I feel too fat and ugly for my crush?
I like this boy. And he likes me back. Its just I feel like I'm too fat and ugly for him? He's taller than me by like 2 inches but I'm fatter than him. don't get me wrong, I'm not huge, I'm just chubby or "thick". I'm 5'0 and weigh 145lbs. I'm trying to lose weight, so I could feel more comfortable and confident with myself, but its taking soo long for me to reach my goals! I keep trying to convince myself that he already likes me so I shouldn't worry about it, but I don't like me! He said I'm pretty and "fine" lol but I'm still insecure! I feel like I'm pushing him away because of it! :( today he had his shirt opened And he has a nice body! lol 6 pack and stuff, but I have fat and rolls ughhh :( I feel like ****. in my head, I keep telling myself "when I lose the weight, I'll go out with him" but by the time I lose weight, his feeling for me will probably be gone! What should I do? Can anyone relate? Ps: please don't tell something like "don't lose weight for any guy" because I'm not doing it for him! I'm doing it for me! And I'm 17 btw.
How can I get over a stupid crush on a girl I don’t even talk to and stop my feelings from going any further?
Hah. Crushes. Enjoy the crush. It makes you energetic. When I was a teenager, how many hours I would have spent thinking about the crush, would even wait discreetly to catch a glimpse.It will go away on its own. The best way in my view is - imagine her married, or imagine her face after 20 years. This will bring you back to senses. So many times I see an old crush in their 30s, and they look as normal as anyone. Then I used to ask, is this a person I had a crush on?
Why do I act in a stupid manner around my crush?
One is you either try to hard, or try to be a perfectionist to a point one hint of mistake topples your whole act with your crush. We do this to our crush, especially when we don’t believe our typical personality and how our day to day personality might not attract them to like us.We do crazy things to make us look attractive to them in hopes of them liking us back, but everything backfires simply because we acted like different people to somewhat we’re not.My suggestion, well you’ll have to be yourself around her genuinely without the need to try and impress her. Just be normal around her, and good chance she’ll follow up. But if you don’t believe you’re a capable person right now, well consider a personality upgrade which doesn’t mean changing to a different person, just a V2.0 of you you were.
My crush always kills the convo?
So first off I'm pretty sure my crush likes me. The other day he sent me a picture out of the blue that said "keep calm and date a pitcher". He knows how much I love baseball.. and he's a pitcher. But anyway.. a lot of times when we're texting, our convos don't last. He'll send something dumb like "yeah" and to me.. that's a convo killer so I stop replying. That happened this morning. So I stopped replying and now I'm kind of regretting it. I just hope he doesn't hate me or lose interest. I didn't know if I was supposed to ask a question or something to try keeping it going or if he didn't even wanna talk anymore. Ahhh I'm probably just overthinking everything but who knows when I'll hear from him again. Basically I guess I'm asking if you think he'll be pissed at me or if I did an okay thing?
I overheard my crush and his friend talking about me?
Someones told me before that my crush has an interest in me. He never does anything about it though, just stares or talks to people around me...yet trying to get my attention. He's so outgoing too so I don't see why he does that! I don't do anything either though because he makes things awkward with all the staring and trying to get noticed that I almost don't want to do anything! Well yesterday I passed by him and his friend and they were talking. I heard them talking about something, and then heard his friend say "...yeah see if she doesn't make an effort then maybe she really isn't into you" and I looked back and they were looking at me. I think he said this because I ignored him when I walked by. I used to make it obvious I was interested in him but not that much anymore. Well today I saw him alone on a bench and I totally turned to walk the other way, it caught me off guard. Like that's how awkward it feels around him now. WELL I thought I was in the clear, but he walked by me and I caught HIM off guard! Like I literally saw an expression of surprise and panic when he saw me, and he even stopped walking for a second. It's just so awkward. What do I do? Every time I WANT to talk to him, he makes himself seem unapproachable.
How do you feel when you have a crush on someone?
At first, a crush feels like a swarm of butterflies has just hatched in your stomach and they're trying to escape. It feels like jumping from the top of a waterfall and into the cool, clear, refreshing water on a blazingly humid summer day. It feels like dancing in the rain under a canvas of bright stars and not caring what anyone thinks of your moves.It feels safe and warm and blissful. It is a beautiful dream you never want to wake up from. It feels like you're invincible and speeding down an open highway at 100 miles per hour. It tastes like your first bite of cheery cheesecake after dieting for a year. It is quenching, like an oasis, after walking through the desert with nothing to drink. It is a cool summer breeze. It is the first snowfall.A crush is new and beautiful and fills you with inspiration. Their laugh sounds like music and mundane activities become adventures. You anticipate the time you'll spend together and think of them when you're apart.The world becomes so much more beautiful and your problems will not seem so troubling. You'll find profound meaning in the most trivial of things and everything will feel brand new. There are an infinite amount of new experiences to be had and you'll look forward to everything.It feels like a triumph and reward at the same time. It feels like conquering that scary rollercoaster at the fair- complete with the adrenaline rush. It is wonderful, frightening, exciting, and beautiful.It is rare and fleeting, and perhaps that is what makes it so beautiful. If all goes right, though, it might just turn into love; and love, true love, by far, is the gold at the end of the rainbow; the ultimate prize.
Does everyone act dumb naturally in front of their crush?
I actually don't know that everyone do this but I have done this.I had a crush on a male sports teacher in my school. So one day I went to him :Me- Good morning sir, sir actually I want to join basketball.Sir-yes sure , you can come from tomorrow morning for practice.Me- sir do I have to come in basketball court?(even when I was aware that basketball practice will be held in basketball court only).Sir(in a sarcastic tone)- No , actually you have to be there at school terrace for the practice.This thing seriously made me so embarrass and i went to him with one my friend , she said to me in front of him “you are so dumb megha”. And the sir actually burst into laughter.P.s.- i never went for the practice.
How did you meet ur husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfri...
I went to visit my mom where she works, and he was there...my mom kinda "forced" us into meeting each other. That was really awkward, 'cause I thought he was so cute, but way out of my league. and some woman must be REALLY lucky...and now he's my husband.