mad... So now she won't get me one. The main reason for me wanting a dog was a 'friend' someone you just have to hug on to when I'm at my lowest. I know its a responciblity but im willing to do that.. i just want Someone to just give me my last reason to keep swimming on... Maybe that's stupid I wanted a dog... As a friend. Either way shell never get me one. Oh well.. I just don't know. I'm gonna try to keep going even though I don't want to. Maybe it is some thing good waiting for me... I hope so soon. There is no question to answer, if you made it this far that you. I just felt as typing this like I had someone actually listen to me. It feels like a breath of air after being submerged in water for so long. Thanks...
Could my hamster have gone through the vents or in a wall?
He was in the bedroom at night and then in the morning... POOF! he was gone. I found sunflower seeds in the heating vent, but they were bigger than the ones I feed my hamster, but not by much. I shut the doors and everything, and then at night this weird thing happened: my two cats were sitting each on either side of a wall, for 20 minutes, staring at it. Like they were waiting for something to happen. I know my cats haven't eaten him, or else I would have found him dead. I made a hole in the wall they were looking at, but he wasn't there. I'm worried my hamster will die of dehydration and starvation.