Is love a curse ?????
Why is it that the guys i love are the ones that seem to leave , and the ones that i dont care about stick around ?? It's like once i fall in love they either leave me or we get torn apart some how ... why ?
My Heart has been torn apart and I can't move on, please help me?
I dated a girl for six months and I fell deeply in love with her. Everything was going great. She told me that she loved me and that she couldn't imagine being with anyone else. She had previously had numerous boyfriends while I did not have a ton of experience. I had my first kiss with this girl as well as many other first experiences that there is no need to graphically mention. I am eighteen years old if that helps anyone to answer this question. I was attacked and had every bone in my leg broken by a mutual friend. He was arrested for assault. I was in the hospital for five days. My girlfriend dumped me via text on the day of my surgery. She placed all of the blame on me and went on to insult everything about me. For weeks we stayed in touch but every time I mentioned our relationship she got angry and said she just wanted to be friends. I recently learned she found a new boyfriend three days after she dumped me! Her friends told me that she had mentioned that her summer would be boring with a guy with a broken leg so she just moved on. I can't believe my situation. Many have told me that she has used countless guys in the past but I don't want to believe that she cared that little about me. I really loved her and I am heartbroken. I am forced to remain on bedrest for a while due to my leg and I'm about two months into my recovery. Other girls have shown an interest in me but I keep rejecting them. I am devasted and I can't stop thinking about my ex. Every night I have nightmares about my ex and her new boyfriend as well as problems occuring with my leg. Where do I go from here? Everyone tells me I should be angry at my ex for abandoning me and being selfish but I love her. Now she won't even speak to me because I told her that I still loved her. Even though other girls are trying I'm convincing myself that my ex was perfect when I know that she was very far from that. My ex is 17, and told me that she had sex with at least 8 guys and that she once had an abortion. I had made peace with her past because I loved her but she couldn't even accept my broken leg. What should I do?
When I saw my brother cry, I felt like my heart was being torn apart. Why does it hurt us so much when we see our loved ones in pain?
Because you want to do everything to help them. You know you’ll do everything in your power to stop them feeling that way.But sometimes we can do nothing.There is nothing that can be done to ease someone’s pain.“It hurts to see your loved one in pain, but it hurts more to see you cannot do anything about this pain.” ― Namrata
I need major relationship help please, its tearing me apart.?
Ive been dating my boyfriend for a year now I love him with all my heart. He cheated on me in the beginning and lied to me betrayed me etc. But he hasn't done it since. Ive forgiven him for that and decided to move on. But now I can't help to think about it sometimes and when i do i become full or hurt and anger. You must realize I gave him my everything my virginity I gave myself fully to him and was faithful trusted him everything and I never gave that to anyone else. So now every single time something reminds me of it i become full of hurt and pain. I worry of the future. I worry about any girl that flirts with him. And i just cry and have become depressed. I used to be the happiest most bubbliest person and I feel as if Ive become someone Im not. Ive put a guard up and buried myself from certain people that I once loved. I want to find the happiness that I once had but i cant. I know hes been trying his hardest ever since to keep our relationship together but sometimes I feel as if a part of me still cant believe that he ever did it and that he still might. Im tearing myself apart. I dont know what to do. I feel as if I need to seclude myself from the world. I need help. Please.
Is love an ''Unconscious'' or ''Conscious'' feeling?
Love is both unconscious and conscious feeling unconscious love- it means u love the person but u dont quite understand it until you lose him/her OR u feel quite unhappy when they are not with u! conscious love- it means u know that u have feelings for that person and u do whatever it takes to make them happy
Why do people say that love hurts?
Why do peope say love hurts? Is it only when someone gets their heart broken by the one they love that it hurts? or can two people be in love and it still hurt. I don't understand it???? like i know why i have hurt in my relationship of 4 years but is it the normal thing in every relationship for people to hurt cause of love?
Can you describe the pain you feel during a twin flame journey?
Depending on your path, there can be a great deal of pain and it’s not the kind of pain that you can rationally explain or heal quickly. For example, there is pain in separation; that feeling of abandonment by your soul. From my own experience, it is like a living death. I wouldn’t wish it upon anyone.Twins are also connected in the heart and crown chakras. This is both beautiful and potentially painful. When my heart chakra opened up, I was flooded with emotions and then, my unawakened twin began a relationship with another. I felt it in my heart like a heart attack. It was a deep sharp pain that nearly knocked me down. It was followed with aching and overwhelming sadness. I felt hollow and cold. I feel her emotions at times and can’t stop my reactions to it.If you are a twin, especially an awakened one and your twin is not awakened, there can be all kinds of unintentional misery which you will encounter. And you can’t just resolve it by trying to wake them up. It doesn’t work like that. Meditate and send them your unconditional love regardless of your pain. As it has been said, “That’s the thing about pain, it demands to be felt.” and you should feel it and learn from the lessons it will teach you about his journey. There are many lessons to learn and healing to undergo, but it’s worth it in the end.Persevere through the pain and find yourself. You are a twin; a beam of light in the darkness and you were made to change the world.
Serious drug problem out of control but the pain is worse than my life being torn apart by them help please?
I started smoking pott when I as 13 after a horrible experience and used it to make me happy again but when i stopped about a yr ltr i became depressed i went to a therapist and he diognosed me with anxiety and massive deppressive he perscriped me klonapin 10mg!!! yes after i over dosed on it i went back to smoking and the occasional pills ive prolly been sober for a month total in the past 4 years and each time im in excusheating pain emotional and physical ive had nothing hurt the people i loved so much they dont trust or want to be around me but ever day i try to be sober i realize id rather b high with people that dont care more than how high i get them than be sober in that pain with the ones i love. please i dont kno wat to do i want to b sober but with out pain at the same time :/?? thank you so much for any advice.