Is there a way to rig my door so I know if my roommates entered or not?
I don't have a lock on my door and am leaving for the weekend...I'd put a lock on but we're moving next week anyway so it'd be pointless...is there some way to know if somebody entered? I was thinking putting something by the door but I'd end up moving it anyway when I came back...any ideas? Thanks!
I think my roommate put something in my shampoo?
tampering with things that people ingest is a FELONY Grow up! I think your hair is falling out b/c karma is catching up to you. Judging by your last question you are just not a very nice person, you should evaluate that
What kinds of fish are good roommates with betta fish?
Trust me- your betta fish isn't lonely. They are solitary pets by nature. But, if you really want him/her to have a fishy friend...What size tank is it in? If its in a: bowl- it shouldn't be in a bowl in the first place- bettas need at least 5 gallons, heated and filtered. 5 gallon- you could get a ghost shrimp, or a snail, or both 10 gallon & up- you cold get a couple ghost shrimp, an African dwarf frog, or- if you have a female betta, you could get 4 more and have a betta 'sorority' ( female bettas HAVE to be in groups of 5 or more). hope I helped(:
My male roommate gave me a foot rub, which caused me to have an erection - is this gay?
I'm a male in his early twenties and so is my roommate. We've been living together for a month or so and recently, ended up talking about massages that we received from our ex-girlfriends, and ones we gave them. (Both of us broke up in the past couple of months.) My roommate mentioned that he used to give her these awesome foot massages and asked if I wanted him to try it out on me. I laughed a bit, thinking it was a joke, but he was serious. He grabbed my feet and rubbed both feet through my socks, then took my socks off as well. I'll admit that it did feel really good and after about 10 minutes of this, I felt super relaxed. Even more embarrassing is that I got an erection during this and since I was wearing just white briefs, there was no way to hide it. My junk was really making a tent and my briefs were even getting a small wet spot on top. My roommate laughed and commented about how it looks like I'm really "comfortable" and loosening up, then when he saw the wet spot, he made a sarcastic remark about how he should have worn latex gloves. He then stopped the massage and walked out of the room, telling me to finish my business. Since then, he hasn't offered to rub my feet again and I of course didn't ask. I feel super embarrassed about this and I feel that this topic is the elephant in the room. Any suggestions on what I should do?
Does/did your pet ever leave something hidden for you to find?
This is Lucy. Lucy not only hides bones around the house, her favorite game is to harass me until I get up, follow her to the room where she has hidden the particular bone she would like me to find, wait for me to find it, chew on it for 5 minutes then go hide it somewhere else. Her favorite places to hide bones are in bags, piles of laundry, beds, and in the corners of couches/chairs. She often goes to great lengths to smooth the surrounding pillows or blankets back out and inspect them to be sure they look like nothing could possibly be hidden there.Lucy also occasionally becomes obsessed with whatever she thinks in on top of the liquor cabinet, or phantom objects in bags (ie there is nothing there but she insists I show her everything in the bag or on top of the cabinet). It can sometimes be hard to discern whether we are playing the ghost game or looking for an actual object, so the harassment can go on for some time if I don't find what she is looking for and I think that I’ve thoroughly searched the room she’s led me to.The ghost game sucks, but the look of obvious joy when I find a bone Lucy has led me to is absolutely adorable and well worth the potential for an hour of perturbed whining when we’re playing the ghost game.
How possible is it to have a female roommate who is never going to think that I am just trying to have sex with her?
It is entirely possible. In fact, there is an evolutionary/cultural hack to make it easy.Every human culture has some version of what anthropologists used to call the “incest taboo”—a class of blood relatedness between two people that makes marriage or a sexual relationship unacceptable. Many cultures have a more general taboo against relationships between people who are not blood relatives but are related by marriage or are just members of the same clan. And not only unacceptable, but unthinkable.You can use this to your advantage in this situation.You are proposing to share your living space with someone. Prepare food in the same kitchen. Probably share some bathroom facilities. You will sleep under the same roof. Trust is essential. Trust is a characteristic of a clan.So here’s your hack. Instead of thinking of this person as simply renting a room in the same house as you, think of them as joining with you to create a household, or clan. A kind of temporary family, because in a few months or years you will each likely move on. But while you are living under the same roof you are a clan. Your culture does not view members of your own clan as potential sexual partners. Period.Voila! You are using your brain wiring to assist you in doing the right thing.This is not a possibly-available neighbor who just moved into the living unit next door.She is your clan-sister.You respect each other’s boundaries and that’s what makes it possible for you to trust each other enough to live under the same roof and not have sex ever be an issue between you.By the way, she probably will think this is so obvious that it will be unnecessary to even mention it. In her mind, this is all given. Just so you know. Chances are she is miles ahead in the process of working all this out.EDIT: I just realized something, based on an exchange in the comments below. “Friendzone” is effectively a synonym for “clan” in the psychology of everyday life. A trustworthy friend who is not a potential date. This explains a few things, I think.
Is it better to add a new roommate on your lease, or create a roommate agreement?
It depends on how much responsibility you want upon yourself. Do you want your new roommate to be equally responsible for the apartment? Let your new roomie sign the lease. This way, if either of you guys need to move, one can stay on the lease. And if one of you break the lease and the other person can't afford it, the one moving out will be responsible for paying rent till he/she find a replacement or until the end of the lease. Personally, I've taken myself out of a lease with no penalty because I had 3 other roommates signed on the lease. But what if your roommate decides to leave last minute, can you afford the place by yourself? Then keep only yourself on the lease. You can have your new roomie sign an addendum and you guys can come up with a personal contract between you two about length of stay, rent prices, equal/unequal responsibilities of the apartment, etc. Have both of you sign it and keep it in case any bad things come up that contradicts the contract. I personally prefer this since I have a 2 br apt I can afford by myself.I had a roommate move in after half a year of living alone and never using the 2nd room. He signed an addendum and is on a month-to-month rental. He can up and leave whenever he wants and I can wait to get another roommate if I decide I want to. Or if I decide to have the place to myself, I can just ask him nicely if he can move out, make sure he finds a place and that's that. If he can't find a place right away, I could wait a couple months till he finds one.Good luck!
How to hide my baby bump? ?
I'm not really sure. I would say, don't change your clothing completely! Because going from normal size clothing to baggy clothes people will know whats up. Black shirts would be best and it's winter so you could pull off wearing cardigans, jackets, and coats all day in school. Open of course, not buttoned or zipped up. I wouldn't do a corset or anything because that could hurt your baby. I'm 14 weeks and a few days so I'm probably just a bit bigger than you, and most people that don't know me can't tell I'm pregnant but I'm not trying to hide it either. Also yoga pants their very comfortable and black ones you can wear with almost anything. Just raise the waistband up over your bump. Try to avoid belts that go under your boobs because that will make you show more. Buy a bigger purse and carry it with you at all times so people will focus more on that. Also, walking down the hallways I would carry my books over my chest and belly...other than that I don't know but you'll need prenatal care, and dont eat a bunch of sweets or soda because you'll put on more weight that way. Just eat helthy and do some of these things, you might make it a couple of months. Hide anything you buy for the baby and don't tell anyone because people love to talk. Good luck and I'm very glad your not choosing abortion. (: You'll be a good mommy!
If you inject steroids directly into your penis, will it get bigger or smaller?
i understand that steroids make your penis smaller, but they also improve muscle growth (i.e. the muscle tissure inside the penis) so would injecting steroids directly into the penis enlarge or shrink? P.S: i dont plan on tryin' this! this was a question out've curiousity!