Is it rude to say "You look tired"?
Yesterday morning I ran into this British guy living nextdoor, and said "Hey- You look tired. Early morning again?" And he said "Oh my God, please! Why are you so obsessed with my look? You'd better carry a mirror for yourself, dick!" And walked away. The thing is that I'd never say anything about his look before. Was I being too rude when I said he looked tired?
I'm tired of being told how ugly I look after losing weight?
I'm a 19 year old female, I'm 5ft and weigh 98lbs (normal). Ever since I started adderall for ADHD I lost weight without trying (due to lack of appetite.) I was never really concerned about my weight and was always fairly confident in the way that I looked. I'm vegan and I know the importance of getting enough protein, iron, and nutrients that your body needs. I visit the doctor regularly for checkups, my doctor just told me that my weight, my diet and my blood pressure are all normal and that my parents are freaking out for no reason. Ever since I lost 10 lbs everyone became obsessed with my weight, it seems like its all they talk about and I'm so tired of it. My mom had told me I look like a disgusting skeleton and my face looks horrible. ( She apologized recently, and told me that I look fine) . My aunt came over my house last week and the first thing she told me was " OMG you lost so much weight! It doesn't look good, you dont look healthy..are you stressed out? Is that it?" I started crying and went up to my room. My cousin came up to me today and said " You're so small, this isnt good. If someone wants to hold you they dont want to be holding bones, your husband wont want to hug bones. This isn't good you don't look good" I went in my car and started crying my eyes out. I'm so tired of hearing this, I'm tired of all my relatives and family members being so obsessed with the way I look. I'm trying to gain weight just so that everyone will leave me alone. I was even thinking about not taking adderall anymore but it has helped me so much in school and I've been getting such better grades, I've been feeling more confident in myself and happier overall due to the results I've been seeing. But everytime I look in the mirror now I can't help but think of all the hurtful things my parents, and family members have told me and it really makes me feel like I'm ugly and disgusting looking it has brought me down a lot ); I don't know what I'm asking, I guess I'm just venting. I just want to know if you think I should gain weight or what I should do? Any advice or input on this would help a lot Thank you so much in advance.
How can I stop my eyes from going cock eyed when I look a certain way?
Can you visibly see that your eyes aren’t aligned when looking in a mirror?You may have a strabismus.I was born with a severe strabismus in both eyes. That’s the fancy way of saying “cross-eyed”. Had I been born five years earlier, I would have been severely disabled. Instead, I merely deal with the inability to make eye contact with people when conditions are slightly off. For me, if there is a strong light coming from a certain angle, I can’t focus my eyes properly. They go “cock-eyed”. If someone I am talking to is just the right (wrong?) distance away, I can’t get my eyes to align properly. I also get eye fatigue very easily because it takes a tremendous amount of effort to keep my eyes working together.You should go see an optometrist. Surgery might be an option, and you may receive a referral to go see an ophthalmologist. I would not recommend surger unless it is absolutely necessary, but your doctor may know better. I’ve had four surgeries on my eyes. Those surgeries kept me from being disabled. They did not solve the problem, though.It might also be astigmatism, which is usually solvable through corrective lenses.
I told my girlfriend she looked fat in a dress?
That was her own fault. She basically just set herself up for heartbreak. I'm a girl and personally, I don't understand why girls/women ask guys questions like this. I would NEVER ask my boyfriend a question like that. Chances are, if you think you look fat, you probably do. God. It's not your fault she didn't get the answer she wanted.
Im 16, and im tired of being my older sister's slave and making me look like crap in front of my parents?
what ur thinking is anoying is probly wat your sister thinks is nothing or is just being helpfull example: she asked you to get the remote she probly figured your already up mine as well ask or wen she called you to get the strainer she was aperantly busy with the chicken *witch isnt exactly a dish you can just walk away from* and as for the laundry basket hey if its too heavy for her she should work out more and why blame her for haveing to wash the dishes your mom was the one who said to do them aperantly now as for her geting all up in your face about those things she probly believed that you were genuanly angry and probly thought she was just trying to teach you to be a beter person about the car wen you start driveing your probly gona be able to relate to her feelings about the speed also she takes you out for lunch and drives you around to your friends houses witch can be alot more anoying then wat she has you do especialy wen you consider the money u make her waste on gas also of course she doesnt lock the doors and the windows you apreantly make this a habit out of it and kissing your parents goodnight ........... im not gona judge but most ppl your age dont do that and defantly most ppl at her age dont do that and to be honest u seem to be a little bit overly dramatic and too emotional im pretty sure your blowing the whole thing out of proportion quote "her sausage fingers" "i hate her" "i wish she wasnt my sister" if someone said these things about youu how would youu feel
Is it rude to tell people they look tired?
I knew a Nigerian guy named Muwanika in college.He was the nicest guy in the world, I really liked him.My only problem with him was he told me I looked tired allllll the time.In America, if you tell a girl they look tired, most of them take it as you telling them they look bad, or they look worse than usual.Every time I’ve been told I looked tired was when I hadn’t worn makeup or hadn’t styled my hair as nice as usual. People basically were saying I didn’t look as good as I usually did.It’s insulting. There’s no reason to point out when someone’s looking worse than usual.So naturally, I told Muwanika it was rude when he said it enough times.Muwanika was shocked. He wasn’t trying to be rude.He said, “In Nigeria, telling someone you look tired is a compliment. It means you’ve been working hard.”So, the answer is, it depends on the country.In America, it’s rude. In Nigeria, it’s a compliment! In the rest of the world, who knows.
Should I change myself after being tired of being told who I am?
Getting tired of being said what you are implies that you have done no recent changes in your life and in doing so have become predictable. People love to talk about what they know and if you stay the same through all this time it’s obvious to them that you have specific reactions that repeat each other. After a time they start realizing that they can somewhat predict your next moove and that is why they start telling you what and who you are… That is the general picture of things.My opinion (there is no reason to believe me, you can iether accept or reject it):The best thing that you can do is start changing yourself in a direction that you think is positive for everybody. Expamle: Start sharing the things you love to do with others so that you can enlighten them more in to your world. That helps them see in you something new because you start sharing more of what you are. Also the things that will happen while sharing will be different enough to make you react in a different way and in doing so make you interesting and again - unexpected. At first the people around you might not see the new in you but after a period they will start realizing what you are doing and start thinking which will provoke their curiosity towards your.All in all it’s your choice how to go at it. I’m sure that there are better solutions to your question so go out there and experiment. I would be happy to know what you learn as that will allow me to see where I am wrong
When someone says you look tired?
Well put. I have a tendency though to be a straight shooter. I usually just come out and say "you look rough". Has someone said that to you lately? Wanna me to come rough them up?