Confused over a scorpio man!!!! Help!?
Hmm tricky. Really advise you to read 'men are from mars, women from venus' it really explains so much about the toing and froing that men do. When they need space it's best to just let them have space. Leo can be a bit full-on so you best advised to watch that, hang back and hang out with your friends instead (athough it's not cool for him to cancel a dinner date!) Scorpio is a fixed water sign, water being emotions, and 'still waters run deep'. That means their emotions are really deep and really deep down. Sometimes they may have trouble feeling what they are feeling (if that makes sense). And when that is a man, who finds it hard to deal with emotions anyway, it could be he is just feeling overwhelmed by his emotions and needs a bit of time to figure it out. The excuses about the job etc are just excuses. If you can bite your lip and hang on for a bit, chances are he will come back stronger than ever.
Confused over a Scorpio Man?
I have been seeing this a guy for about 3 months, he's a scorpio and I'm a capricorn, however I'm confused by his actions. At first, everything was cool, he seemed to really like me and everything. I would come stop by his house after work sometimes and we would just chill. About a month ago, I noticed things started to change. He use to call me sometimes from work, just to say hello, and now he doesn't call at all. The last time he called was Dec. 20th. We were suppose to spend Christmas together, but didn't, I called & left a message, didn't hear from him until I called about 4 days later, asked him was we still cool and he said yes. About a week and half ago, I stopped by his house and we slept together and during, he said something weird, that he wish he would have meet me along time ago therefore my kids would have been his, that he wanted to have my baby, and he was really feeling me. I'm confused, he still doesn't call, and I'm stuck here trying to figure him out.
Scorpio man confusing me? :/?
He's pulling away because he's put himself out there and told you exactly how he feels. Scorpio's are so protective of their feelings and telling a person that means they hope to hear the same too. You haven't. To him you don't feel the same at all. He's protecting himself from probable hurt by backing away. You have the upper hand because his "cards" have been laid out on the table his feelings have been told and you have yet to reveal your hand or feelings. Do not play him, he'll know and will come to dislike you intensely. If you don't feel the same just say it. Not knowing is a cruel experience for anyone. Scorpios are all or nothing in a relationship. And you'll know/feel exactly if your relationship with a Scorpio would be either. Scorpios need space sure, but we'll take it when we need it. Being given unasked space feels more like a mind game to us, which we hate. Is it you who, possibly, fears allowing yourself to get closer? Be honest with him, he sounds like he's willing to communicate. (Which is rare for Scorpio men). Tell him you like him, but fear how things may change. Or that losing his friendship over a breakup would make you feel horrible. Whatever your reasoning. Communication is essential to understanding each other. Best of luck!
What's the best way to confuse a Scorpio male?
A long time friend of mine likes to pull the typical Scorpio mind tricks; so I've decided to throw a monkey wrench into the "game". I've decided to hide my facebook wall from him (a prime spot for him to spy or stay 'in the know', without actually having to communicate with me). I wonder by not contacting him & hiding my wall from him, if it'll confuse him at all & how he'll react. What are the best tricks for gauging a reaction from them? This is only a test, to see what exactly he'll do because currently we're living in the same apartment complex but I'll be moving this weekend (which he knows). For the past 2 years we've practically been neighbors, so he's used to being able to conveniently drive by or keep tabs on me without me even knowing (he's a cop too). But now that I'm moving & then hiding my social settings from him; I wonder what he'll think of that.
Can Scorpio men be confused between 2 girls? If yes, to what extent? Will Scorpio men use someone who loves them dearly?
You have asked a lot of questions in this and in a way diluted the matter.If you are asking about that specific guy then it's a different question if you want to know about Scorpio men in general it's a different one.This guy if he had used you or cheated you it's not because he is Scorpio. Scorpio’s are one of the most loyal and trustworthy zodiac signs. They are the master of secret keepers. If they really love you they won't even let anyone hurt you. Yes but it's only untill you don't mess with them. Once you mess with them then sorry to say they can be the worst of the person you have seen.Scorpio is the sign which is very loyal and trustworthy. If this guy had cheated you or as you are saying if he is confused then there is an issue. Maybe you both had some fight or you had upset him. Because if a Scorpio or in that matter any person is trying to find a new partner or a way to dodge you this means you have done something which is not to be done.If you have done nothing then believe me that guy is not worth of your love. This nature of cheating and using person is his own. It has nothing to do with being a Scorpio.Moreover Scorpio people are those who are praised for their Attitude and Respect towards other gender that is the reason why different zodiac sign can hardly resist the urge or the attraction towards the Scorpio.So if he had used you or cheated on you leave him and move on and this attitude of that person has nothing to do with his zodiac sign.
Scorpio Woman, Pisces Guy....Confused!?
