Three Issues Related To Role Confusion That A Teacher May Feel Or May Communicate

I'm 24, a jobless mechanical engineering graduate. Am I a failure? Can I excel in life? Excel, for me, means building a house for my parents, living life like any other successful person, with a few more comforts than I have currently.

Here, I would like to share my experience.I am B.tech in Mechcanical engineering appeared in year 2017, in year back (2017), when I graduated, there was a bad financial condition at my home, my family was suffering with financial issues, and that was my final year of B tech, after that I was about to get a job was must for me, to not to support my financial conditions, as well as also to support my family by not asking money to them.In July, 2017 i get job in one Small scale industry was producer of Die plates by using VMC machines in Ludhiana, PB. I worked as operator, and did 12 hours x 6 days duty for rs. 6000/- p.m only.I was exausted, and left my job and returned back to home, now I was worried about my futire, and worryness about to supporty family. Now, I used to search jobs on internet, and started working online, started learning new stuffs on internet, and created a website to post new articles for engineers. But still I was jobless, I came to home from Ludhiana in September, 2017 and I was jobless till May,2018.After suffering and hearing many taunts from many sides, I started seeking source of earning, and I choosed to teach in Diploma engineering college as Lecturer, to continue my revision of engineering background, and I was started my job in May, 2018 for rs. 12000/- P.M.During working there, in August, 2018 I got interview call from India's leading mobile manufacturing Company OPPO Mobiles, for the position of assistant Production Engineer and I got that Job, with gud starting salary, which cannot be disclosed here.During this all, One thing was sparking inside me was Hope. Which keep me motivated.So, Don’t loose hope, You are an engineer, specially a mechanical engineer. A Mechanical engineer is a person who can be a Banker, Joins TCS, Can do any job, with perfection.All the best.

What is the difference between an educated and un-educated person?

An Educated person is an authority on several topics for discussion for example Politics, Science, Religion, Cultures, geography, Chemistry etc where as a uneducated person will have no opinions on Politics, Science, Religion, Cultures of people through the word etc because they will not have any knowledge on those topics. An educated person is prepared for life and the difficult challenges that come with it. Uneducated people are lost in their own little world unable to communicate with people because of their lack of knowledge. Unable to work, unable to use their mind productively for example creating inventions,being able to problem solve any problem given, will have knowledge on just about everything in life. Educated people are usually very happy sociable people where as uneducated people tend to be loners, unhappy, uncontent with their lives, unable to think properly or may have poor communication skills and a lack of vocabulary skills that is required to have an intellectual conversation.Many people who are uneducated usually rely on Government funding to survive. They waste their days and nights doing absolutely nothing with their lives maybe shooting up needles, watching tv or playing video games all day.They are usually miserable and they are unapproachable.They may live in broken down homes with hand me down clothing and furniture. The educated person will have a good paying job or a phenomenal Career. Educated people are highly intellect possessing excellent communication skills. They will have many friends and family members who care for them deeply. They may be the life of the party. Every day with them is a welcoming challenge for self improvement overcoming new obstacles in life the goal is to for them to be a better person than they were the day before. even more.Educated people can afford to go on trips and other outdoor activities like Camping, Fishing etc where as uneducated people can not.

What are some examples of ethical dilemmas?

I find that most ethical dilemmas boil down to boundaries: what is acceptable in the relationship.Touch, for example, many find all forms of touch to be unethical. Other counselors may be okay with just a hug. Still, others may be okay with holding as a reparative experience.Gifts, as another example. Some therapists will not accept gifts in any form. Others will accept gifts under a certain price range (their is a price named in the code of ethics, but I can't remember exactly what it is and which code it's from). Some will only accept gifts that are personally crafted and thus monetary value is more of a question mark (art, crocheted blankets, etc.).Outside contact is another one of those blurry ethical areas. Technically speaking outside contact is not forbidden by the code of ethics. In fact, the code suggests that it is acceptable when client and therapist are in different locations. However, when it comes to text and email this becomes a very personal choice because in the states HIPPA also enters the equation. Text and email aren't confidential unless special precautions are taken, so most counselors don't allow for this unless it is for scheduling and business purposes. Those who do allow more, I find, tend to find this less than sustainable unless they're in group practice and doing DBT (which calls for coaching).Dual relationships goes along well with outside contact. Apparently some therapists fear that allowing outside contact is a slippery slope that will lead to a dual relationship. Some dual relationships can't be avoided as another answerer has stated. In small communities where there may only be one counselor, it may be more unethical to deny the person your services.I think in all cases, it just boils down to, what's in the best interest of the client. What will cause them the least harm and do the most good? And being sure that the counselors own stuff doesn't get in the way of honestly answering that question.