A pisces guy & I (I am a scorpio) are very close friends and about two Weeks ago he drunkenly called me while he was on his way home saying how bad it was out and that if anything were to happen then he wanted me to be the last person he talked to. After we hung up he text me saying he would "totally" date me. It surprised me and I was half asleep so my reply was that he was just saying that because he was drunk. That obviously didn't go over well. Two nights later he stayed on my couch after a group of us had gone out (which is a normal thing for him to stay on the couch). He kissed me several times, but I resisted some because we were drunk. A few days later I apologized if I had hurt his feelings and thought I had explained that I had feelings, but I wasn't clear I guess because this past weekend he stayed over and told me that he thinks he might date another girl he has hung out with a couple of times and that I told him I just wanted to be friends. I explained that's not what I meant, but he doesn't remember bc he was so intoxicated. He gets very uncomfortable when I try to talk about it so I hate pushing it....so I sent him a text clearly stating I do have feelings (not my ideal way to tell someone), but he hasn't acknowledged it. So confused!!
How does a Scorpio man act if he likes you? I'm very confused?
Interested but reserved…A Quick study of character. Scorpio men look deep into one's soul especially if it concerns a commitment. Loyalty, honesty, and honor are basic must haves if you are going to keep or enjoy the company of the greatest friendship you will ever know. Be real and don't be alarmed Scorpio men will take you places and show you a whole new way of seeing the world around you; get ready for an adventure to the stars…Oh and we are the best lovers in the bed and out of the bed..like I said be real…you don't have to try to hard..that will lose him. If you aren't sure reach out and hold his hand..if he holds your hand back with tenderness and warmth and he is starts looking in your soul windows .ie: your (eyes) and doesn't let go right away then you got a chance for certain. Don't ever lie to him and let him find out..friend he might remain however he will never forget…forgive perhaps but forget not ever. He loves things that smell good and he loves the exotic…rich reds and blacks… blues and greens. Cleanliness is important too..Usually and most generally a little class even if you don't have large finances. I wish you happy Scorpio man hunting lol. Smile!.
Scorpio ignoring me im confused as to why?
So we've been talking for about 2 months now. first time we were supposed to meet up I text him late that afternoon and told him i couldnt make it and i had to cancel. So that was a friday, we didnt talk at all until tuesday when he text me first asking how i was etc chit chat. Then we set up a second meeting for the following friday. So friday comes along, i text him in the arvo about 2pm, he doesnt get back to me until 5.30 and tells me he cant make it because something suddenly came up (bullsh*t but hey i cancelled on him so i guess he was getting me back for it - fair enough) so i dont reply back. Today is thursday I havent heard from him at all and on facebook his been MIA which is rare because his online everyday and always posting up status' and commenting on mine etc and its like his dissapeared into thin air. I text him this morning telling him i noticed his been MIA, hope that everything is well with him and to get back to me soon because i wanted to hear from him. I havent received a reply text and his usually fast with his replies if anything, its me that lags. Why is he ignoring me? Does he want me to chase? am i being tested?
This Scorpio man is confusing and giving mixed signals. What's really going on? Or what does it really mean?
I've been dating this Scorpio man for about 2 months now .. He went from wanting to be with me to doubting our relationship. He would text me everyday on and off. He would call me often. And he would say stuff like "Who sent you?".. He would tell me I was in his thoughts all day .. He would say he didn't understand why any guy would let me get away .. He'd tell me he enjoys my company also he enjoys my adventurous ideas. NOW he barely calls... He doesn't say the sweet things I listed instead he tries to break up with me and then five minutes later tell me he doesn't want to lose me.. Every time he breaks up with me and takes it back he says it's because he can't give me the time I require. He went from trying to spend time with me to saying he won't be able to provide time. He also stopped asking to come over. Why the sudden change? I don't get it. He spends most of his time with his friends and family that don't treat him right that use him and don't even appreciate him .. He told me seeing me 1-3 days out of the week is fine with him while he spends ALL of his time with his "friends&family".. I feel like he's putting me on a schedule while all they have to do is call him and he'll just up and leave me .. The same people he complains about to me and put him down ALL THE TIME. I don't get it.
Why are Scorpio men so confusing?
I have been with my Scorpio man for just over 4 months, we're both in our early 30s. Both of us had long term relationships in the past that obviously didn't work out, but we are together now and have both said we are in for the long haul. We have already said we love each other and can see a future. We are both taking things slow though and not wanting to rush.. The thing is at the begining he was very attentive, he was the one that asked me out, said he liked me etc, but sometimes he can be so hot and cold, into me one day and then I don't hear from him for weeks. I know he isn't cheating or anything like that and he has beens stressed lately with things going on in his life, but I can't figure him out. We have had a few arguments (not anything worth breaking up over) because I sometimes don't know where I stand, so I will ask him "do you love me cos I don't know what you want" and he gets angry and says "you know I do" Am I supposed to be patient with him? I am a Leo and I am not the most patient person, but I give him space when/if he needs it, I try not to be too clingy or demaning cos he hates it, but I hate being ignored. I have told him if he wants to break up then please do it and do not lead me on, but he just says he wants to be with me and loves me. Arrrrggggh someone please help me. No rude comments.